How to approach girls in the gym???

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  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
    Dance over like this:

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    Never fails.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    denny_mac wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Ironlady70 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Machafin wrote: »
    Don't, they are there to workout (like you should be) and not there to find "love"

    where DO they go to find "love"?

    Grocery store

    is "accidentally" bumping shopping carts together a good ice breaker?
    and then... where in the store? produce section? frozen foods? beer / wine?

    The answer to all of these is..... YES.

    and where do you shop for groceries? days / times?


    various days and times..... trying to find out when the single guys shop. So I keep going at random times....

    that IS when we single guys shop! random times :)
    The only time I ever approached a woman in a grocery store, it turned out I actually knew her from years earlier but just didn't recognize her at first.

    Then, not long ago I was very tempted to give it a try again, but her body language looked very closed off, and busy so I didn't. Maybe I should have employed the shopping cart crash technique.

    Crash technique is good. Or if she is stopped in front of something, act like you need whatever it is behind her. Great way to approach... and you can always put that item back later....
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Ironlady70 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Machafin wrote: »
    Don't, they are there to workout (like you should be) and not there to find "love"

    where DO they go to find "love"?

    Grocery store

    is "accidentally" bumping shopping carts together a good ice breaker?
    and then... where in the store? produce section? frozen foods? beer / wine?

    The answer to all of these is..... YES.

    and where do you shop for groceries? days / times?


    various days and times..... trying to find out when the single guys shop. So I keep going at random times....

    I'm a late night shopper. I think a lot of single people are. Can't stand the crowds and the people with Carts packed with 456 items....

    Yes.... I used to be a 2am shopper. haha
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    msf74 wrote: »
    Dance over like this:

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    Never fails.

    I knew guys that did this. :D:D
  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Ironlady70 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Machafin wrote: »
    Don't, they are there to workout (like you should be) and not there to find "love"

    where DO they go to find "love"?

    Grocery store

    is "accidentally" bumping shopping carts together a good ice breaker?
    and then... where in the store? produce section? frozen foods? beer / wine?

    The answer to all of these is..... YES.

    and where do you shop for groceries? days / times?


    various days and times..... trying to find out when the single guys shop. So I keep going at random times....

    I'm a late night shopper. I think a lot of single people are. Can't stand the crowds and the people with Carts packed with 456 items....

    Yes.... I used to be a 2am shopper. haha

    It would be hard not to notice me shopping in every aisle as you at 2am.....we may have a conversation...;)
  • zorander6
    zorander6 Posts: 2,711 Member
    Honestly I'd considered just having groceries delivered. About the only time I can stand the grocery store is around 5:30am and that's only if I must.
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    edited August 2018
    bojack5 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Ironlady70 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Machafin wrote: »
    Don't, they are there to workout (like you should be) and not there to find "love"

    where DO they go to find "love"?

    Grocery store

    is "accidentally" bumping shopping carts together a good ice breaker?
    and then... where in the store? produce section? frozen foods? beer / wine?

    The answer to all of these is..... YES.

    and where do you shop for groceries? days / times?


    various days and times..... trying to find out when the single guys shop. So I keep going at random times....

    I'm a late night shopper. I think a lot of single people are. Can't stand the crowds and the people with Carts packed with 456 items....

    Yes.... I used to be a 2am shopper. haha

    It would be hard not to notice me shopping in every aisle as you at 2am.....we may have a conversation...;)

    Like.... "I appreciate the attention, but maybe walking 6 inches behind me is a little close..."

  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Ironlady70 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Machafin wrote: »
    Don't, they are there to workout (like you should be) and not there to find "love"

    where DO they go to find "love"?

    Grocery store

    is "accidentally" bumping shopping carts together a good ice breaker?
    and then... where in the store? produce section? frozen foods? beer / wine?

    The answer to all of these is..... YES.

    and where do you shop for groceries? days / times?


    various days and times..... trying to find out when the single guys shop. So I keep going at random times....

    I'm a late night shopper. I think a lot of single people are. Can't stand the crowds and the people with Carts packed with 456 items....

    Yes.... I used to be a 2am shopper. haha

    It would be hard not to notice me shopping in every aisle as you at 2am.....we may have a conversation...;)

    Like.... "I appreciate the stalking, but maybe 6 inches behind me is a little close..."

