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Just need to vent

amymeenieminymo
Posts: 2,394 Member
My boyfriend and I have been house hunting for about 7 months now. We have had dissapointment after dissapointment and I am getting so fed up. We've put in about 7 or 8 offers but liked way more than that but THOSE sold before we could even get offers in.
Our lease was up back in March so we went month to month thinking we would be in a house soon....every month that I have to pay rent on my apartment just makes me so mad because it's a big reminder that we don't have a house.
I hate our apartment, it's been so messy for months becasue I just don't care anymore. I'm sick of apartment living and I just want out. Everytime I can hear my neighbors bass pumping through the floor it makes me wants to scream.
Last week, a house that we had lost a few weeks prior came back on the market, so our agent re-submitted our offer. On Saturday she contacted me and said they want me to get pre-approved through their lender and she thinks they means they are interested in my offer. So I did that, and now I am waiting, waiting waiting.
I feel like our house is coming soooo soon, I can't take the anticipation and dissapointment anymore. I am so afraid that every minute that ticks by means that we aren't getting this one. I keep daydreaming of getting a house and I am so happy, and then I try to stop that becasue I don't want to jinx us....I just want that daydream to come true finally.:brokenheart:
Our lease was up back in March so we went month to month thinking we would be in a house soon....every month that I have to pay rent on my apartment just makes me so mad because it's a big reminder that we don't have a house.
I hate our apartment, it's been so messy for months becasue I just don't care anymore. I'm sick of apartment living and I just want out. Everytime I can hear my neighbors bass pumping through the floor it makes me wants to scream.
Last week, a house that we had lost a few weeks prior came back on the market, so our agent re-submitted our offer. On Saturday she contacted me and said they want me to get pre-approved through their lender and she thinks they means they are interested in my offer. So I did that, and now I am waiting, waiting waiting.
I feel like our house is coming soooo soon, I can't take the anticipation and dissapointment anymore. I am so afraid that every minute that ticks by means that we aren't getting this one. I keep daydreaming of getting a house and I am so happy, and then I try to stop that becasue I don't want to jinx us....I just want that daydream to come true finally.:brokenheart:
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aaaawwww.....hang in there. :flowerforyou:
It'll be just a little bit sweeter once you do get your house! :flowerforyou:0 -
It will be when it IS MEANT TO BE!
Don't get discouraged, for every house you don't get, there is a very good reason for it,....it wasn't meant to be or it wasn't the right one and the right one will come along when it's supposed to!
It means there is something better waiting on ya!!
Memaw0 -
I'm so sorry things haven't worked out yet. I can imagine how frustrating that's got to be. I've got my fingers crossed that you'll finally get this house. Keep us informed and good luck to you.
Betty0 -
Well I guess venting helped, my agent called a few hours ago and we got the house!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!0
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