WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JULY 2017
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Carol in GA. How cool the grandkids getting involved! Its fun to have a rock painting party! Each city does it for the most part. Just look up "( insert city name) Rocks" on Facebook and see. Some artists post hint pics so you know kind of where to take a walk and hunt. Etiquette dictates that you don't take more than your share ( like 4), keep for awhile to enjoy, then rehid
e or paint new ones to travel. Many artists like to know if their rocks have been found, so post the rocks on the site if they are labelled on the back. Some artists have friends from far away, and periodically exchange rocks with each other. Some groups get together and exchange that way. Any excuse to have a potluck with friends in your city right? Lol!
These are pics from a rock group where my son lives in Whidbey island, WA! Amazing!
Becca
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Heather – DDnL#2 wants to give Will a baby so much ‘it hurts’. Going to a specialist is really, really expensive because they either have to go to Jackson, MS or Baton Rouge, LA every other day to be checked out to see if any eggs have dropped. Her fallopian tubes are almost totally blocked, so having one naturally is going to be something short of a miracle. They would have to go during the months that Will can leave whenever he needs to (which means before the middle of September). I think they have just ‘given up’; but, every month she has a period, she knows she isn’t pregnant. Because they turn 39 in August, they are getting to the age that they are not considered good candidates/ They decided to start looking for a house or property to build on (they want to get on the lake). I laughed and told her last year, all they’d probably have to do is ‘buy a house’ and she’d find she was pregnant, jokingly of course. She is already upset that it seems like she won’t be able to give him a baby. I tell her that is NOT why he married her (and Mallory), he did so because he was ‘head over heels’ in love with both of them.
Childcare here is a ‘minimum’ of about $75 per child per week, maybe more since we no longer have children in daycare. If you keep several age groups you are required to have a certain number or working watching out for them. Insurance, all other sorts of things and you are expected to ‘teach’ them to get them ready to pass a first grade test.
They expect to be paid for the upcoming week; and, you had better NOT get behind or you’ll find yourself being told, ‘you need to find a different daycare’. Most of them stay at compassity.
Beth – I am also meticulous about my checking account and I want to balance to the penny. When I buy checks, it drives me crazy that they don’t tell you when they send them how much they’ll cost, they just take it out; so I put that they have taken out $40.
I’ve wrecked my car twice since last May; both times it was my fault. So when all of a sudden my right passenger stopped sounding like a heavy car door slamming and started sounding like a tin can (without any insulation) I took it to my Agent and he called for an adjuster to come look at it. Then I was told that ‘maybe’ I shouldn’t file a 3rd claim within a year; so I took it back to the body shop and told him they weren’t going to pay as they had suggested that I not file another claim. I did hit a curb when I had my first wreck; but, he told me and the adjuster that they would have noticed that the running board had been bent when I brought it in for those repairs. We were surprised they did not total the car. Over $16K worth of repairs. So he told me that depending on what it took to fix it, he’d help me out on the deductible. So Louis and Trey went to pick it up, Trey drove off in it and Louis said that Mr. Perry never mentioned a price while they were talking about it. Apparently he was able to put a block on it and know the bow in it out. Now the door sounds like it should when I shut it and it isn’t binding when it is closed and opened. Of course, I guess he could always bill us. He’s been in business for 40 years, at least; and has fixed other cars for us and we used to recommend him and 2 other body shops to clients. They said that it looked like someone had hit a curb (run over it). I know I haven’t and Louis says he hasn’t, Trey’s says he hasn’t and the only others who have driven it is DDnL#2 (and I did not like it), and DOGD. DDnL#1 never looks me in the eye when she is talking about anything, including the weather. She did not admit nor deny ever running over anything. I’m sure DOGD would deny it, too. Pisses me off, in a way – but somebody did run over something to make that running board bow up. At least it was NOT the frame!
Margaret – When I get ‘junk’ mail and it has a return address and it has postage prepaid, a good friend of mine told me they don’t get charged for pre-paid postage until that response gets returned. So when I get something I cut it up in pieces and then stick some more trash that doesn’t have my name and/or address on it and then would take a bagful to the P.O. and send it back to them. It was surprising how few things of junk I get in the mail now.
Okie in Central Texas – All it took for me was get within 1lb of hitting 200lbs on a 5’4” frame. I looked quite dowdy at my son’s wedding, especially after I had changed into flats before the pictures were taken. I’ve lost the equivalent of an elephants’ heart and working on down to his ‘penis’ or more. About 60llbs total. It is a lot harder now that I am close to my goal. A LOT HARDER.
