Fabulously gay 440 pound guy

Looking for some people around Roseville CA who want to lose weight and change their lifestyles. I'm trying to lose 240 pounds and need encouragement and support. I would like to have someone to talk to who will actually listen to me and support me on my journey for better health. PS still in the closet, so yeah. 33 yrs old 440 pounds and gay. I have anxiety issues and agoraphobia. We can encourage each other and keep each other accountable. I will lose this weight and be healthier. I just want some help.