Women 200lb+, Let's Be Fang-tastic This October!!!
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I was last on here on Thursday. My husband took Friday and today off so it was/is sort of a 4 day weekend for us. However we had an agenda. We had to get my home office/art room ready. Friday I donated 5 boxes of kids art supplies after sorting through and recycling it all. Then I worked on the hallways in the basement so I could actually get into my art room. I am not the one who piles things everywhere. Mostly it was older towels and linens. I sorted through them and had my husband move the shelves out of the way and put the towels and linens away all organized. Our upstairs newer linens and towels are put away upstairs. Then I put all the remaining art supplies away in my art room. He put up my desk and I put all the office supplies away. Then he vacuumed the room for me since by that time I was reacting to all the dust. It is done. I have a home office/art room. I have decluttered the basement hallways. I have organized and added shelves to the downstairs bathroom. My daughter is on task to clean it this week. Thursday it was beautiful so I actually went outside and did my strength training in the backyard. I didn’t do the indoor part since I have been getting more physical activity cleaning and setting up things. I am going to transfer my office corner of my living room to downstairs this week. So I will still get in those stair flights and more steps for a while.
This job is not permanent but it will get me past the pandemic and close to retirement. So when the office opens up and when my job ends in a year or 2 I will have this room set up to do my art in. Yay.
This morning I caught up with logging my food. We had more take out since we were so busy with this project. However it looks like I stayed under my calorie goal. My weight is up though since most restaurant food is saltier and just doesn’t help me lose. I will be back to home cooking and exercise this week. In fact we went grocery shopping this weekend and I meal planned this morning. I know it is supposed to be the other way around but we needed some things for weekend breakfasts so we got a few things for the week ahead.
Here are my goals for the week:
• Start back to my goals of water, exercise and healthy meals at home this week.
• Move office corner from upstairs to home office downstairs.
• Set up weekly schedule for when I start work which includes meals and exercise.
Now I get to catch up with all of your posts.
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“Binge eating is a food addiction just as much as binge drinking is an alcohol addiction.”
@alexandra_ ......That’s me and black licorice. I can’t have it in the house and it is really really hard to walk by in the store. 3 pieces is 130 cals. Let’s be honest, with a bag of licorice......that’s probably immediately weight gain of .5 a pound. I imagine ex smokers crave like this too.
I love black licorice too and now they say too much is dangerous. So I am not sure what I will do next time I get the urge for some. I will have to ask my husband to give me just a little. Even a little over a long period of time is not safe. I figure a little over a short period will be okay.1 -
@AlexandraFindsHerself Congrats on 50 lbs down. That is a great accomplishment! And all those inches!
@Tarzan37 Nice weekly check in. It took us a few weeks to find our kittens but then we wanted a bonded pair. Actually it was my daughter who insisted on that so getting one may be quicker. It has been really fun. They are teens now.
@Lasmartchika You are so close to Onderland. Keep up the good work. Take care of yourself. Hope you feel happier soon.
@deadenddiva I am glad you survived and have found us. You are almost in Onderland. I found checking into this thread helped me a lot.
@RavenStCloud My kids both turned Pescatarian when they went to college and that is how I discovered vegetarian Indian food. I always liked Indian food but I really fell for vegetarian dishes. We usually get 1 lamb dish then the rest is vegetarian. I love it too when I don’t eat all of my order when we get take out. When you are limiting treats you have to pick the ones you love the most. I am fine with dark chocolate if it is just the chocolate and not covering candy.
I have been thinking about the holidays since we won't be having our usual extended family gatherings. I haven't cooked a turkey for years and was worried about whether I should order one. Then I got an email from my dairy that delivers some of our food each week. They have free range turkeys that you can order to be delivered with your weekly dairy order. Yay, that is all done.
I love this dairy. They have set up relationships with some of the best bakeries and other food providers in the area. So when we want something special we just put it on our order for the week. It means less grocery shopping for us. They have great granola and we get whole grain morning glory muffins every other week. Unfortunately my husband found out he is borderline prediabetic. So if there is too much sugar or white flour he knows. These muffins don't bother him. The whole grain pancakes we have on the weekends don't either. It helps me keep my sugar and processed carbs down to a minimum too.3 -
Today was such a good day. Stayed well within my calories and felt like I ate a TON of food so that was a total win. I was also able to get my rear motivated to take the dogs for a walk again which felt amazing. Now to keep it going. I need to use this a diving board to get me moving faster in the right direction. I also know checking into the feed is a huge help too. All of you going through the same struggles and successes that I am really helps to know I can do this.6
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@heatherbluebell, I LOVE that advice, thanks so much for sharing it. Seriously, that is helpful. I hope the nutrionist visit goes well, I have always been interested in seeing one, but I've never done it.
