Is it impolite to ask "so how much have you lost "

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  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    Women think too much about what other people are thinking.
  • ReaderGirl3
    ReaderGirl3 Posts: 868 Member
    I never, ever ask someone if they've lost weight. Learned my lesson by doing this one time and found out the weight loss was due to chemo treatments (epic foot n' mouth moment there).
  • MissusMoon
    MissusMoon Posts: 1,900 Member
    If someone looks like they've lost weight and also look happy, I tell them they look fabulous, and I mean it. If someone has lost weight and looks miserable (and I'm close to them), I politely let them know that I'm there for them without saying "Hey, you look miserable!"
  • blues4miles
    blues4miles Posts: 1,481 Member
    JeromeBarry1 wrote: »
    Women think too much about what other people are thinking.

    Yes. All women. No guys ever worry about what other people are thinking.

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  • ksjjjerry
    ksjjjerry Posts: 2 Member
    It always feels good to me to have someone notice my weight loss! I am very glad that no one in the past ever mentioned my weight gains! "How much have you gained?" would have been too much for me to handle!

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