Eating When Hungry vs. Sticking to a Calorie Plan
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lynn_glenmont wrote: »RickyCoogin wrote: »Anvil - What I don't understand is how people cannot comprehend beyond their own personal beliefs, e.g., "I find this girl hot...why don't you?"
So you wish that you were really big...so that means you cannot understand how another guy would not want to be big? Would not see the big meathead look as not something to emulate?
Whether I understand it or not isn't relevant. I'm not you, so I don't have to understand or agree with your thoughts or goals and you don't have to understand or agree with mine. My friends and I disagree all the time about things and it's not a condition of our friendship that we think the exact same way and understand everything about what each other are doing. We still get along just fine.
The question is, what are you going to do to make yourself happy and comfortable in your own skin? What do you think your options are? You've painted yourself into a corner and it doesn't look like you've left yourself any way out. You find being tall repulsive, but you're tall. You find being bald repulsive, but you're bald. You find masculinity repulsive, but you're a man. Where do you plan to go from there? I'm curious about how you think you're going to resolve your issues.
I settled on insightful, but this is awesome, too. And I like it.
Your ambiguity is inspiring.1 -
RickyCoogin wrote: »Nony - I don't want a girl who finds big bald guys attractive. Whether I like it or not, big bald guys are seen as hypermasculine, which I think is stupid and one thing I really, really value is the woman's taste. I don't want a woman who thinks that it's hot for a guy to be big and bald.
The hard part is getting the right woman to notice you. In my experience, the women into me wanted some big protective meathead type. I want someone who doesn't notice that I'm a big bald guy. I don't want a girl who actively WANTS a big bald guy.
I don't automatically consider big, bald men to be hyper masculine. Last I checked, I'm a woman. But thanks for assuming you know what I think.
And again, you're contradicting yourself. You say physical attraction is important, presumably you want to be with someone you're physically attracted to, but you don't want them to be physically attracted to you.
And I have a hard time believing you value anything about women. Your posts here and some of the horrible things you've said certainly don't give that impression.11 -
RickyCoogin wrote: »...I want someone who doesn't notice that I'm a big bald guy...
Maybe consider dating a blind girl? *shrug* That's about the only suggestion I could possibly offer at this point, given the multitude of parameters you've set forth. I also agree with @Nony_Mouse that you've made some incredibly insulting, misogynistic and sweeping statements about women.
BTW, who's profile picture are you using? Because that guy has hair.17 -
RickyCoogin wrote: »...I want someone who doesn't notice that I'm a big bald guy...
Maybe consider dating a blind girl? *shrug* That's about the only suggestion I could possibly offer at this point, given the multitude of parameters you've set forth. I also agree with @Nony_Mouse that you've made some incredibly insulting, misogynistic and sweeping statements about women.
BTW, who's profile picture are you using? Because that guy has hair.
It's Alex Winter (of Bill and Ted fame).3 -
RickyCoogin wrote: »I think physical attraction is important. I don't want a woman who finds me physically attractive because I don't like how I look. That goes with what I said before.
*sigh*
You want to find a women who will like and love you no matter what size you are. Once again, stop thinking for women. We hate that.
I was 270lbs when my husband fell in love with me.
I was that heavy when we got married.
We've been married for 10 years.
I didn't lose weight for anyone. I lost weight for me?
Why?
I lost my mother due to heart disease in April. I don't want to follow suit.10 -
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