The Sober Squad- Alcohol Free Living
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Soooo.... yesterday I ate a cherry cordial that contained alcohol.
I didn't realize till I felt the BITE of the alcohol. I didn't spit it out and kind of felt bad for not doing so. After swallowing, I read on the packaging "Contains alcohol. Not suitable for pregnant women and children."
I never thought about a chocolate candy containing alcohol!!!
After I had my moment, I began to think about the purchase... I bought this at TJ Maxx in the gourmet food section. 1. Do THEY realize they are selling alcohol? 2. Should I have been carded? It was quite stout. If a child had eaten several, I do believe they would get tipsy.3 -
Soooo.... yesterday I ate a cherry cordial that contained alcohol.
I didn't realize till I felt the BITE of the alcohol. I didn't spit it out and kind of felt bad for not doing so. After swallowing, I read on the packaging "Contains alcohol. Not suitable for pregnant women and children."
I never thought about a chocolate candy containing alcohol!!!
After I had my moment, I began to think about the purchase... I bought this at TJ Maxx in the gourmet food section. 1. Do THEY realize they are selling alcohol? 2. Should I have been carded? It was quite stout. If a child had eaten several, I do believe they would get tipsy.
That is interesting that it was sold At TJ's. You're right, the label should have been more overt about the alcohol.
I heard someone ask during AA whether it was ok to have things like beer battered chicken. The other person replied only you know if that's a good idea based on your intention. I liked that answer. You didn't realize it had alcohol and quite honestly it probably wasn't that much. I see no harm.5 -
I made an assumption today that was incorrect. I heard a relative of mine is getting a divorce. My first thought was his drinking probably got in the way..... I was wrong! The wife was a closet alcoholic- I never realized it. So, it was she who has the addiction, not he. He also has PTSD from being in the Afghanistan War so that probably was another issue. I always learn my lesson when I make assumption- most of the time we just don't know what goes on behind closed doors.4
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Up_n_Running wrote: »I drank.
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Please dont beat yourself up with disappointment. This was me in. January. You'll be ok.
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@Up_n_Running You are so much stronger than you know. Against overwhelming odds, you held that wolf at bay for a LONG time. Your brother and partner, with the constant alcohol around you, must have been extremely difficult. I am glad they have decided to finally help support you by not bringing it home again. You certainly know you are capable of getting right back on the wagon. Seeing a dr for whatever kind of support she can offer, is also a good idea.
We will always be here to listen. Sending a big hug. ~ Jen3 -
None of us are perfect- what you did was normal. That's why it's called relapse- it happens to the best of us. The positive from your experience Sunday is that it will push you to call and get help. You know the famous quote: "Sometimes you have to get knocked down to see the stars." Probably much more good will come from this experience. I agree with Jen. It is so difficult to have people around you who drink. You may need to set boundaries - it is your place too after all.
I think one of the main reasons I am going on vacation alone is because if my girlfriends go with me, they will drink all through the vacation, and I would be so tempted--- I know I'd drink.
Thank you for sharing your experience, because it really truly helps us all.
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In NYtimes, there is a big article about the connection between alcohol and cancer. They are thinking of labeling alcohol with the same label that they put on cigarettes.
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/03/04/well/alcohol-cancer-risk.html?surface=home-discovery-vi-prg&fellback=false&req_id=305805471&algo=identity&variant=no-exp&imp_id=22670579&action=click&module=Science Technology&pgtype=Homepage6 -
The only day that matters is today. Good for you on speaking to your Dr., no sense trying to white knuckle your way through it if professional help is needed and available...very brave5
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Hi, I'm back. @Up_n_Running good for you!
