My bf cheated on me
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JustPassingTime wrote: »Posting your problems here is like googling your health symptoms. It's always cancer
As opposed to it never being Lupus.
OP, it's almost comical how much of an *kitten* he is. You definitely dodged a bullet with this jerk.
And geeeeeeeeeeeeeeez, you guys. I love chocolate more than anything but if a sleazy (on a break from my friend) guy gave me chocolates, I'd throw them back in his face....hard. What *kitten* nerve!
I'd invite my friend to the office (since I work with him) and the two of us would sit in clear view of him eating those chocolates. Throw in some hard eye contact too.5 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »Posting your problems here is like googling your health symptoms. It's always cancer
As opposed to it never being Lupus.
OP, it's almost comical how much of an *kitten* he is. You definitely dodged a bullet with this jerk.
And geeeeeeeeeeeeeeez, you guys. I love chocolate more than anything but if a sleazy (on a break from my friend) guy gave me chocolates, I'd throw them back in his face....hard. What *kitten* nerve!
I'd invite my friend to the office (since I work with him) and the two of us would sit in clear view of him eating those chocolates. Throw in some hard eye contact too.
Damn, I'm just way too emotional. I like your version better.3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »And now he is saying that I'm blaming him for our breakup...and said that the breakup was my fault and that if he wanted other females, he would have them in his bed right now.
He sounds very manipulative. I'm sorry to hear this. Move on. You deserve better.3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »He's been in about 2 serious relationships other than ours. He was with female #1 for about 10 years. He has 3 kids with her. His oldest kid is about 6 years younger than me. He was with female number 2 for 2 years. Also had a kid with her. And always talks about how he hates her guts and how it was their fault their relationship didn't workout but right now, I think I know it wasn't them and it was him the whole time.
My spidey sense is tingling. I bet he is a narcissist. Run!!!!5 -
Guys my friend just told me more. Apparently a day before he broke up with me, he asked her to go out and try ethopian food with him and she agreed to go. He talked about me to her. Saying he wasnt happy. That he was gonna leave me but waiting until after Valentine's day but then about a day later, he texted her saying that he couldn't wait any longer and had broken up with me.7
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MIltonBradley1 wrote: »So, let's talk more about that screen shot text you posted but later removed.
I thought the thread was closed because of the swearing in the text. Are you sure she was the one who removed it?3 -
Get out of the relationship and research borderline personality disorder. Go no contact and stay away.6
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MIltonBradley1 wrote: »So, let's talk more about that screen shot text you posted but later removed.
I thought the thread was closed because of the swearing in the text. Are you sure she was the one who removed it?
I didn't remove them. I think the moderator did.0 -
MIltonBradley1 wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Guys my friend just told me more. Apparently a day before he broke up with me, he asked her to go out and try ethopian food with him and she agreed to go. He talked about me to her. Saying he wasnt happy. That he was gonna leave me but waiting until after Valentine's day but then about a day later, he texted her saying that he couldn't wait any longer and had broken up with me.
Interesting choice of foods.
My friend is ethopian.3 -
ButterIsGood wrote: »Guys my friend just told me more. Apparently a day before he broke up with me, he asked her to go out and try ethopian food with him and she agreed to go. He talked about me to her. Saying he wasnt happy. That he was gonna leave me but waiting until after Valentine's day but then about a day later, he texted her saying that he couldn't wait any longer and had broken up with me.
I don't think you have a very good friend. Why would she agree to go to dinner with him and tell you after the fact. This all sound really suspect to me.8 -
Pour_Decisions wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Guys my friend just told me more. Apparently a day before he broke up with me, he asked her to go out and try ethopian food with him and she agreed to go. He talked about me to her. Saying he wasnt happy. That he was gonna leave me but waiting until after Valentine's day but then about a day later, he texted her saying that he couldn't wait any longer and had broken up with me.
I don't think you have a very good friend. Why would she agree to go to dinner with him and tell you after the fact. This all sound really suspect to me.
Maybe she thought it was just as friends.
Why does everything have to be suspect? (Asking for a friend of a friend )2 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »Okay I'll bite OP. What do you wanna do? Sit here and discuss and hear people say how sorry your ex is or move on from this or what?
Just wanted to get things off my chest. Idk about you but it feels better when you tall about things.9 -
If they were friends before you guys were then going out for food might not be so shady but she should have told you this before. Regardless of what your friend has done right or wrong in this situation doesnt change the fact that your ex guy is shady AF. Also, I have thrown away chocolate before.3
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ButterIsGood wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Okay I'll bite OP. What do you wanna do? Sit here and discuss and hear people say how sorry your ex is or move on from this or what?
Just wanted to get things off my chest. Idk about you but it feels better when you tall about things.
Well I hope you are gaining useful perspective from all the feedback so far and will take it to heart.
He sounds 100% toxic, definitely a narcissist. I'm suspicious of your friend as well. I would have no further contact with him. There's no need to explain yourself, or ask him anything else. He's shown who he is. He's a liar and all you'll get back is lies.
Any self respecting man would not talk to anyone, especially a female/partner/someone he was supposed to care about, etc, the way he was talking to you in those screenshots.
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JustPassingTime wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Okay I'll bite OP. What do you wanna do? Sit here and discuss and hear people say how sorry your ex is or move on from this or what?
Just wanted to get things off my chest. Idk about you but it feels better when you tall about things.
But here though? I understand you need emotional support but I think you get those from people close to you
Almost everyone I know, knows him. I don't want him to find out that i'm hurt. That's why I posted here. Advice from strangers is sometimes helpful.14 -
Pour_Decisions wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Guys my friend just told me more. Apparently a day before he broke up with me, he asked her to go out and try ethopian food with him and she agreed to go. He talked about me to her. Saying he wasnt happy. That he was gonna leave me but waiting until after Valentine's day but then about a day later, he texted her saying that he couldn't wait any longer and had broken up with me.
I don't think you have a very good friend. Why would she agree to go to dinner with him and tell you after the fact. This all sound really suspect to me.
Maybe she thought it was just as friends.
Why does everything have to be suspect? (Asking for a friend of a friend )
I don't know, if my friend's man asked me to go to dinner I would:
1) tell my friend (if it's supposed to be innocent then that won't be a problem)
2) probably not go11 -
Pour_Decisions wrote: »Pour_Decisions wrote: »ButterIsGood wrote: »Guys my friend just told me more. Apparently a day before he broke up with me, he asked her to go out and try ethopian food with him and she agreed to go. He talked about me to her. Saying he wasnt happy. That he was gonna leave me but waiting until after Valentine's day but then about a day later, he texted her saying that he couldn't wait any longer and had broken up with me.
I don't think you have a very good friend. Why would she agree to go to dinner with him and tell you after the fact. This all sound really suspect to me.
Maybe she thought it was just as friends.
Why does everything have to be suspect? (Asking for a friend of a friend )
I don't know, if my friend's man asked me to go to dinner I would:
1) tell my friend (if it's supposed to be innocent then that won't be a problem)
2) probably not go
Same.5
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