Hmm I am not the socially acceptable black woman or feminine body and so I am not seen as a lady who is deserving of a quality man so I have just accepted that until either I lose all my excess weight I will stay single as I have standards and don’t enjoy embarrassing myself or wasting my life with undesirables.
Hmm I am not the socially acceptable black woman or feminine body and so I am not seen as a lady who is deserving of a quality man so I have just accepted that until either I lose all my excess weight I will stay single as I have standards and don’t enjoy embarrassing myself or wasting my life with undesirables.
Can I ask what "the socially acceptable black woman" is? I wasn't aware there was a standard
Hmm I am not the socially acceptable black woman or feminine body and so I am not seen as a lady who is deserving of a quality man so I have just accepted that until either I lose all my excess weight I will stay single as I have standards and don’t enjoy embarrassing myself or wasting my life with undesirables.
Are you referring to macro vs micro factors of being a socially accepted black woman in relation to "being single " outside your current physique parameters, or something else?
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So sorry Tom
Ohhhh that one's dangerous...you know why?
Cuz...
Why do you think that is? Do you get bored easily?
1,2,4,8 ....but most of all 8 (I like not having to answer to anyone but myself.)
I’m ready for someone amazing though.
I totally agree. I don't have time for games! That turns me off from even trying to date.
Yes! It seems like that is the culture now. I don’t like it. First sign of dishonesty or story not adding up and I’m out.
Can I ask what "the socially acceptable black woman" is? I wasn't aware there was a standard
Are you referring to macro vs micro factors of being a socially accepted black woman in relation to "being single " outside your current physique parameters, or something else?