Welcome to all the “Newbies”. Congrats to all the NSV as well as those lbs. lost. For anyone else needing {{{{{HUGS}}}}}; here they are. Even those who have taken the wrong side of the hill to slide down, don’t give up; you’ll get there. This is a journey not a ‘diet to race through’. Slow baby steps on losing so you will have a better chance of changing your life-style in the meanwhile.
Lenora
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Oh I found a neat video on the bank that I worked at during the 1980's. Quite an extraordinary bldg! I was a lobby assistant, between my junior and senior year of high school. Then after graduating I worked on the mezzanine overlooking the main floor in the installment loan dept, as an insurance clerk. My father was the Main Branch manager, and I could see his desk from my desk. Comforting, but unsettling because my parents were divorced at the time. We met for coffee most every morning though at a restaurant next door. Great memories!
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VmPBZfTPJkU
Enjoy!
Becca
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Happy Saturday, Ladies!
July Goals for the week 7/16 – 7/22
400 calories under budget 5X: XXXXX
Weights/Abdominals 3X: OXX
Planks 3X: OXX
I would have managed day 6 under goal, but, I spaced some sauces on my dinner last night... I remembered today when I had had some sleep. I was only 200 and change under yesterday. Bummer.
But, I have today to get in my last planks and weight training.
so... that's all good.
*NYKaren - I understand the frustration on being one of two... however it's one of those things that you can see from several different perspectives. Maybe they want to give the kids the opportunity to learn from two great candidates instead of one... Maybe they really can't decide and want you guys to get a long-term trial so they can make a decision for next year... who knows? But... how many original candidates were there? Obviously you are in the top of the heap - and that has to feel good. I would try to take the positive view on this - and go for it. The worst thing that can happen is that you find it intolerable to share and you feel the need to quit. Would that be the worst thing in the whole world? I am hoping for the best - that 1) you love teaching the kids... and 2) this other fellow becomes a friend and you guys can team up and work together to give the kids the best possible experience, ever. (Hugs!)
Becca - those rocks are gorgeous. I hope the docs get you all fixed up. I am a big wuss when it comes to pain.
Welcome to the new folks!!
Have to run, Girls... so much to do before I can head for the gym!
Hugs for Everybody!!
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stats for the day:
rowing machine- 20min, 3329meters 59aw = 137c
other- around basketball court- single leg squats 10 each, set 30 sets, single leg balancing swings touch floor and single leg squat balancing- 40min = 200c
other-quick jumping and single leg hop- 9min = 98c
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afternoon ladies~
took a little nap, and then a bath, feeling refreshed now..Tom out for dinner, im going to a friends house for dinner and wine.. tomorrow, doing small grocery shop and taking my dad to visit friends, then home to try and pack a bit more...5 -
Hugs Allie!!! We love you!!!
Becca
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Hello lovely ladies! It has been a busy day. I slept in until 7am, due to the fact that it was raining when my alarm went off at 5:30. Was going to walk early to avoid the heat and humidity. Nope. I did walk when I got up, in the steam. I got my shopping done and came home and started to cook. Cooking this week for my family, my daycare, and my in-laws. I made italian sausage and ricotta stuffed manicotti, chicken fajitas with peppers and onions and wild rice, and a chicken club pasta salad. These meals I made enough for us and for in-laws. Then I prepped broccoli and greens for the week, pureed strawberry and portioned that for smoothies this week, made black bean burgers and lentil falafel patties for my vegan girl and froze those. Lastly, I portioned out six bags of veg for my "pound a day". Four hours of meal prep; but so worth it when I am so tired/tired of cooking during the week!
DD called me in tears, because she had just been in to see her OB/GYN and she has gained 20 pounds since Joaquin's birth. I kind of saw that coming, when she would tell me what she was eating daily/weekly, during her daily phone calls to me. It is a hard habit to break that mentality that you need to give in to cravings or babying/treating yourself when you are pregnant or a new mommy. I decided to be her "boot" and I called her and offered to be her accountability person if she will be mine. We will be talking tomorrow and comparing our meal/food prep notes. We will be measuring ourselves and weighing in on Monday mornings. She was always a headstrong, strongwilled, stubborn child. I am hoping that it still works for her. I think her biggest challenge is going to be sticking to smart choices while at the office, among all of the treats and snacks brought in and meeting at lunch twice a week with her ladies group. And she called me out on my slacking off and told me that she doesn't want to hear another "fat" comment about myself coming out of my own mouth. (I am good at lifting her and others up, I am not so kind to myself). So...this is the first time we have done a mother/daughter food plan. Here's hoping for success.
