Trying to lose weight, Unhappy with myself

ANP_ATKINS
ANP_ATKINS Posts: 3 Member
edited February 15 in Introduce Yourself
I'm 4'11 and weigh about 117. Im unhappy with the way i look and id like to weigh about 96 pounds.
I end up eating 2,000 calories a day, when i should just have 1200. But i've went over on my sugar already just eating breakfast and lunch. I'm not sure where to start. I have a long way to go. Can someone give me some advice? I feel like if i don't eat 2,000 or more calories a day, i feel hungry all the time. I don't know how to end it!

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  • beautifullyblessed16
    beautifullyblessed16 Posts: 179 Member
    Do you eat fruit for your breakfast and lunch? If so, I wouldn't count those as a part of your sugar intake. If you added sugar to your meals (such as in coffee or drinking sodas) then maybe you can gradually reduce the amount of sugar you intake at a pace that is sustainable to you. If you can incorporate a fair sized salad in your day (don't overload with dressing of course), you will increase your veggie intake, up you fiber (aids in digestion and makes you feel fuller longer), and fill your stomach with volume (which will make you fuller without eating a load of empty calories). It is difficult to give you specific advice because I do not know your specific eating habits but try to make baby steps one at a time. What is a typical day of eating like for you?
  • ANP_ATKINS
    ANP_ATKINS Posts: 3 Member
    Thanks so much! But no, i don't eat fruit for my breakfast or my lunch.
    I guess a normal eating day for me would start off with waking up at 530am.
    I start off by usually grabbing whatever i could find, cereal bar, fruit bar etc. and a drink. So this morning, i grabbed a strawberry yogurt cereal bar and a fuze, the slenderize ones.
    I'm currently going to college to become a pilot. I'm on my feet a lot throughout the day, walking the campus.
    So i pack my lunch, it consists of a penut butter sanwhich, although i just fixed it on one piece of bread and folded it over.
    I also brought yogurt (yo crunch with oreos) ,a cheese stick, goldfish, and chips, but i end up eating the goldfish and chips during my classes, about 9:00. I eat the rest of my lunch by 1:00 and when i get home at 4, im ready to eat again. Sometimes McDonalds, or sometimes something home cooked, tonight i plan on eating leftover porkchops and mashed potatoes. I'm already almost over on my calorie intake and i haven't even ate dinner yet. I excersie alot, however. I run at the park every single day, about a mile and a half. Another problem with me is that i don't drink water, or milk.
    Once i really think about it and type all this out, i'm a pretty unhealthy person.
  • JennypegMarie
    JennypegMarie Posts: 133 Member
    Hiya there, Welcome to the thread.

    First of all, Google a lot of calorie calculators to find your right number.

    A lot depends on your magic number to lose weight and not just what MFP calculate trust me I've been here..

    It goes on your height, weight, activity level, BMR etc...

    Make up a separate thread and ask the community there thoughts on your number

    That's what I did and I wasn't losing anything on 1200. In fact I'm suppose to be on 1500 but I felt this was too much so I lessened 100. And I'm comfortable you may need more as this is based on a sedentary lifestyle.

    Once you get your number, give your self time to adjust to it. I know it can be quit difficult to get use to eating "less" don't tell your self this though, say its a lifestyle CHANGE.

    Then start looking for low calorie snacks to eat, do not deprave, yourself you will eat more.

    Meal plan, it helps and remember no matter how much you have to lose it's a learning curb. I will be on this diet for a while. I've gotten use to eat and I've lost around 20lb in a few years, using different calorie loggers, I have another 3 stone to lose yet but I will get there and so will you. Believe in yourself and allow your self to make mistakes but be sure if its what you want to do.

    I hope this has helped.
  • beautifullyblessed16
    beautifullyblessed16 Posts: 179 Member
    Sometimes it takes writing things downs (tracking our food on MFP) to truly see how bad our eating habits can be and that is a good thing to see! If we don't see these things then we are not likely to know what needs to be changed.

    That is great you are going to school to become a pilot and that you are active! Kudos to you!

