Husband cheated on me here
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@JeepHair77 your spidey sense is tingling because there's a lot that doesn't add up about all of this.1
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_har_T_Swallow wrote: »Sooothathappened wrote: »@_har_T_Swallow thank you for that... I truly don't know what I could have done differently
i've cheated before. i know what led me to it. like even if i had a million bucks in the bank, huge house, acreage, 5 new cars, "love you babe" text every morning on my way to work- none of that would have stopped it from happening. because it was me. i probably would've ended up doing it even if we lived in a cardboard box.
nothing you could've done would've prevented it i bet. it sucks to say that, but life sucks sometimes.
This is kind of true for a lot of people.5 -
_har_T_Swallow wrote: »Sooothathappened wrote: »@_har_T_Swallow thank you for that... I truly don't know what I could have done differently
i've cheated before. i know what led me to it. like even if i had a million bucks in the bank, huge house, acreage, 5 new cars, "love you babe" text every morning on my way to work- none of that would have stopped it from happening. because it was me. i probably would've ended up doing it even if we lived in a cardboard box.
nothing you could've done would've prevented it i bet. it sucks to say that, but life sucks sometimes.
This is real talk. And I am happy that you took ownership.12 -
_har_T_Swallow wrote: »Sooothathappened wrote: »@_har_T_Swallow thank you for that... I truly don't know what I could have done differently
i've cheated before. i know what led me to it. like even if i had a million bucks in the bank, huge house, acreage, 5 new cars, "love you babe" text every morning on my way to work- none of that would have stopped it from happening. because it was me. i probably would've ended up doing it even if we lived in a cardboard box.
nothing you could've done would've prevented it i bet. it sucks to say that, but life sucks sometimes.
Are you the hubby??? lmaooooo8 -
Sooothathappened wrote: »We were definitely together.
It's crazy.
Man cheats on wife via MFP and KIK. So creepy and gross.
What's even crazier to me is we're young-ish, we're both attractive, we're "successful", and I loved him.
It all came as such a shock.
He said those women gave him "affirmation."
I don't understand why my affirmation wasn't enough.
I think its important to have a conversation about "cheating" not everyone has the same definition.
He may think what he did was naughty, possibly hurtful to you but not cheating.
As for the second point I bolded...often times it's not about you at all.
Best wishes in whatever happens!3 -
@leanjogreen18 interesting that you say that... when he came clean he kept saying, "but I never cheated on you"1
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Sooothathappened wrote: »@leanjogreen18 interesting that you say that... when he came clean he kept saying, "but I never cheated on you"
Why did he have to come clean then? He is FOS!5 -
I was just in the mood for some flirting, kik'ing and DP viewing. But I'm not in the mood now after reading this. Think I'll just go to bed with a good book.7
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Being a slimeball is cheating. Guy was basically being a pervert and encouraging nudes/sexting or whatever to women online whilst being married - time he could have been spending with his wife to iron out any problems or insecurities or possibly time seeing a professional about his problems and issues - she would have respected him more for trying to deal with things as an adult rather than a sex-obsessed teenager.8
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friction_thighs wrote: »I was just in the mood for some flirting, kik'ing and DP viewing. But I'm not in the mood now after reading this. Think I'll just go to bed with a good book.
Heh. Well put.0 -
I know many..... that have done this... and yes... on here. marriages are done!0
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@STLBADGIRL that's when I slowly started backing away from the husband2
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Sooothathappened wrote: »Apparently he shared pics and videos with any woman who was willing. So that happened.
LOL0 -
May I recommend that you invest in a Labrador as a replacement. They are great therapy dogs, also. Loyalty assured
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@IVMay thanks for the recommendation... I do appreciate a good dog0
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One last thing before I have to delete all of this for my mental sanity....
I did message one of the women on here right after I found out... and she called me "hun" while denying everything. I figured she was actually telling me the truth until my husband insisted it was her and she knew he was married cause she told him she was married, too. So I told her as a courtesy I wanted her to know that I was going to tell her husband. She deleted her acct after that.
I felt guilty for going there but it did give me a little satisfaction.17 -
May I recommend that you invest in a Labrador as a replacement. They are great therapy dogs, also. Loyalty assured
I don't know about that dude.... I had a labrador..... it f$%&ed everything in sight...... even Mr Teddikens, my cuddly toy I had since I was 4 years old..... I'm guessing this hubby didn't go that far?8
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