is your family concerned that you are still using a food scale?
csplatt
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I've gotten a comment or two a la "I thought you said you were done losing weight?" I pretty much am, but I get comfort from still using the food scale to reach my maintenance calories. In reality, it is freeing because it shows me that I can eat more than I instinctively think I should. But it seems to be a red flag in some way to others, who think I need to relax.
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Nope. My family got used to it, and it no longer seems to even register in their minds. My sister uses one religiously as well. Of course, by "family" I only mean my mom and brother; my extended family members would probably think I was nuts if they knew about it at all.4
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No. My husband is used to me doing it and nobody else knows, if I am out somewhere I just make a sensible guesstimate.
Or things like my lunch box for work are pre weighed at home.2 -
My parents confuse my scale for a "tablet" all the time and still refer to it as a tablet whenever I clarify what it really is. To be fair, English is not their native language and they aren't the most tech savvy people. My family seems to get that I use it for portion control, and they don't seem concerned about it.4
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No, my family knows it’s important for me to weigh my food as my hunger & non-hunger signals are not clear. I also love to use it because otherwise I’m adding extra calories & I don’t get to eat as much.
It’s especially important in maintenance!0 -
Not mine, no. Culturally, the food scale doesn't have negative associations here. Most houses have one and many people use it often. When I first started using it for logging my family "got it" right away and it made sense to them that it's an accurate way to record my portions.4
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Me too. I live in a foreign country and we use a scale to weigh out ingredients everyday. It's a part of life and no one blinks an eye.3
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I got an eyeroll when i got back from holiday and immediately started weighing my lunch! Still working out my actual maintenance level so he'll just have to deal with it1
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Mrs. gives me an odd look like I'm being a weirdo, even though I only use it for calorie dense foods that are to hard to guesstimate with the eyechrometer.5
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...been using my food scale for a couple of years (not currently losing weight). I'm just used to using it; I can "eyeball" portions pretty well now, but the scale is right there (might as well use it). This doesn't phase my husband at all.
People at work actually think it's perfectly fine too; I've mentioned that I use 1 and the response has been positive. If you need it to stay on track (and it doesn't interfere with normal life...you still go out and eat at restaurants or parties and don't freak out without the scale)....then it's not a crutch.2 -
Tell them to MYOB.5
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I'm not maintaining now, back to losing, but when I was I kept using a scale, been using it for years so everyone is used to it. My parents own a scale and I use it when I visit, when we host a potluck I use my scale so my friends are also used to it.0
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I only use it at home and my husband is very supportive. There are few others who see me use it as we're pretty introverted folk. My dad and his wife both use one at home and log on MFP. And, my in-laws, who visit a few times a year, are very laid back, non-judgy people, so they're happy if I am.
But, even if they weren't supportive, it would be their problem. Using a scale has made my life immeasurably easier and is definitely freeing.4 -
I'm not a scale person but my current IF practices have drawn a few raised eyebrows. At the start of my journey, I made a promise to myself that nobody, and I mean NOBODY, was going to sabotage my current efforts. And, over 200 days later, this has been my case. Good for you for doing what has worked for you. Keep marching forward even though you've apparently "arrived."0
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My husband doesn't say anything about it, he's used to it. I am the worst at eyeballing meat and he can tell you within a couple of grams what something weighs. Sometimes he's annoying.
He did laugh at me the other day when I went to give the dog her medication and I wanted to use 1/3 a can of dog food so plopped the can on the scale out of habit. I probably don't need to be that precise with the dog food!6 -
My husband and I both use it. We also use it for baking so it’s not unusual. My girlfriend stayed with us and she was like is that how you lost all that weight? And then she bought one herself.5
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No, my husband is used to it, and the rest of my family lives far enough away that they don't know details of my daily routine. However, they've experienced enough issues with obesity, yo-yo dieting, and weight related health problems that most of them understand. They've seen what happens when people just "stop dieting."1
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I've gotten a comment or two a la "I thought you said you were done losing weight?" I pretty much am, but I get comfort from still using the food scale to reach my maintenance calories. In reality, it is freeing because it shows me that I can eat more than I instinctively think I should. But it seems to be a red flag in some way to others, who think I need to relax.
I think whenever people who care about you raise a red flag, it's worth it to take a moment and give it a quick thought. Do they have a point? Are there consequences of this I might be missing? Or do they just not understand or have limited info?
Once you've done that (which it sounds like you already have), if their opinion is important to you, it can't hurt to one time explain to them why you're still using the scale. Then going forward if it comes up again, just shrug it off or tell them to mind their beeswax
I wanted to comment because sometimes we are doing things that are hurting us and we don't realize it. OP, I'm not directing that at you at all (your explanation makes perfect sense and is how I feel as well), but others who might be reading. We do get folks here who have unhealthy behaviors with food and dieting, and sometimes the concern is warranted. :drinker:16 -
It's mostly just my husband who sees me use it and he doesn't care, but I get self conscious around others I don't know as well as I do worry it looks obsessive. I tend to just guess when lots of people are over since I have a good eye for it by now--like yesterday when my husband's parents were over. They're also the type to constantly keep asking me if I want food and seeming a bit annoyed when I say no, which I start finding stressful after awhile. My fridge is also now full of sausage rolls and cake that they bought and left, which I don't even want but also don't want to go to waste now they're gone. Grr.
Sometimes I wish I could bring it to other people's houses to measure out meals but I know I'd get some weird looks.1 -
thankfully i live with just my son so he doesn't see it as odd or anything.0
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staticsplit wrote: »My fridge is also now full of sausage rolls and cake that they bought and left, which I don't even want but also don't want to go to waste now they're gone.
Well it's gonna go to waste one way or another. If it doesn't go in the trash, it'll just be stored on your waist and you'll have to get rid of it the hard way. I'd just have a bite of cake, then take the rest into work and let my co-workers dig in.
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