Am I just being.....

MOMOFTWO29

too sensitive? There is this lady at my church who we have always been good friends with, and I have always considered her my second mom, and my kids second grandmother. Well, lately she has been ignoring me, my hubby, and kids. She will walk on by and not say anything to us or anything. I haven't done anything to make her mad as far as I know and if I have she should at least come and talk to me about it. She used to come and get my kids for the day and take them places but she doesn't do that any more, my kids love her so much and this is killing them and me b/c my kids do not understand why they can't go to her house and etc. Am I just being too sensitive?

finallyproud

Maybe she just has some issues going on in her life right now, and she doesn't realize you have these feelings. Try talking to her..maybe she could use a few words of encouragement :flowerforyou:

keiko

You won't know if there is something wrong unless you ask her. Maybe you have offended her in some way and don't know it. Maybe she has something going on in her life that she hasn't shared with you. I would reach out to her. Tell her how much your relationship means to you. How much your kids love her. Don't let not knowing keep you from trying to have a good friendship with her.

MOMOFTWO29

You won't know if there is something wrong unless you ask her. Maybe you have offended her in some way and don't know it. Maybe she has something going on in her life that she hasn't shared with you. I would reach out to her. Tell her how much your relationship means to you. How much your kids love her. Don't let not knowing keep you from trying to have a good friendship with her.

thanks, I think I will talk to her about it today.

MOMOFTWO29

Maybe she just has some issues going on in her life right now, and she doesn't realize you have these feelings. Try talking to her..maybe she could use a few words of encouragement :flowerforyou:

thanks, I will try that and see what is going on.

kimber607

Hi

I agree with the others, I would call her to confront her and just ask her if anything is wrong etc

Good luck and let us know how it goes, kim

MOMOFTWO29

Hi

I agree with the others, I would call her to confront her and just ask her if anything is wrong etc

Good luck and let us know how it goes, kim

thanks

MOMOFTWO29

:flowerforyou: update: I talked to my friend and it turns out that she is not mad or anything at me and my family. She has just had a lot going on, she has just found out that one of her good friends has pancreatic cancer and they don't know what is going to go on with that. I feel so much better now that we have talked. thanks everyone who suggested that I talk to her. :flowerforyou: