Calorie Counter

Message Boards Chit-Chat
You are currently viewing the message boards in:

The New Singles Hangout...Come & Mingle

1138139141143144166

Replies

  • phil2k17phil2k17 Member Posts: 293 Member Member Posts: 293 Member
    boehle wrote: »
    I am 37. Never been married and don't want to. That isn't normal lol

    Normal is subjective. Do what makes you happy and forget what society defines as "normal" so long as you aren't harming yourself or anyone else.
  • VersicolourVersicolour Member Posts: 6,179 Member Member Posts: 6,179 Member
    My motto since high school has been "Why be normal" It has never led me wrong
  • T1DCarnivoreRunnerT1DCarnivoreRunner Member Posts: 10,624 Member Member Posts: 10,624 Member
  • XxFunctionalStrengthxXXxFunctionalStrengthxX Member, Premium Posts: 2,135 Member Member, Premium Posts: 2,135 Member
    I thought Singles Awareness Day is Feb 15?
  • katarina005katarina005 Member Posts: 252 Member Member Posts: 252 Member
    Hi, 45 in Daytona Beach 😊
  • mattig89chmattig89ch Member Posts: 2,516 Member Member Posts: 2,516 Member
    I had...way too many sweets today. I just gave up today. Getting back on the wagon tomorrow. Hope everyone's day was...positive in some way.
  • XxFunctionalStrengthxXXxFunctionalStrengthxX Member, Premium Posts: 2,135 Member Member, Premium Posts: 2,135 Member
    theresa120 wrote: »
    How I’ve been spending my night. Just finished watching #Cats_the_Mewvie on Netflix 😂

    xtht67umyfwh.jpeg

    Sounds like a quiet evening. I got home late from work. Now, I'm kind of wishing I had some of the lasagna I made. :lol:
  • yogidani77yogidani77 Member Posts: 6,963 Member Member Posts: 6,963 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    what do you think about the concept of going out Saturday night alone? I hate doing that, sometimes it feels like an attack on my spirit, I might end up feeling even more lonely

    It doesn’t really bother me. I don’t do it often because I don’t have a lot of extra money for going out....that bothers me more than going out alone 🤣
    But if it makes you feel more lonely I say don’t do it...you should do things for yourself that make you feel better 🤗
    Maybe explore a hobby that you can do solo and put your time and money into that :)
  • mattig89chmattig89ch Member Posts: 2,516 Member Member Posts: 2,516 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    what do you think about the concept of going out Saturday night alone? I hate doing that, sometimes it feels like an attack on my spirit, I might end up feeling even more lonely

    tbh, I work Saturdays. So its never really been something I had to worry about.

    That said, I find all kinds of stuff to do on Saturday's on meetup. Have you tried checking that site out?
  • DecadeDuchessDecadeDuchess Member Posts: 315 Member Member Posts: 315 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    what do you think about the concept of going out Saturday night alone? I hate doing that, sometimes it feels like an attack on my spirit, I might end up feeling even more lonely

    It depends upon if it's something, that's meant to be done alone or not. I am able to swim laps alone for exercise, at my apartment complex's pool but miniature golfing requires at least another partner, so I never do that. I'll eat inside a Taco Bell alone because I get to choose, my seat but a diner'll seat just 1 person at a lunch counter instead of a booth, so I never do that either.
  • DecadeDuchessDecadeDuchess Member Posts: 315 Member Member Posts: 315 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    1sphere wrote: »
    what do you think about the concept of going out Saturday night alone? I hate doing that, sometimes it feels like an attack on my spirit, I might end up feeling even more lonely

    tbh, I work Saturdays. So its never really been something I had to worry about.

    That said, I find all kinds of stuff to do on Saturday's on meetup. Have you tried checking that site out?

    However I've found that this' only reasonably plausible, if an attendee has a vehicle or lives within a city, neither of which I do.
  • XxFunctionalStrengthxXXxFunctionalStrengthxX Member, Premium Posts: 2,135 Member Member, Premium Posts: 2,135 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    what do you think about the concept of going out Saturday night alone? I hate doing that, sometimes it feels like an attack on my spirit, I might end up feeling even more lonely

    It depends upon if it's something, that's meant to be done alone or not. I am able to swim laps alone for exercise, at my apartment complex's pool but miniature golfing requires at least another partner, so I never do that. I'll eat inside a Taco Bell alone because I get to choose, my seat but a diner'll seat just 1 person at a lunch counter instead of a booth, so I never do that either.

    How does mini golf require one other partner? I've played more than a few rounds solo. Also, while it is better for a restaurant to place a single person at the counter, it by no means that you are stuck there with no option. Most of the sit down style restaurants I go to will ask me if I have a preference where I sit.

    As to going out solo, I do it quite frequently. But, as mentioned, it really depends on what it is. If it's something that really does require two people, then I'll see if I can find someone to go. If not, then I go do it. Though, there are some things where going solo is not ideal. For example, I went to a huge Christmas light display to check it out. Was happy to go, and while the lighting was spectacular to see. It was primarily groups of people, particularly couples and families, so it kind of put it on the down side of the emotion scale.

    Speaking of going places, I need to hurry up and find a date for an event end of next month...
  • DecadeDuchessDecadeDuchess Member Posts: 315 Member Member Posts: 315 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    what do you think about the concept of going out Saturday night alone? I hate doing that, sometimes it feels like an attack on my spirit, I might end up feeling even more lonely

    It depends upon if it's something, that's meant to be done alone or not. I am able to swim laps alone for exercise, at my apartment complex's pool but miniature golfing requires at least another partner, so I never do that. I'll eat inside a Taco Bell alone because I get to choose, my seat but a diner'll seat just 1 person at a lunch counter instead of a booth, so I never do that either.

    How does mini golf require one other partner? I've played more than a few rounds solo. Also, while it is better for a restaurant to place a single person at the counter, it by no means that you are stuck there with no option. Most of the sit down style restaurants I go to will ask me if I have a preference where I sit.

    As to going out solo, I do it quite frequently. But, as mentioned, it really depends on what it is. If it's something that really does require two people, then I'll see if I can find someone to go. If not, then I go do it. Though, there are some things where going solo is not ideal. For example, I went to a huge Christmas light display to check it out. Was happy to go, and while the lighting was spectacular to see. It was primarily groups of people, particularly couples and families, so it kind of put it on the down side of the emotion scale.

    Speaking of going places, I need to hurry up and find a date for an event end of next month...

    Like bowling, there's scoring. Sure people'll go bowling by themselves, especially if they're practicing for a competition since it's also a sport but miniature golf's a family, couple or friend group form of entertainment.
Sign In or Register to comment.