A question for "older" women.
MyrnaSolganick
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I have heard so much - and have experienced it as well - that it is SO freaking hard to lose weight post menopause. Hard is one thing. Is it impossible? if not, what helps?
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I’m 61, post menopause and have just hit 40 pounds lost with 25 more to go.
I didn’t use any special tricks or supplements. Staying in a calorie deficit will create weight loss.26 -
I am 68 and I hit 56 lbs loss this morning since last May 28... you can lose weight if you eat less calories!....I have over 100 to go but I know I can do it!17
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Yes, menopause is awful for SO MANY reasons, only one of which is the glacial pace at which we seem to burn calories once on the other side of it. The good news is that no, weight loss is not impossible now. The bad news is that yes, it's harder. The rate at which your body metabolizes calories is a lot slower now. Translation: your calorie-budget just to maintain your current weight is now a lot lower. So in order LOSE weight, you feel like you're REALLY restricting your intake, and that makes meal-time no fun at all. So you have to do one (or both) of 2 things -
1. Get used to the fact that your meals are always going to be smaller now. Yes, to put it bluntly, that sucks, but it's the truth. The days of eating whatever we wanted to, in whatever quantities we desired, are over. You can help yourself a lot by avoiding calorie-dense foods and replacing them with filling foods that don't blow your budget. My salads used to always have avocado (one of my favs), pine nuts, and blue cheese crumbles, but try incorporating those into a tight calorie-budget, and you're going to still be hungry at the end of dinner. I've learned it's more satisfying for me to avoid my "big 3" for the most part so that I can still eat a large enough meal (of lower-cal alternatives) to feel satiated when my plate is empty.
2. Exercise more...and harder. OK, really, who has the time? I tried this, and I ended up temporarily derailing my whole fitness regimen. But if it works for you, every calorie you burn via exercise is one that you can add back onto your trimmed-down food-calorie goal. Seriously though, the effort and time it takes for me to burn an extra 200 calories is just not worth the 2 slices of sandwich bread it buys me. But if it works for you, go for it.
Weight loss is definitely still possible. But allow yourself more time to lose the weight than you would have expected pre-menopause.
Oh, and one more thing - It's ok to splurge a little on 12/24 and 12/25, but make sure you hop right back up on that horse the morning of 12/26. My BIGGEST downfall is that I tend to turn a benign 1-day break into a 7-day, out-of-control binge that's hard to climb out of. Hopefully you're stronger than I.13 -
Definitely not impossible, at any age. It really comes down to eating less calories than your body burns. I lost 1/2 my body weight post menopausal. It really just takes commitment and perseverance to eating at a calorie deficit. Simple concept at any age, but not necessarily easy.15
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I'm 63 (post-menopause and post-hysterectomy). I've lost 43 lbs so far, since Jan. 22 this year. Just have 17 to go. Yeah it's slower, but lifting weights (for me lifting my two toddler grandchildren much of the day while their mother works) and aerobic exercise a few days a week (for me straightening my poor daughter's house-who also has two teen children - in a hurry while my toddler grandchildren wait for me to play with them) has helped immensely! You can do it! You just need patience and the knowledge that it doesn't happen like it did as a teen or 20+something. 1 lb/week every week adds up. It's slow but because of that, easier to maintain. You have a longer time to build up good habits.7
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I’m 52 post menopause. Current loss is 40 lbs ain the past year and half, and I’m now a half pound away from a healthy BMI. While it was certainly easier to lose weight in my 20s and 30s, I was more active then due to my kids being younger and requiring more hands on attention. But losing weight in my 50s hasn’t been impossible. It just requires patience and focus.
My advice is just keep tracking your food as accurately as you can. Try to find ways to incorporate more movement into your daily life.4 -
I'm 64, and lost about 50 pounds in 2015 at age 59-60 (menopausal . . . and hypothryroid, to boot), obese to a healthy weight, and am still at a healthy weight now, nearly 5 years later.
The difference in population-wide calorie requirements between a younger self and an older one is surprisingly small. A TDEE calculator will suggest that I, at my current size, 5'5" and about 135 pounds, would burn about 1600 calories as a sedentary 34-year-old, and about 1450 or so now, at 64. That's less than one serving of peanut butter difference daily. (It's around a tablespoon and a half of peanut butter, specifically, or about as many calories as one 20oz nonfat latte with no sweetener/syrup/whip, just skim milk and coffee.)
Further, research suggests that the biggest differences between calorie needs of younger vs. older people come down to two things: Less daily life activity as we age, and reduced muscle mass as we get older. The good news is, both of those things are things we can influence . . . almost completely control, in fact.
Exercise increases our calorie expenditure, and it doesn't have to be some kind of miserable, exhausting slog through some activity we don't enjoy. Any fun way of moving the body works: Sure, gym stuff, but also walking, cycling, swimming, dancing, gardenting, and much more.
Strength exercise (anything that progressively challenges our muscles) helps reverse the muscle loss that can come with aging, especially when coupled with a diet that has adequate protein (something that a lot of older women don't get enough of, frankly, especially when cutting calories.) Research has demonstrated strength and muscle mass gain as achievable by people into at least their 80s, and probably beyond. For women, this has the added benefit of supporting our bone density, which can be a significant risk factor for injury and disability in later years.
Also, we can make it a point to consciously increase daily life activity (i.e., non-exercise things). There's a thread about that here, with ideas from many people:
http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10610953/neat-improvement-strategies-to-improve-weight-loss/
There are women here who report changes that have more than reversed that estimated calorie difference that comes with age, just from conscious increases in daily life activity.
