What's YOUR weakness when it comes to the opposite gender?

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  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    edited September 2022
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    OnlyPans wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    When he’s open about the things he likes.🔥

    I mean that's how you get the things you like, no?

    some people are passive aggressive or guilt trippy or exclusively use the socratic method
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,010 Member
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    OnlyPans wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    When he’s open about the things he likes.🔥

    I mean that's how you get the things you like, no?

    Exactly! Seems like it should be a no brainer to me.
  • OnlyPans
    OnlyPans Posts: 629 Member
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    OnlyPans wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    When he’s open about the things he likes.🔥

    I mean that's how you get the things you like, no?

    some people are passive aggressive or guilt trippy or exclusively use the socratic method

    Wait, isn't the Socratic method cooperative?

  • luisdizzle
    luisdizzle Posts: 11 Member
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    Anyone that actively does things for me without having to ask is extremely attractive. Make me feel like I matter and you’ll have my heart.
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,594 Member
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    luisdizzle wrote: »
    Anyone that actively does things for me without having to ask is extremely attractive. Make me feel like I matter and you’ll have my heart.

    This is very important in any relationship 😊 it's the little things that matter the most.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
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    luisdizzle wrote: »
    Anyone that actively does things for me without having to ask is extremely attractive. Make me feel like I matter and you’ll have my heart.

    This is very important in any relationship 😊 it's the little things that matter the most.

    True But I often struggle with knowing exactly what someone wants or needs. It’s nice being asked instead of trying to be a mind reader
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,594 Member
    edited September 2022
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    luisdizzle wrote: »
    Anyone that actively does things for me without having to ask is extremely attractive. Make me feel like I matter and you’ll have my heart.

    This is very important in any relationship 😊 it's the little things that matter the most.

    True But I often struggle with knowing exactly what someone wants or needs. It’s nice being asked instead of trying to be a mind reader

    I expect my man to read my mind all the time 🤣

    Eta: like when I say I don't want any snacks when he goes to the store. He better bring me snacks anyways
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
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    luisdizzle wrote: »
    Anyone that actively does things for me without having to ask is extremely attractive. Make me feel like I matter and you’ll have my heart.

    This is very important in any relationship 😊 it's the little things that matter the most.

    True But I often struggle with knowing exactly what someone wants or needs. It’s nice being asked instead of trying to be a mind reader

    I expect my man to read my mind all the time 🤣

    Eta: like when I say I don't want any snacks when he goes to the store. He better bring me snacks anyways
    I think you two might have a special arrangement😂❤️
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,042 Member
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    luisdizzle wrote: »
    Anyone that actively does things for me without having to ask is extremely attractive. Make me feel like I matter and you’ll have my heart.

    This is very important in any relationship 😊 it's the little things that matter the most.

    True But I often struggle with knowing exactly what someone wants or needs. It’s nice being asked instead of trying to be a mind reader

    Lol I’m the same - I do try to think of things she might like and surprise her tho - i think cards are horrible but she loves them so if I’m at the store and it crosses my mind I’ll pick up a dumb card for her
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,623 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    luisdizzle wrote: »
    Anyone that actively does things for me without having to ask is extremely attractive. Make me feel like I matter and you’ll have my heart.

    This is very important in any relationship 😊 it's the little things that matter the most.

    True But I often struggle with knowing exactly what someone wants or needs. It’s nice being asked instead of trying to be a mind reader

    Lol I’m the same - I do try to think of things she might like and surprise her tho - i think cards are horrible but she loves them so if I’m at the store and it crosses my mind I’ll pick up a dumb card for her

    😂 I hate cards too, I refuse to waste my money
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
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    OnlyPans wrote: »
    OnlyPans wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    When he’s open about the things he likes.🔥

    I mean that's how you get the things you like, no?

    some people are passive aggressive or guilt trippy or exclusively use the socratic method

    Wait, isn't the Socratic method cooperative?

    well what are you basing your reasoning on?
  • Peachesnstuff
    Peachesnstuff Posts: 1,261 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    luisdizzle wrote: »
    Anyone that actively does things for me without having to ask is extremely attractive. Make me feel like I matter and you’ll have my heart.

    This is very important in any relationship 😊 it's the little things that matter the most.

    True But I often struggle with knowing exactly what someone wants or needs. It’s nice being asked instead of trying to be a mind reader

    Lol I’m the same - I do try to think of things she might like and surprise her tho - i think cards are horrible but she loves them so if I’m at the store and it crosses my mind I’ll pick up a dumb card for her

    Save your ten dollars and write her a "dumb love note" instead.

    Trust me, she'll appreciate this much more.

    You're welcome 😄
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    luisdizzle wrote: »
    Anyone that actively does things for me without having to ask is extremely attractive. Make me feel like I matter and you’ll have my heart.

    This is very important in any relationship 😊 it's the little things that matter the most.

    True But I often struggle with knowing exactly what someone wants or needs. It’s nice being asked instead of trying to be a mind reader

    Lol I’m the same - I do try to think of things she might like and surprise her tho - i think cards are horrible but she loves them so if I’m at the store and it crosses my mind I’ll pick up a dumb card for her

    This is a nice combination because she has told you what she likes and you are occasionally surprising her with it so it’s just a little of both that is very sweet. I like this

  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,042 Member
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    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    luisdizzle wrote: »
    Anyone that actively does things for me without having to ask is extremely attractive. Make me feel like I matter and you’ll have my heart.

    This is very important in any relationship 😊 it's the little things that matter the most.

    True But I often struggle with knowing exactly what someone wants or needs. It’s nice being asked instead of trying to be a mind reader

    Lol I’m the same - I do try to think of things she might like and surprise her tho - i think cards are horrible but she loves them so if I’m at the store and it crosses my mind I’ll pick up a dumb card for her

    Save your ten dollars and write her a "dumb love note" instead.

    Trust me, she'll appreciate this much more.

    You're welcome 😄

    Ugh then I gotta try and say what I feel blah blah blah - this is where she should be the mind reader 😂

  • R3d_butt3rfly_
    R3d_butt3rfly_ Posts: 1,506 Member
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    When he knows I love bridges and everytime he passes one he sends me a picture. Even if it's the same bridge he crosses every day 😂❤ I suppose it's the little things that he remembers about me and that just melts me into a pile of stupid love
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,010 Member
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    Big, strong, useful hands.🫦
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
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    someone to nap with
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,594 Member
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    Idk, my partner was eating a chocolate bar yesterday and he gave me his last bite. That's love because I'd never share my chocolate and candy.
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,594 Member
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    someone to nap with

    Yes, I love naps 😊
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,042 Member
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    someone to nap with

    Yes, I love naps 😊

    How are you guys after a nap tho ?? I generally feel refreshed however some womans I know are kinda cranky after a nap 🤔
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