@MuttiNM, it really can feel like a long journey, but you're doing it. Those are such great accomplishments to have.
@micwrites, I hope the paper went well!
@speyerj, nice job! I admire your commitment, and I have never done rowing before.
@AlexandraFindsHerself1971, great job resisting eating the feelings.
@changeforeverlj, nice loss! Also great work with the running. I have seen your improvements through your posts.
@homemademama, sounds like a great plan.
@Tarzan37, ugh, car problems are the WORST and expensive. I hope it isn't too much and you're able to get back to it.
@laurajewalker, welcome!
@azalea4175, that is tough, I'm sorry. Is there a way to explain to her that you have a hard time not eating sweets when they're in the house and you're really trying to work on watching your sugar intake? Or possibly asking if she can send over a smaller amount, that way there isn't as many.
@remedieigotcha, great loss!
@KeriA, it sounds like quite the productive weekend for you!
@KMC55, yay for good days!
I am feeling a bit better and more motivated. I still am struggling, but just trying to push through the best I can. I'm disappointed because the scale is up, but also not surprised. Clearly something needs to change and this is the reset I need.
10/23: 243.6 and I started October out at 238. I know I didn't actually gain 5lbs in this period of time, but it is still discouraging to see the 240s on the scale again. I'm hoping I can comfortably get into the 230s for November. I just need to be diligent and focus on controlling my portions.
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10/23: 243.6 and I started October out at 238. I know I didn't actually gain 5lbs in this period of time, but it is still discouraging to see the 240s on the scale again. I'm hoping I can comfortably get into the 230s for November. I just need to be diligent and focus on controlling my portions.
I am right there with you. I was flirting with 229 and was getting so excited then lost focus and went back into the 240s. Now sitting at 236 and fighting hard to get back in the correct direction. We can do this, staying focused and working together.4 -
I had a tiny NSV today. I'm trying to take walks around my neighborhood (or elsewhere) 5 days a week, and boy did I not want to today. I usually go after work, and I knew I wasn't going to make it until 5 just dreading a walk, I just wanted to give in to the comfy couch today. Around 3, I decided, if I don't do it now, I'm not going to do it at all today, so I got I got off my butt and took a half hour break from work (I'm WFH) and pushed myself out the door. It was a slightly shorter walk than usual, but I'm so glad I made myself get up and do it!11
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My coat came and apparently their sizing is different from anyone else's, because I may be able to zip that coat across my hips when I drop two more sizes in pants. This doesn't make my self-esteem shoot up, to say the least. (sigh)
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Here are my goals for the week:
• Start back to my goals of water, exercise and healthy meals at home this week. I am not sure I upped my water yet. Yesterday I didn't exercise but moved some office stuff from living room work corner to the art room. Today though I did my strength training routine for an hour. Last night I made a healthy meal at home and we have meals planned for the rest of the week. So I am working on it.
• Move office corner from upstairs to home office downstairs. ✔
• Set up weekly schedule for when I start work which includes meals and exercise.I think I might work on this now.
Let's all keep up the good work.6 -
what's up y'all!
I haven't posted or been that active for almost two months, but I'm back!
this thread was so helpful, inspiring, and supportive for me, I know it's a good idea to jump back in.
I was out of town visiting family/road tripping for most of September, and it was harder than I'd anticipated getting back into my routine. In fact, I'm still struggling a little, which is why I want to get back into participating in this thread. We are such creatures of habit, us humans, and I sure threw myself for a loop >-<
Hopefully, by re-committing to contributing to this thread, I can also be more consistent with logging meals, making healthy food choices, exercising regularly, etc.
I'm pretty stoked though, because although I didn't log regularly at all in September or the majority of October, I did try to be mindful, at least a little, of food choices. And while I did gain, it was only about 3.5lb up from my lowest weight, 2.3lbs of which I've already managed to drop again. I'll call that a success!
So- my goals for what remains of October:
~stop eating so much sugar! ugh it's gotten bad. I think part of the problem is I've decided to stop eating meat entirely, so now when I reach for a snack or something, I default to sugary carb-y snacks.
a more quantifiable, realistic goal: less than 45g of sugar per day. not sure how feasible this is, tbh. this is going to be me feeling it out.