Heather - Entering my foods has been challenging. I noticed the items taking a long time to load, or our items/amounts we enter are taking a long time to appear. Very frustrating. I thought it was just some glitch in my own computer or internet connection.
Machka - What a beautiful area! If I had such stunning vistas at the top of every hill and at each bend, I would definitely bike more often! I hope the hills weren't too much for you!
Dana- Wow! Cool collection of artifacts! I am not a collector of anything (except maybe dust). My DH collects license plates. Not just ANY license plates. University of Notre Dame license plates. (exciting stuff, huh?) Yeah. They hang in the garage. His entire office is a little shrine to ND. I made him promise to keep it contained to that room. If it were something like your DH's collection, I would have that displayed some where. I love history.
Beth- Wowsa! What a week you have had! It sounds as if you are taking it all in stride, though. Your post is in high spirits and is making me laugh. Your thoughts on your funeral "They better miss me!" sounds like what goes on in my head. I would prefer to live well into my 100's; but sometimes I find myself thinking, "if I go first, God, please let me be a fly on the wall and watch my family try to do everything that I accomplish in a day/week."
Margaret- Frank Abagnale. lol I read the name and re read the name and thought "did she just say Frank Abagnale?" I bet he looks nothing like Leonardo DiCaprio!
About all of you shredders- Do you shop at Staples? I often get coupons on my receipt for free shredding (up to 2 pounds of paper). You don't have to have more than that, or purchase anything. You can go in with two pounds of paper and they will shred it for free. We don't take bank statements or personal things there; but we do take those pesky "offers" that you get in the mail and don't use. If you throw them in the trash, if your name and they give you a pre-approved account number is on it, it can be used by some one else under your name. We shred that kind of thing there.
Cheri and Karen- Woo-hoo another Women 50+ "meet up"! How exciting! Take pictures!
Becca- Very pretty rocks! Rock on sista!
Carol- Cute grand kids! We do some rock painting too! I just did a craft earlier this week with the kids. The each found eight rocks and painted four to look like lady bugs and four to look like bumble bees and when they dried we took them outside and I showed them how to use sticks, or chalk on the drive way to make a tic tac toe board and the bugs and bees were in place of the X's and O's! Fun stuff.
Thank you all for the concern about the daycare families and financial woes. It will all work out. It always does. I have talked to both families and let them know what was going on and that they need to get a hold of their case workers and "stay on" them to get things taken care of. IN the meantime; I told them that they need to begin making payments on what is owed. IF/when the state corrects the issues, I will be able to claim the hours unpaid and reimburse the families what is owed to them. The going rate for childcare in my area is about $150-$175/child/week. In Grand Rapids, which is about 25 miles away and a bigger city, the going rate is $180-$225/child/week! My niece just moved here from the Baltimore area and she was paying $200/week for her son's daycare and she had to pay for the provider's seven weeks off/year. I do have my families pay my vacation time also, but it is only four weeks/year. I am hoping to someday work "teacher's hours" (yes, I know teacher's work many hours outside of school, and I mean no disrespect in the way I put this) and have Christmas Break, Spring Break and summers off.
Anyway...I guess that is all for now. Sending love and hugs and big hoorays for those who need them! ttfn KJ (Kelly)5 -
Allie, does your brother know all that yOU do? You are one of the most selfless human I know.
When Charlie's Dad married his second wife, she was against about anything anyone could say. If I said this print is black, she would say it was something else. She wasn't liked by a lot of people. I did something good for his Dad's Boy Scout group one year and got n her good graces so I was OK. But their neighborhood for drainage purposes needed a ditch put on their street. She was very vocal against it. So when his Dad died she had him cremated and was going to throw his ashes in that ditch just to spite the neighbors. I didn't want that for my FIL so now I have half of his ashes. I hope when either Charlie or I are buried we can put this box in our vault with us. We loved him dearly. He was Charlies Karaoke buddy.
I am really tired and going to bed quite early, like real soon.
