My bf cheated on me

newmeadow wrote: »

You're very beautiful

What she said -

Now turn this day around by Taking 15 min and switching to geico - nothing can turn a frown upside down like saving 15% on car insurance-

The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »

ButterIsGood wrote: »

Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?

I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.

I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?

OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.

The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »

ButterIsGood wrote: »

Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?

I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.

but you can't screenshot it when you actually talk to someone

The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »

RivenV wrote: »

The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »

ButterIsGood wrote: »

Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?

I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.

I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?

OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.

I understand what you're saying. That's my opinion and you have yours. I just don't see how posting pics of text messages and hearing one side of a story is going to make things any better. Like I said... I'm very sorry she's going through that. The guy is obviously a coward by what she said about it.

I just don't think drama is a way to fix it. If you enjoy that.. good for you

Again, as someone who was accused of this, I don't understand why it has to be that someone is looking for drama by posting what they're going through. Sometimes you just need to vent. Sometimes you want advice (and, yes, sometimes the best advice comes from people you don't know and who don't know you because there aren't any biases).

And, with the way this guy is acting, do you REALLY want her to talk voice to him? She shouldn't even be texting him. She should be looking into a restraining order just in case (not really sure how that works).

glassyo wrote: »

The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »

RivenV wrote: »

The_Devil_In_Miss_Jones_ wrote: »

ButterIsGood wrote: »

Am I allowed to post pics of texts if I can cross out the bad words?

I don't mean to sound harsh but what ever happenned to picking up the phone and talking to eachother instead of texting? I'm sorry this is happening to you but sometimes personal problems like that require personal solutions. Not public attention.

I dunno. Maybe the same thing that happened to sending Telegrams or writing letters? And maybe whatever works best for you, regarding personal problems, isn't what works best for everyone. How about not drawing public attention to yourself while also not putting down someone else for asking for help? I'm sorry you have to deal with a stranger's issues, but you know you don't have to, right?

OP, you're gorgeous, and this guy is a clown. If there's nothing irreplaceable at his place, just block his number and cease any/all contact with him. For real. He's gas-lighting you and making you doubt your friendships. No one needs that *kitten*.

I understand what you're saying. That's my opinion and you have yours. I just don't see how posting pics of text messages and hearing one side of a story is going to make things any better. Like I said... I'm very sorry she's going through that. The guy is obviously a coward by what she said about it.

I just don't think drama is a way to fix it. If you enjoy that.. good for you

Again, as someone who was accused of this, I don't understand why it has to be that someone is looking for drama by posting what they're going through. Sometimes you just need to vent. Sometimes you want advice (and, yes, sometimes the best advice comes from people you don't know and who don't know you because there aren't any biases).

And, with the way this guy is acting, do you REALLY want her to talk voice to him? She shouldn't even be texting him. She should be looking into a restraining order just in case (not really sure how that works).

I agree with you. I've had some great advice from friends here myself. I guess I've always been the type of person who likes to hear both sides of stories before I can give a opinion. I did not mean what I said in a bad way regardless of how some people may see it and how people seem to get offended for nothing.

I do have a heart and nobody deserves to go through heartbreak like that.

ButterIsGood wrote: »

tinkerhellraiser wrote: »

@ButterIsGood someday youre going to be so happy without him like you don’t even know

I already feel very free. I guess I was trapped without knowing.

Even if it hurts, you're better off without him. One day you'll meet someone who appreciates you and this guy will just be a life lesson.