How to approach girls in the gym???
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The last time a man spoke to me at the gym it was a young man with Downe Syndrome who was on the stationary bike next to me. He said "Hello Lady" looked me up and down and then turned to his carer and said loudly "She's not going fast enough" he was right, I was cruising.
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manderson27 wrote: »The last time a man spoke to me at the gym it was a young man with Downe Syndrome who was on the stationary bike next to me. He said "Hello Lady" looked me up and down and then turned to his carer and said loudly "She's not going fast enough" he was right, I was cruising.
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manderson27 wrote: »The last time a man spoke to me at the gym it was a young man with Downe Syndrome who was on the stationary bike next to me. He said "Hello Lady" looked me up and down and then turned to his carer and said loudly "She's not going fast enough" he was right, I was cruising.
I love everything about this story.
Also, it made me laugh....
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MagnumOpus1 wrote: »Bridge_marie wrote: »I’m gonna go with... Don’t.
What kind of nonsense reply is this?
Why wouldn't you approach someone you found attractive? As for the approach, not to be superficial but if you're higher on the well put together scale you're more likely get a better response. Putting that to one side, if you catch her gazing at you here and there she's interested. Simply pretend you're going over to use a machine where she's at then open conversation from there. Something along the lines of "I haven't seen you here before?" or "that weight is way too easy for you". If she's interested it'll roll from there. Whenever I say that it's actually genuine so at the same time just relax and feel what suits the moment. The same method works if there's just a hot girl you wanna pursue. Go over and use a machine or workout next to her then find an opening.
Good luck!
I think Don’t is a very good response. I know for myself anyway that I absolutely cannot stand when men try to hit on me while I’m at the gym. I’m there to focus on my work out and I don’t appreciate being bothered. Also all the pick up lines that you gave him would make me roll my eyes so far into the back of my head that I would see my brain.0 -
A woman doesn't want you to approach her at the gym if she doesn't like you, because she's focused on her workout.
If she has a crush on you, she would love to have you approach her at the gym, because her workout can wait.
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IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »A woman doesn't want you to approach her at the gym if she doesn't like you, because she's focused on her workout.
If she has a crush on you, she would love to have you approach her at the gym, because her workout can wait.
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IHaveMyActTogether wrote: »A woman doesn't want you to approach her at the gym if she doesn't like you, because she's focused on her workout.
If she has a crush on you, she would love to have you approach her at the gym, because her workout can wait.
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Don't do it.0
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Shower cams are a good ice breaker.0
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Just spank that *kitten* and give me 5 more always works NOT!! Lol.
Compliments and polite advise on form posture etc usually makes a good convo especially if your in good condition yourself she will show some interest in wanting talk more.0 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »
Actually...I am.0 -
After my workout, if at all. Basic gym etiquette still applies. If someone approaches me midworkout, 1. It had better be between sets and, 2. Be relevant to working out (How many sets to you have left?).
Basically smile and acknowledge. Then wait for a response. If no response, don't get pushy, just accept and move on.2 -
MistressSara wrote: »
Exactly! She will not show interest in talking more because you think you are in good shape. She will get annoyed because you seem like a know it all acting like a woman doesn’t know her way around the gym & she needs some dude to help her. Reading this post really explains a lot and why men act the way they do and think that these lame attempts will actually work LOL1 -
After my workout, if at all. Basic gym etiquette still applies. If someone approaches me midworkout, 1. It had better be between sets and, 2. Be relevant to working out (How many sets to you have left?).
Basically smile and acknowledge. Then wait for a response. If no response, don't get pushy, just accept and move on.
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MistressSara wrote: »
I'm gonna go with Ms. Sarah on this one.1 -
You can be friendly (maybe smile or say "hi"), but don't be a creeper...1
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