~run 3x a week
~walk the dog every day
~two servings of dairy or fewer per day
and then we'll reassess in November.
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I have been plugging away...not seeing a scale drop but things are fitting looser and looser. And it has become a trend that I lose in the first few weeks of the month and not at all in the last of the month so I'm cognizant of that. Even still, I have tightened up my logging/food choices and added in some more exercise (which I had been going to do for some time now). So hopefully the scale will start being my friend again soon! October is tough with a million celebrations. Our Thanksgiving, my anniversary, Halloween and birthdays galore. So hunkering down in November seems like a nice gift to give myself. A myfitnesspal friend and I have challenged each other to be on point for the next 8 weeks, bringing us to the week of Christmas. So my goal is to be disciplined but I guess I will get into that on the November thread!
Thanks to everyone for all their posts this month. I kind of got behind on my responses so will be better in November but I so appreciated reading everyone's posts. It really helps, especially on the hard days.
I have to share something that really means the world to me and I never in a million years would have been able to foresee it. This week my oldest friend in the world (our parents were best friends before we were born) who has always been athletic; who has been a runner since junior high school; who I used to hate getting my picture taken next to; you know what I mean. Well she sent me a message (she lives in Ottawa now) saying that for the first time in months she dusted off her sneakers and went for a run, thanks to my inspiration. Imagine. HER inspired by ME? It was a little overwhelming and then it made me think of the ripple effect we have in this life. Because I have started being kind and mindful with myself, I have cousins in Texas and Georgia who have started their own journeys. My brother has gone back to the gym for the first time in years. A girl I barely knew in high school called me out of the blue to ask if I had any tips for her to help her get started. It's pretty amazing how this ripple effect can become so widespread. So thanks to all of you ladies for being MY ripple and for inspiring me. Gosh, I can't wait to see what effects the next 50 pounds have in store!!
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that is tough, I'm sorry. Is there a way to explain to her that you have a hard time not eating sweets when they're in the house and you're really trying to work on watching your sugar intake? Or possibly asking if she can send over a smaller amount, that way there isn't as many.
I have decided I will take them to work and put out for others to enjoy. I will have 1 that I really like, and give the rest away. Even if I throw them away at work, she won't know and will still have that good feeling like she is doing something loving. In our family (my husbands AND mine!) sugar = love, so I have to tread lightly. She will make us Christmas goodies too, but I have already (last year) started her on giving us a smaller package because there are only 2 of us in the house. I will do the same, have a few of my favorites and share the rest at work.
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Weekly weigh-in:
Age: 35 Height: 5'6"
10/7: 247
10/14: 243.2
10/21: 239.6
10/28: 238
I'm kinda bummed that I've gained weight the last several days (my lowest was 236.8 two days ago), but looking at all my weekly weigh-ins, I can see a consistent loss and that allows me to see the big picture rather than feel bad about one or two days of gaining weight.
Just a thought I've been having, how do your partners/family feel about your weight loss journeys? My partner is wonderful and very supportive, but I could feel him getting frustrated the other night when we were deciding what to get for dinner. (I had agreed to a couple of pieces of fried chicken but said no to pasta salad.) I'm about 70 lbs. heavier than him and he thinks I'm fine the way I am. He is supportive of me, but I think he is afraid I'm going to lose curves and jiggly bits, which he loves. He's seen pictures of me back when I was about 155 lbs. and thought I was too skinny then. He is losing weight without trying, and eats whatever he wants. Ultimately, this journey is for me and my health, but I feel like our different eating patterns in particular might cause some stress in our relationship.7 -
Just a thought I've been having, how do your partners/family feel about your weight loss journeys?
I have two partners. My boyfriend is supportive. He had weight loss surgery about six years ago, just after I met him, and has more or less maintained his loss. However, when he had a traumatic event last November, he put on about 20 pounds, and we're not too worried about that; if he eats just what I fix him and starts exercising instead of snacking between meals and being sedentary, it'll come right back off, and he has more important things to worry about than whether he's in a 38 or a 40. He's giving me all kinds of support and really encouraging me.
