stress from work is biggest impediment

I guess it depends on how you deal with stress. When I am stressed my appetite goes completely, my current problem is I am so happy and finding it really difficult not to eat junk in 'celebration' I guess.

Although I understand that doing exercise doesn’t change the fact that you have to be back in work tomorrow, it does release happy endorphins and lead to good sleep so maybe you could set yourself a small doable goal, like go for a walk/run on a Wednesday to signify you're halfway through the week? You could also set a goal of applying for a job once a week too if that would help?

Be kind to yourself, maintaining your weight loss is great, hope you're happier soon

I'm in a high stress job, and to be honest, I don't think it has hurt my weight loss. I always read exercise is good for anxiety and stress, and while like you I find that to not be so true, I keep trying knowing that weighing close to 300lbs caused even more strain on my heart. So, I hope by exercising I hope to offset some of the negatives of stress (then I get depressed and ask "what for?" but then get back out there).

I spend a lot of my time at home 'vegging out' as well. Staring at the walls, whatever. I've incorporated my exercise into my lunch breaks at work - maybe you could do the same just to keep from completely giving up?

I am with @samthepanda on this one. A year and a half ago at work we wetn through a very stressfull restructuring, it is still very stressful at present. Though verbally abusive was never an issue there the passive aggressiveness was huge within the building.
With my excersice and food schedules I knew what was going to happen that day at what time and it gave a sense of control over at least part of my life. It still took me a fair few months to see and feel the longer term positives but now nearly 500 days later I can sense in me an ability to deal with all the stuff because all the other parts of my life are mine and mine alone. The issues that made me feel out of control, now feel less important and as a result impact me less, which in turn makes that I can make better descisions because I can think them through better.

I know how you feel. I had a tough time at work recently and on one particularly bad day, I ordered a ridiculously calorific takeaway and ate it all. Cue instant overnight shocking weight gain. You have to recognise that you're not actually hungry, you're making bad choices because you're an emotional eater - you therefore need to work on dealing with your emotions better. I've found running can help - you can redirect that angry energy into something else, and the endorphins help balance your mood. You say you've tried exercise to no avail - what sort of exercise and for how long? I'm not sure aerobics would have the same stress releasing impact as say running or boxing for at least 30 minutes.

You can't stop people at work from being jerks, and that can be difficult to accept. However, you can refuse to let them derail your healthy lifestyle. I'm hesitant to suggest eating better gives you some kind of control over the situation because that's where eating disorders start, but I do find keeping control of my diet and health by not giving into the binges and by doing regular exercise does help me feel stronger. Staying in good shape physically does help, because if someone lays into you when you're sad and exhausted, it's harder to cope with than if you're just sad.

Make sure you're getting enough sleep too - there have been some studies that suggest the less sleep you have, the more inclined you are to make bad food choices (which my personal experience supports). Plus the more rested you are, the more able you'll feel to stand strong.

Take care. I hope things get easier for you soon.

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Clearly you need to get rid of the cause of the stress which entails getting a new job.
Exercise is geat for stress if you put enough effort in, it allows you to switch off and focus just on doing the exercise. People handle stress by learning techniques on how to deal with it, mindset and managing behaviours plus looking after yourself.

Nerdycurls wrote: »

I've noticed over the years if I am super stressed at work, I cannot lose weight. I eventually give up trying to maintain calorie counting, weighing/measuring food, exercising, etc. There were times I was so stressed from work, I'd get home and park on the couch and watch cartoon reruns.

More recently I had a supervisor who verbally abused me to the point of extreme anxiety and stress. I dreaded going to work every day and sometimes I'd leave in tears. Thankfully I no longer deal with that jerk, but my workplace is still a stressful place.

The stress has caused me to got through bouts of depression and it's caused weight gain. For the most part I'm able to keep off the small weight loss from last year, but I had hopes for weighing less than I do at this time. Exercise does not alleviate the anxiety. I know I have to go back to work the next day. I know I have to deal with the same stress and know a lot of things aren't in my control.

I don't get how people who have super stressful jobs stay thin or lose weight. Or how exercise is a stress reliever when they know that jerk boss is waiting there to verbally abuse them. How do people do it?

No job is worth your overall health. You still control whether you stay there or not. Don't use money as the excuse to stay. While money is important, what good is it if stress causes you a stroke? You'll end up using that money for physical rehab.
There are other jobs. Just like taking on new challenges, it can be intimidating, but don't just let your life go by being stepped on by your boss.

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DrWhoIsYerDad wrote: »

I've heard that stress increases a hormone called cortisol which can lead to more belly fat, maybe that is a factor. I stress over everything at work !

Cortisol is also increased anytime anyone exercises or plays a sport. Just sayin'.

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if i don't workout, i would have murdered half the people at my office!!! i need to workout; not only does it make me feel amazing and badass but it helps keep my mood stable (i'm prone to depression) and really does help with stress.

I've had several high stress jobs in the past, and trust me when I say that it will not get better until you get a new job. Right now you just need to focus on your mental health. Keep applying for jobs. Good luck!

Nerdycurls wrote: »

I'm not sure how else to deal with stress. There are people at my work-- including my current supervisor-- who seem to make it a goal to make things as difficult at possible.

That's really unfortunate.

Sometimes you have to fire your boss | client. Unfortunately we don't always have the luxury of being able to walk away, and even if we think we can manage it, facing that reality can seem even more stressful than living with it, but of course that isn't the case.