What's ur fantasy.. After getting ur ideal body?
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NorthCascades wrote: »haha everytime I've just screwed "somebody" who doesn't matter, it hasn't been a good experience for me, and I leave feeling worse than I did beforehand. So I'd just rather not
I read something really interesting once. Well, a couple something really interestings that came together in a neat way.
Statistics say men have an orgasm just about 100 % of the time they have sex. For women the numbers are much bleaker.
Now I've never been a woman before, so I don't really know what it's like. But I've been told that the partner makes a difference. Meaning that ladies tend to have a better time with a partner who's motivated to attend to her pleasure, than with a partner who's indifferent to it. Also, how you feel about a partner in terms of trust and respect and whatnot, can be more important for a woman than for a man.
When you put it all together, it's almost like the things that are important to a lot of women, mostly come from "somebody special" and not "just somebody."
There's a stereotype that men will *kitten* anything with a pulse, and that women just aren't very interested in casual sex. Maybe it's not that women don't like sex, they just don't like bad sex that doesn't satisfy them.
Is there any truth to any of that?
I've never had sex with anyone special, and I've never had good sex, so I guess that's a confirmation in its own right? I hope it is, or else I'm broken and defective. And I've had guys who were attentive to me, so I don't think it was that. I think, at least for me, it might be just about the feelings I have toward the person (again, I hope that's the case). I've been told that that's the problem.
As for the last point, that "anything with a pulse" stereotype makes me so shifty around guys, because I can't tell if they want it because it's mine, or just because it's there. Also, again, never had good sex, so I don't really like any sex, but I'd imagine good sex makes us want it more, since so many people crave it (which I don't understand).3 -
NorthCascades wrote: »haha everytime I've just screwed "somebody" who doesn't matter, it hasn't been a good experience for me, and I leave feeling worse than I did beforehand. So I'd just rather not
I read something really interesting once. Well, a couple something really interestings that came together in a neat way.
Statistics say men have an orgasm just about 100 % of the time they have sex. For women the numbers are much bleaker.
Now I've never been a woman before, so I don't really know what it's like. But I've been told that the partner makes a difference. Meaning that ladies tend to have a better time with a partner who's motivated to attend to her pleasure, than with a partner who's indifferent to it. Also, how you feel about a partner in terms of trust and respect and whatnot, can be more important for a woman than for a man.
When you put it all together, it's almost like the things that are important to a lot of women, mostly come from "somebody special" and not "just somebody."
There's a stereotype that men will *kitten* anything with a pulse, and that women just aren't very interested in casual sex. Maybe it's not that women don't like sex, they just don't like bad sex that doesn't satisfy them.
Is there any truth to any of that?
In my professional "ho-pinion" women can be just as carnal as men. It's just that some of us guys are complete idiots in picking up what they desire at that given moment.2 -
Hmmm---never had an orgasm , so not possible for me lol.0
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if you aren't having multiple orgasms, they aren't being attentive enough, you are not broken, you just need to find someone who knows how to deliver the goods
there are lots of nice boys in the world, perhaps try a really talented man instead...to be fair, there is no shortage of guys who are terrible in bed...
but then, I'm kind of a witch (with a
and no way I'm putting out if I didn't get mine first...he can earn it or he can take care of himself
orgasms are FUN, that's the whole point of sex, it feels great and amazing...partner not required...you can have orgasms all by yourself...and then if you find a talented man who doesn't mind some direction, then you will at least know what you like so you can direct accordingly...3 -
this is one hell of a thread0
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I've never had sex with anyone special, and I've never had good sex, so I guess that's a confirmation in its own right? I hope it is, or else I'm broken and defective. And I've had guys who were attentive to me, so I don't think it was that. I think, at least for me, it might be just about the feelings I have toward the person (again, I hope that's the case). I've been told that that's the problem.
As for the last point, that "anything with a pulse" stereotype makes me so shifty around guys, because I can't tell if they want it because it's mine, or just because it's there. Also, again, never had good sex, so I don't really like any sex, but I'd imagine good sex makes us want it more, since so many people crave it (which I don't understand).
You're not "broken and defective." Seriously, don't let yourself think that. You might be different from other people, or maybe not, but different isn't defective. The point is to have a good life, however you see fit. The only person who's opinion should matter to you, is you.1 -
In before the lock.1
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NorthCascades wrote: »haha everytime I've just screwed "somebody" who doesn't matter, it hasn't been a good experience for me, and I leave feeling worse than I did beforehand. So I'd just rather not
I read something really interesting once. Well, a couple something really interestings that came together in a neat way.