My girlfriend is supportive. She weighs around 350, and while she would like to lose weight, she needs to get her mental health in order. She has DID, and while Girlfriend may be wanting to lose weight, the other personality likes to eat, and so frequently has a nice midnight dinner unknown to Girlfriend; she just finds a dirty plate next to her computer when she gets up. Until she has therapy and get some dialogue going between the personalities, it's no good trying too hard to lose weight. But she is working on making good changes and drinking plenty of water and eating more veggies and less fat, and so she will probably lose some but not any sizeable amount until she decides to really work on it the way I have.
My family of origin is also supportive, though I don't see my mother and my sons much due to COVID. I have no idea what my ex will say if I get to see him at Christmas. We're still friends, but he weighs about 400 and has serious food addiction issues, and viewed any attempt I made at losing weight while married to him as an attack on him.
My sister will undoubtedly say something vicious about how it's nice that I'm finally doing something. But that's her way. That's why I'd like to be down as small as I can by the next holiday I see her at, and shapewear WILL be worn to hold in extra belly jiggle. She's been very proud of how she got weight loss surgery so SHE isn't FAT anymore, poor Alex, I'm sure you would feel SO much better, I'm so SORRY you can't go walking and do all the things like I can. " (C U Next Tuesday, indeed. This is why we're not close. ) She regained about a third of her weight, and it really doesn't help that her body type is pretty square, instead of the hourglass that my grandmother and mother and I are. And it seems to have triggered off a lot of autoimmune junk for her too. I'm sorry for her, but if she gets too pointed I may say something like "Oh, Sister, I'm just glad I was able to count calories and not permanently wreck my system in order to lose weight. After all, health is more than just our weight." I just don't like being nasty.
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Weekly Weigh-In
Age: 39 Height: 5'6"
SW: 272.2
10/7: 240.3
10/14: 237.2
10/21:236.1
10/28: 235.8
GW: 175
Wow, just Wow. I have been getting frustrated with myself since the scale isn't move much and there is a lot of bouncing back and forth but like @JAC581 said, looking at the big picture, I have had a rather successful month. This is exciting and super motivating. I need to not get so concerned about the daily weights and just use them for accountability. To be completely honest it would be great to only step on the scale once a week but I am too impatient and anxious to not do it daily.
I have been thinking a lot about the "whys", why do I want to lose weight, what is motivating me. The standard answer of "to be smaller, more comfortable in my clothes, look better", just don't seem to be enough. My husband is amazing and loves me just as I am, even when I don't love myself. Trust me, I have PLENTY of comfy clothes, no judgment on what they look like, lol. And as far as "look better" if I don't take pics of myself then I don't know what I look like So the great big WHY... still trying to find it. Of course I want to be healthier and more active. Thankfully my health has not taken a noticeable toll due to my weight, yet, but I do know that is a distinct possibility. Being active is one of the things that I have enjoyed with the weight loss I have seen so far, I feel like I can move more, stay active longer without getting tired or winded, and just do more overall. I do struggle with when I get tired or have been going non-stop for a while and have the veg day or days to not get down on myself because I am "being lazy". It isn't lazy it is rest and regrouping. Sometimes I feel like if I would just lose more weight that I wouldn't need those lazy times but part of me knows that isn't true either because everyone needs to rest and going non-stop all day is just not realistic. So I guess that is a good why but I need to find more, things that will help drive me and push me to avoid foods when they aren't in my plan or just too much.7 -
Hi Ladies,
My name is Sarah and I just found this thread today. I'm really struggling with my weight. I had great success with Keto (and tracking in My Fitness Pal) the first time and lost 50lbs. I couldn't keep the weight off and gained 20 more than I originally weighed. I turned 46 this week and I'm here today to just START! I'm fed up with feeling tired. My legs hurt from carrying all this extra weight. I just want to feel good!
*I'm 5'6' and my current weight is 262 lbs. I don't want to do Keto again. My goal is to track my food and try and do my exercise bike a few times a week.
I would love to find some support here. I'd love to hear your stories, tips, & tricks. Thanks for the support.8 -
@iloveeggnog Your post just put a smile on my face, your ripple has had an effect in South Africa! I've been feeling low today, and you perked me up! Going to download a playlist for my last week 8 run now! (For the early am run)
@KMC55 My why is now because I feel so much better about myself, I know that discipline and consistency over long periods show results, so even when I'm not having the best day because of outside influences, I will still count calories and exercise because that works. I have stopped letting my emotions rule over my life and that is empowering. I also realise that this is a chronic disease I'm controlling for the rest of my life.
