Why does it bother me?

wagnerchristina99
wagnerchristina99 Posts: 33 Member
in Chit-Chat
I could use some insight.
Why would it bother me (or get on my nerves) to see someone who doesn’t appear to be trying?

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  • WeighandPray
    WeighandPray Posts: 42 Member
    Depends, if it's a SO, perhaps you want them to exert effort, too. If it's a random stranger, perhaps you have too much time on your hands. Lots of time what we feel about ourselves comes out in a reaction to someone else.
  • wagnerchristina99
    wagnerchristina99 Posts: 33 Member
    Someone in the fitness game
  • LeGaCyGiAnT
    LeGaCyGiAnT Posts: 66 Member
    You care about them more than you led yourself to believe. You want to see them do good for themselves, but they are throwing it away.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    wagnerchristina99 wrote: »
    I could use some insight.
    Why would it bother me (or get on my nerves) to see someone who doesn’t appear to be trying?

    Maybe you're envious
    Like if someone seems to get everything easy, without trying.
    I sometimes get a bit envious.
  • pizzamyheart
    pizzamyheart Posts: 1,836 Member
    You have to worry about yourself and let other people worry about themselves.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,793 Member
    Judgemental?

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