It is very possible to lose weight in menopause. In fact, in terms of the process - calorie counting, monitoring weight, etc. - it's quite simple. It's not always easy in a logistical/practical sense, or psychologically . . . but the mechanics are quite straightforward, IMO.
You can do it. :flowerforyou:28 -
My weight loss/maintenance journey spans pre and post menopause.
I lost to goal weight in 2013, took most of the year. At that stage I was 5o and pre menopause.
Then in maintenance.
By age 54 I had completed menopause - that was 2 years ago.
Have found ZERO difference in maintenance in those 2 years compared to previous 3.
My personal long term data showed no difference in calorie intake required pre and post.
incidentally also had thyroid tumour removed in 2016 and had to go on thyroxine replacment - that also made zero difference.
Although of course I have to take adequate replacement.9 -
MyrnaSolganick wrote: »I have heard so much - and have experienced it as well - that it is SO freaking hard to lose weight post menopause. Hard is one thing. Is it impossible? if not, what helps?
I'm an "older" woman. I'm 65. In mid-July of this year I weighed 173. I joined MFP July 31. I weigh 140 now.
I've absolutely no problem losing weight. I might lose another 5 pounds or so. I used the MFP tools, tracked my calories, and exercised every day, mostly by walking and jogging.
I'm also interested in my nutrition. I take my food to work instead of buying food from the vending machine or eating the cookies in the break room. I still eat out with my friends, am happy with what I'm doing, and am never hungry. I like the food I'm eating. I'm a widow and hate to cook, so I eat simple food that pleases me.
It's rare for me to comment on an age-related thread. These conversations blow my mind. If you're "old" it's supposed to be so hard and you're supposed to be barely able to do anything. Sure, some people may have health problems that make it extra hard, but I see most of it as people who want to complain and have drama (call me mean, but that's how I see it).
Track calories
Eat less than you burn
Move every day, at least a little, for your health
Stop grousing and do something
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(deleted my comment, time to go running)
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I lost 80ish pounds post menopause and have kept it off for 12 years.
It wasn't particularly hard and I can't say if it was harder because I'd never really logged food nor tried to lose a lot of weight before.
Just start, log food every day. Stay in calories and get a little exercise. You'll get there.7 -
I lost 150 beginning at age 59. I tracked calories here on MFPand began strength training and walking. 5+ years later and still maintaining plus swimming, cycling, and still lots of walking and strength training. I never found it easy to lose weight even at younger ages.7
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I lost 35 post menopause, gained it back, then lost 55. I've maintained that loss for more than 5 years. My metabolism is very good, evidently, since I burn more calories than the average for someone my age (63). I became a runner 8 years ago and run about 35-40 mpw so I can do marathons every spring and other races during the year. That allows me to eat pretty much what I want, most of the time.4
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I am 61, in the last 17 months I have lost 76 pounds, and am still working on the other 58 lbs to get into a healthy weight. Been post since 2009. I actually have found it easier, because on MFP due to logging all I eat, and really understanding how important the food scale is. Do not look for reasons why it is not working, look for reasons to make it happen. I think the whole Post menopause cannot lose weight is a crutch/excuse, and women need to stop using it.
I pre-log meals that I know will be the same, often breakfast is. Or the fact that after shopping I cut up lots of veges and sometimes fruit and package them up for grab and go. Doing this saves times, and each package has been weighed out and calories counted into a day.
I do low carb, am a diabetic so eating this way can keep good blood sugars, that eating a full carb diet just does not cut for me. But the key still was eating less calories than what I burned up in a day.
At first I did little to no exercise. But now 45 minutes to an hour 6 days a week. And makes a big difference. Choose something you enjoy, and know you will keep doing. I am back to doing all the work in our flower beds and I love it, cycling, and started back swimming.
Good luck you can do this, but it is an attitude adjustment that is part of the process.9 -
@MyrnaSolganick It isn't harder. The process is the same. Eat in a calorie deficit.
@suetozer2015 I can't help but think that if you were not restricting your calories as much, you would not resort to a 7 day out-of-control binge. The result of that binge is that you ultimately eat more calories overall. Why not incorporate those extra calories into your daily allotment to keep you fuller and more satisfied?10 -
This, from 2 posts above:
Do not look for reasons why it is not working, look for reasons to make it happen.
One of the best quotes ever.12 -
43-45lb range of loss (yo-up’s back y forth) but doing it had to do research y use the app to figure the right calories for me make it work. Walking indoors to chasing ball with a 2yr old even tho I’m in my 40’s seems slower harder than ever before getting there inch by inch0
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I am 59 years old- I have lost almost 30 pounds using MFP- with the suggested number of calories- I also like to walk for exercise and I sometimes lift smaller weights for muscle mass(lol)- anyway I have lost weight- yes my weight loss has been slow but still I usually check my weight and compare over a MONTH- because weekly - there are just so many fluctuations and I will sometimes get discouraged- but monthly helps me know that I am going down- now around the holidays- I would LOVE to go down- but I know even if I maintain- that is fine because of all the holiday treats and fun times with family and I don't want to MISS them- You can do this! just take your time- what else have we got to do- we are going to live- so we might as well try to live healthier lives(smile)2
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I'm 68, and I've lost 59 pounds and now I'm within a healthy weight range and BMI, so yes, it can be done. And YES, it's harder to lose weight when you're older versus when younger, simply because your body slows down after menopause, you don't burn as many calories so it just takes a bit longer. But not only is it not impossible, it's not that much harder! You just have to be completely aware of how much you're eating versus how much your burning. So you can do this, many of us have, many of us will continue to lose or maintain, and we're gonna be smexy older women together! You've got this.3
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