Statistics say men have an orgasm just about 100 % of the time they have sex. For women the numbers are much bleaker.
Now I've never been a woman before, so I don't really know what it's like. But I've been told that the partner makes a difference. Meaning that ladies tend to have a better time with a partner who's motivated to attend to her pleasure, than with a partner who's indifferent to it. Also, how you feel about a partner in terms of trust and respect and whatnot, can be more important for a woman than for a man.
When you put it all together, it's almost like the things that are important to a lot of women, mostly come from "somebody special" and not "just somebody."
There's a stereotype that men will *kitten* anything with a pulse, and that women just aren't very interested in casual sex. Maybe it's not that women don't like sex, they just don't like bad sex that doesn't satisfy them.
Is there any truth to any of that?
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Also I want this one and I'd take him now. Screw waiting for the perfect body, I want his.
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NorthCascades wrote: »haha everytime I've just screwed "somebody" who doesn't matter, it hasn't been a good experience for me, and I leave feeling worse than I did beforehand. So I'd just rather not
I read something really interesting once. Well, a couple something really interestings that came together in a neat way.
Statistics say men have an orgasm just about 100 % of the time they have sex. For women the numbers are much bleaker.
Now I've never been a woman before, so I don't really know what it's like. But I've been told that the partner makes a difference. Meaning that ladies tend to have a better time with a partner who's motivated to attend to her pleasure, than with a partner who's indifferent to it. Also, how you feel about a partner in terms of trust and respect and whatnot, can be more important for a woman than for a man.
When you put it all together, it's almost like the things that are important to a lot of women, mostly come from "somebody special" and not "just somebody."
There's a stereotype that men will *kitten* anything with a pulse, and that women just aren't very interested in casual sex. Maybe it's not that women don't like sex, they just don't like bad sex that doesn't satisfy them.
Is there any truth to any of that?
100%
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Trying to understand women can be difficult and confusing sometimes. I'm sure we can be pretty baffling too. But I learned a long time ago that it's worth the effort.
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NorthCascades wrote: »NorthCascades wrote: »haha everytime I've just screwed "somebody" who doesn't matter, it hasn't been a good experience for me, and I leave feeling worse than I did beforehand. So I'd just rather not
I read something really interesting once. Well, a couple something really interestings that came together in a neat way.
Statistics say men have an orgasm just about 100 % of the time they have sex. For women the numbers are much bleaker.
Now I've never been a woman before, so I don't really know what it's like. But I've been told that the partner makes a difference. Meaning that ladies tend to have a better time with a partner who's motivated to attend to her pleasure, than with a partner who's indifferent to it. Also, how you feel about a partner in terms of trust and respect and whatnot, can be more important for a woman than for a man.
When you put it all together, it's almost like the things that are important to a lot of women, mostly come from "somebody special" and not "just somebody."
There's a stereotype that men will *kitten* anything with a pulse, and that women just aren't very interested in casual sex. Maybe it's not that women don't like sex, they just don't like bad sex that doesn't satisfy them.
Is there any truth to any of that?
100%
ETA: bold
Trying to understand women can be difficult and confusing sometimes. I'm sure we can be pretty baffling too. But I learned a long time ago that it's worth the effort.
No doubt. Usually a man will get more from a woman when she feels like her needs are met....dare I say, first? Because, like you said our "numbers are much bleaker."1 -
Thought better of it.
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mjhuisheere wrote: »Hmmm---never had an orgasm , so not possible for me lol.
Are you somehow unable to or ??? I don't understand this.
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this is making my head hurt0
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mjhuisheere wrote: »Hmmm---never had an orgasm , so not possible for me lol.
This makes me sad. Find a way1 -
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peppermintpudgy wrote: »
Great for sore muscles.
So that's what that was...1 -
NorthCascades wrote: »
Yes, You Called?1 -
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mjhuisheere wrote: »Hmmm---never had an orgasm , so not possible for me lol.
You don't own a shower massage, do you?1 -
Years ago, a girl I was dating urged me to bring home an electric toothbrush...2
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NorthCascades wrote: »Years ago, a girl I was dating urged me to bring home an electric toothbrush...
Hmm that's different. How'd that work out?0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »mjhuisheere wrote: »Hmmm---never had an orgasm , so not possible for me lol.
You don't own a shower massage, do you?
Precisely0
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