I've read all your posts, and am cheering you on from my side! Lets be strong with our daily disciplines, good luck ladies xoxo
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@KMC55 Veggies - add mint sauce (the kind you put on lamb) - basically it is mint and vinegar. Also for say green peppers slice long ways, add garlic, and a tablespoon of balsamic oil greek (you can find some for 30 cals per 2 table spoons - kraft, some others, soy ginger dressing you can usually find light - and still tasty). Also spices, I use tarragon, and also herb de provence a lot. Also I don't typically add oil to cook veggies, you can do a light spray oil if you must, or steam with a low sodium, or home made chicken stock. Also for veggie sides, I like to add kimchies and cabbage krauts german style. For radishes, I dice, add vinegar, add splenda packet or two, garlic, salt pepper. If you have a grill, grilled veggies are great, I will grill a slice of pineapple as a dessert.2
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Weigh in Wednesday
Highest weight: 435 (11/1/18)--lost 50 lbs. by the end of 2018 but got off track and gained back almost 31 lbs.
SW: 415.8 (4/17/19)
9/30: 201.0
10/7: 197.6
10/14: 195.8
10/21: 196.6
10/28: 191.6
10/31:
Oct. GW: 194.4
GW: 160 (then reevaluate)
Weekly exercise goals:
- bike ride or exercise bike 5 times per week - 5/5
- strength training 2 times per week - 2/2
- chair yoga 4 times per week - 4/4
- steps onto aerobic step platform twice a day at least 3 times per week - 4/3 (plan to increase reps this next week)
- bonus: 2 hikes
Well, I had something of a whoosh this week. It helps make up for the gain from last week.
@KMC55 My "why" has changed as I've lost weight. In the beginning, it wasn't well-defined. I just knew my physical fitness was terrible and I wanted to do things I couldn't do like shop in a "regular" store, fit in an airplane seat, fit in a restaurant booth, etc. Right now it's about maintaining and increasing the improvements I've made in my physical fitness. Everyday life is so much easier now in just about every way. That improvement feeds the desire for additional improvement. I mentioned before one thing that's helped me (and I know this might not be useful for everyone) is every 3 months writing down things that are better due to weight loss and/or exercise. Week to week, the changes are so small you wonder if all your effort is worth it but when you reflect back on the last 3 months you can see the impact of those incremental changes. I'll also go back and read my notes when I feel like things aren't really all that different. Having that log of positive changes helps me realize how much better my life has become since I started eating at a deficit 18 months ago (and trying to add in some exercise 15 months ago). And yes, rest days are important! Enjoy your ability to move more and for longer and good luck defining your "why"!
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Yesterday I thought I had a bad day. I had a pre-Halloween binge. I got into the Halloween candy we bought yesterday. We only got 1 bag since they didn’t have what we like anyway and I didn’t eat all of it but considerably more than a serving. This morning I was down .2 lbs. I just logged in my calories for last night and this morning. I put them into my spreadsheet. I learned something.
Yesterday I had 2 good healthy meals but no lunch. I was physically active for me. I took some things down to my art room and I went grocery shopping with my daughter. We got a pumpkin etc. I also did my strength training routine. I didn’t have my usual after dinner treat. It turned out that even with all that candy my calories were lower than the day before when I had 3 healthy normal meals and my after dinner treat. The day before I was active working some on my art room but I didn’t exercise. However my calories were lower yesterday irregardless of exercise plus I had more exercise too.
I am not saying I should binge. I could still see an uptick in calories. But it makes me realize that maybe we should wait before we get down on ourselves when we slip. It also makes me think about my 1 daily treat. Is it worth it? Could I replace it with something else on most days a week?
I got up and had a good healthy breakfast and also started drinking my water right away. Here’s the plan for the day relative to my weekly goals:
• Start back to my goals of water, exercise and healthy meals at home this week. I upped my water but not still not up to goal. I plan to drink my 8 glasses today. Yesterday I did my strength training routine for an hour. I plan to go for a long walk and I will see if I feel like some running intervals. Last night we had a healthy home cooked meal. Today we have another meal ready to make and I had a healthy breakfast.
• Move office corner from upstairs to home office downstairs. ✔ I did more of this yesterday and have just a bit more to do today.
• Set up weekly schedule for when I start work which includes meals and exercise. ✔ I got started with this yesterday. I will review it today.
• New goal It wasn’t a stated goal for the week but I have been more active and I think I should keep that up with steps and trips up and down the stairs, cleaning etc.
Let's all keep up the good work. Now to reading your posts!
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