    Haha.....I wear a suit when I shop late at night....its something out of the ordinary and always sparks up a conversation ;)
  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    msf74 wrote: »
    Dance over like this:

    giphy.gif

    Never fails.

    I knew guys that did this. :D:D

    They must have been absolute legends!
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Ironlady70 wrote: »
    denny_mac wrote: »
    Machafin wrote: »
    Don't, they are there to workout (like you should be) and not there to find "love"

    where DO they go to find "love"?

    Grocery store

    is "accidentally" bumping shopping carts together a good ice breaker?
    and then... where in the store? produce section? frozen foods? beer / wine?

    The answer to all of these is..... YES.

    and where do you shop for groceries? days / times?


    various days and times..... trying to find out when the single guys shop. So I keep going at random times....

    I'm a late night shopper. I think a lot of single people are. Can't stand the crowds and the people with Carts packed with 456 items....

    Yes.... I used to be a 2am shopper. haha

    It would be hard not to notice me shopping in every aisle as you at 2am.....we may have a conversation...;)

    Like.... "I appreciate the stalking, but maybe 6 inches behind me is a little close..."

    Haha.....I wear a suit when I shop late at night....its something out of the ordinary and always sparks up a conversation ;)

    At 2am, I never question people's attire. :D
  • tinak33
    tinak33 Posts: 9,883 Member
    msf74 wrote: »
    tinak33 wrote: »
    msf74 wrote: »
    Dance over like this:

    giphy.gif

    Never fails.

    I knew guys that did this. :D:D

    They must have been absolute legends!

    Oh..... they were.....
    It was like they wanted to be the next N'Sync.... except they couldn't sing. It cracked me up every time they showed up at the club, with their synchronized dance moves that they practiced for weeks before....
  • MasterBroshi
    MasterBroshi Posts: 108 Member
    While they are lifting say "You could use more weight" then throw a 45 on each side without warning. Works every time.
  • Ironlady70
    Ironlady70 Posts: 777 Member
    While they are lifting say "You could use more weight" then throw a 45 on each side without warning. Works every time.

    I'd love to have a weight caddy to add weight for me !!! Are you for hire??
  • branflakes1980
    branflakes1980 Posts: 2,516 Member
    edited August 2018
    ChaelAZ wrote: »
    Personally I like to wait until they are on a inner leg machine and then walk up to discuss thigh gap while pointing at their crotch.

    Dey knowz wazzup.

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  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
    ChaelAZ wrote: »
    Personally I like to wait until they are on a inner leg machine and then walk up to discuss thigh gap while pointing at their crotch.

    Dey knowz wazzup.

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    Oh sure, you may scoff, but I can attest to the fact that:

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  • branflakes1980
    branflakes1980 Posts: 2,516 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »
    ChaelAZ wrote: »
    Personally I like to wait until they are on a inner leg machine and then walk up to discuss thigh gap while pointing at their crotch.

    Dey knowz wazzup.

    giphy.gif

    Oh sure, you may scoff, but I can attest to the fact that:

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    Oh I was not scoffing, I was picturing this scenario in my head and it was *kitten* amazing.
  • MagnumOpus1
    MagnumOpus1 Posts: 161 Member
    I’m gonna go with... Don’t. ;)

    What kind of nonsense reply is this?

    Why wouldn't you approach someone you found attractive? As for the approach, not to be superficial but if you're higher on the well put together scale you're more likely get a better response. Putting that to one side, if you catch her gazing at you here and there she's interested. Simply pretend you're going over to use a machine where she's at then open conversation from there. Something along the lines of "I haven't seen you here before?" or "that weight is way too easy for you". If she's interested it'll roll from there. Whenever I say that it's actually genuine so at the same time just relax and feel what suits the moment. The same method works if there's just a hot girl you wanna pursue. Go over and use a machine or workout next to her then find an opening.

    Good luck!
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,864 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »
    ChaelAZ wrote: »
    Personally I like to wait until they are on a inner leg machine and then walk up to discuss thigh gap while pointing at their crotch.

    Dey knowz wazzup.

    giphy.gif

    Oh sure, you may scoff, but I can attest to the fact that:

    giphy.gif

    Oh I was not scoffing, I was picturing this scenario in my head and it was *kitten* amazing.

    giphy.gif
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    Just make small talk
  • manderson27
    manderson27 Posts: 3,510 Member
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