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Well, so far I've cooked two meals in the Instant Pot and I liked both of them better the way I used to cook them. The first was honey garlic chicken thighs and the second was cabbage, onions, potatoes, and polish sausage. I used recipes I found on the internet. I need to try a roast and also just some plain pinto beans. If I don't like either of those, I'm going to give up. Oh, and cheesecake. I do want to try cheesecake! I've ordered a cookbook from Amazon. I do like the set and ignore part, but both dishes were lacking in flavor somehow.2
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My word for 2017 is balance. After two days of dancing both in the morning and afternoon and being gone from the house most of the day, today was Jake's day and we did what he wanted to do. He had phone calls to make in the morning so I had time to walk the dogs and do some work in the yard. Today is our neighborhood's yearly yard sale so we walked around a bit and talked to neighbors. Since we are so focused on decluttering, it was easy to not buy anything. Jake wanted to visit a lavender farm and have lavender ice cream. So we went to a small cafe near our house for ice cream and had lunch, then ice cream. Then we went home and napped with the pets for two hours. After the nap we went to one lavender farm where Jake took a few pictures and we walked around for a few minutes and left. It took awhile for him to say that he wanted to go out to eat again so we went to our favorite Mexican restaurant. When we got home, he found that the mailman had delivered the hat rack that he ordered so now he's on the floor in the living room putting it together. Soon it will be bedtime and we'll have spent a happy day together.
We have our own shredder with a box next to it for papers that need to be shredded. From time to time, Jake shreds for awhile til he fills a plastic bag or two and we put the shredded stuff in the recycling bin.
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Marcelyn my DH has been collecting for years. He has purchased many finds at artifact shows or from private individuals. He's well aware of the federal and state laws regarding Indian artifacts. (DH has an archeology degree) He certainly wouldn't want to jeopardize a whole collection by going out digging for them. We have found some points on our property which is very rare. I was shocked to see them wash up in the creek.
Heather Thanks for admiring DH's collection. It's only a small part of it. He has boxes and boxes of pottery, but he prefers the Mississippian cultures and the Caddo Indians. The points are Paleo. Much much older.
Lanette You may not want to give away your artifacts. They can be worth a lot of money.
Becca Love those rocks! They are works of art! And the video of the bank building. Very interesting.
Signing out early. Going to church early tomorrow.
Have a good evening all!
Dana in Arkansas
Clovis point found in our creek. About 10-12,000 years old.
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DanaReel180 wrote: »Machka I like your pictures of the Eastern Shore ride and your bicycle stuff!
My husband is a big collector too. He has been collecting American Indian artifacts for 50 years. Some Paleo points are 10-12 thousand years old and the Mississippian pottery about 800-1000 years old. I love them too since I always bought American Indian (Navajo) turquoise jewelry. I also collect some Indian dolls and baskets too.
Anasazi pottery from SW Colorado;
Some of DH's collection:
Thanks ... and nice collection!!
That photo of bicycle stuff is only a fraction of the whole collection. I see bicycle stuff ... and must have it.
Machka - love your little bikes! What a neat way to display them. Also loved the pictures of your neighborhood. I may have to put the Oz area on my bucket list. Any US Ex-pats living around there?
There's more in the cabinets below, and scattered here and there around the house.
Australia is beautiful, and quite varied. We're in Tasmania, an hilly/mountainous island state, so most of my photos will have water and hills or mountains in them.
There are some people from the US around ... and other places. I know another Canadian, several from the UK, and a large number from Asia.Machka - What a beautiful area! If I had such stunning vistas at the top of every hill and at each bend, I would definitely bike more often! I hope the hills weren't too much for you!
I have been getting better at the hills. When I moved here, the hills killed me and I was astounded at the people who could cycle up them like they were nothing. Bunch of mountain goats! But then, I was carrying extra weight ... so I lost the weight and kept practising on the hills and most of them aren't too bad now.
I did, however, walk one of them yesterday. Strava says it was 46% at the start but I don't believe that for a moment. They show the middle part as about 25% which is much more believable, and still a very steep climb.4 -
Call me crazy but I love to see other people happy and succeeding .
Good Evening my dear Friends,
Beth, too bad about your car and the deer but glad your son was okay.
Ginger, way to go!
Tailee, sorry for your loss. Good for you on getting back on track. Take one day at a time and you’ll get there.
Sending love, good thoughts and cool sunshine to all of you.
I Love you
DJ
Myrtle Beach, SC
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