    Here are a few tips I have to you can use to help get you started (hopefully others will chime in):

    *I think a great thing to start doing since you are new is to take a week and just track everything down. It will help you get comfortable with inputting things into MFP (I use the scanner feature via the MFP app which is helpful).
    *If you don't have a digital food scale, I would recommend getting one. I was surprised at how much of serving actually is for a variety of my favorite foods. I was eating way too much before.
    *Yogurts usually have lots of added sugar. If your goal is to reduce sugar, you can work on eliminating them or opt for plain yogurt with added fresh fruits.
    *Water is very important because it helps flushes your body of toxins. When you are dehydrated, it is easy to retain lots of water (thus making you look/feel bloated) especially when your day consists of lots of salty snacks and meals. I struggled with water at the beginning of this year but have finally gotten to 8-10 cups of water. My approach was to shoot for a certain amount everyday (for example, 4 cups a day) before increasing my intake the next week by one cup. Trying drinking just one cup with your breakfast, lunch, dinner, after exercising to get your started. If you don't like the taste of water, try added lemon or some other type of fruit into your water. I have read people using the crystal light packets. A water bottle helps me to keep track of my intake each day.
    *Eating fast food can easily rack up your calories for the day in just one meal. A typical fast food meal can run you 1000 calories (most of those calories come from the fat from oils, cheese, meat and carbs from fries, white bread, etc). This is where a nice salad would help fill you up without eating hundreds upon hundreds of calories in one sitting.

    These are just my two cents. There are many ways to get started that it can get overwhelming. I hope these tips will help you find your way in a way that works for you and busy lifestyle. Planning meals before helps a lot but it is easier said than done when starting off. I will send you a friend request to help support you. You can do this!
  • Lizplus3
    Lizplus3 Posts: 53 Member
    It took me about two weeks to get over the "need" for sugar. You will have to really look at the labels on what you are eatting, take your time cutting this back or totally out. Maybe switch out the bag of chips for a bag for fruit or vegs? Drink plenty of water - this will hep as well with being hungry. I have to look at the fast food websites to see what the value is for everything that I am interested in before I even leave for the place. It might really open your eyes to look at what each item "costs" when you eat there. I still go where I want, I have just changed what it is that I order.

    Also, make sure you log everything that you are eatting in - if you don't log something no one will know but your body does know. :) Hang in there it will get better and you can do this!!
  • The_1_Who_Knocks
    The_1_Who_Knocks Posts: 343 Member
    The best advice I can give you is to incorporate oatmeal into your diet. Not instand oat meal, it is loaded with sugar. Use whole oats and whichever sugar substitute you like the best (Splenda, Equal, etc) and add some cinammon.

    I promise you that 2/3 of a cup will be a whole meal for you at your size, and it's only 200 calories. Healthy as can be too. It's helped me lose 87 pounds.
  • Eric_DeCastro
    Eric_DeCastro Posts: 767 Member
    don't get discouraged. I was in the same boat and have made major improvements over time. just be patient and work hard. keep your eye on the prize at the same time concentrate on your current workout/ clean eating. it is important to concentrate on what you are doing, eating clean and good healthy work outs. the weight will come off as a bi product of your lifestyle change.
  • zoe3000
    zoe3000 Posts: 2 Member
    Hi!

    First off, I would try to eliminate all the processed foods (diet drinks, sugary yoghurts, cereal bars, fast foods, etc.) from your diet and replace them with healthier, whole foods options. Substitute sugary yoghurt for the plain one and add bits of fruit to it. Instead of the cereal bar, make oatmeal (the one that has no added sugar). For your snacks, try to get almonds, sunflower seeds or similar (make sure to get about a handful - that would be roughly 200kcal) plus fruit like green apples or oranges. Instead of McDonald's, try to pack a whole wheat and no-sugar-added peanut butter sandwich or veggies and hummus - or a nice salad with olive oil and vinegar s dressing. Plan a day ahead what you will eat the next day - this helps. If you can, plan a whole week ahead. Eat only half of your exercise calories as I find MFP to be overestimating the number of calories we burn (this is certainly my experience). Good luck!
  • ANP_ATKINS
    ANP_ATKINS Posts: 3 Member
    Thank you everyone! you all have some amazing ideas. I'm going to def take your advice about the oatmeal, yogurt & water! i cant wait to get some results.
  • babydaisy81
    babydaisy81 Posts: 218 Member
    1200 calories a day is hard for me too! Ok, impossible! Hang in there!
  • lisajsund
    lisajsund Posts: 366 Member
    ANP_ATKINS, I have two questions for you.

    Do you happen to know what your BMR is? This is the amount of calories you burn without any movement whatsoever. Since you walk around a lot, you are probably burning a lot of what you are eating. Maybe shoot for 1700-1800 calories a day, using the suggestions above.
    The following website is a good one to type in your stats:
    http://www.fat2fittools.com/tools/bmr/

    The other question is this: Do you happen to know what your body fat % is? This is a much better indication of health and fitness as opposed to the number on the scale.

    Have a wonderful day!!
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