that was actually the reason for my hiatus. I had to have help from my doctor to detox from alcohol actually beginning of last month as well as a counselor. I went back and forth on quitting the last time I was on this message board and I was in denial how physically hooked I was. Took me 3 weeks off work to taper down and I had to start seeing a therapist/psychologist again. My Dr says for a 29 year old I have some pretty bad liver damage and in a month we'll do more tests. I was drinking a Fifth + a half pint of either Vodka or Whisky everyday, starting in the morning. Today marks 8 days for me. I started going to AA locally for accountability as well as some other groups and so far I've found a really amazing in person support system as well as you guys. I've been reading "Quit Like a Woman" by Holly Whitaker as well. It's a pretty awesome book. Anyways, I haven't been sober for this long in 2 years. That's my rant for today, but I'm back, one day at a time. 9 -
@mtngrl3 Welcome back! You are really brave! I know your post will benefit many people; thank you for your honesty. I wish you the BEST! I also pray you can heal your liver. That is so scary- I'm sorry you are going through this. One day at a time is right! That's all we have.4
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Congratulations on 8 days sober @mtngrl3. We are here for you. You are very brave and honest to bare your soul like this. Surely your story will help other people.3
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I'm glad this thread exists! I quit drinking entirely in December and I am surprised by the amount of pushback I get. People either don't believe I'll stick with it or they actually try to get me to drink. I don't get it!
I just knew that quitting entirely was what I needed because I could lie to myself about moderation all I wanted but it was always too easy for me to just keep drinking in excess. Quitting alcohol was the catalyst that has enabled me to alter other habits, get better sleep, wake up early to enjoy some coffee/reading time, stick to my 4-day per week gym schedule, and more...
I don't miss drinking at all. I don't know what suddenly made it easy for me to quit. I had backed off of it a few times in the past but always started increasing how much and how often I was drinking over time. But this time, I just said "I'm done" and I was done. After two weeks, I was like, "Whoa, I can actually do this."13 -
Darn straight you can do this and flock anyone who tells you different!7
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I'm glad this thread exists! I quit drinking entirely in December and I am surprised by the amount of pushback I get. People either don't believe I'll stick with it or they actually try to get me to drink. I don't get it!
I just knew that quitting entirely was what I needed because I could lie to myself about moderation all I wanted but it was always too easy for me to just keep drinking in excess. Quitting alcohol was the catalyst that has enabled me to alter other habits, get better sleep, wake up early to enjoy some coffee/reading time, stick to my 4-day per week gym schedule, and more...
I don't miss drinking at all. I don't know what suddenly made it easy for me to quit. I had backed off of it a few times in the past but always started increasing how much and how often I was drinking over time. But this time, I just said "I'm done" and I was done. After two weeks, I was like, "Whoa, I can actually do this."
Thanks for posting! I am in the same boat- every time I thought I could moderate, it was not always possible. Sounds like the benefits of quitting are numerous! So happy for you!4 -
@wmichben I tried to send a friend request, but it didn't go through. I could use a friend like you here on MFP.
Actually, I've tried to reach out to a few people on this thread, but have been unsuccessful. Maybe I'm going about it the wrong way.
I need support, and I am here to support others who share my goal to be healthy and alcohol free.8 -
Thanks everyone today is day 10! Double digits! I took some before pictures and each week I will do another to see the difference and remind myself what it does to the body. BUT, I've actually GAINED weight
I've been working out, eating healthy, the chocolate/sugar cravings are killing me though (body trying to replace the absence of sugar from alcohol) but I am finding it so hard to find good healthy alternatives and self control. I nearly ate a whole thing of girl scout cookies last night + M&M's. Someone had told me once I quit drinking the empty calories weight will naturally come off (as long as I'm not overeating) but I think they lied lol @Up_n_Running I keep reminding myself of that too. How much I needed to drink and how it doesn't feel as good as being sober. I was to the point I wouldn't get hangovers anymore, I remind myself how it made my anxiety/panic attacks 100x worse and how it was ground hog day every day. 6 -
I've been quiet for a while but following. After getting right back to it after my Jan. 6 hellish relapse, I haven't been very successful or, frankly, very motivated. But I know all the wonderful gains of sobriety beat the heck out of all the downsides of drinking. @Up_n_Running, I like your new picture. It represents your positive outlook and attitude.
I have to admit that the vanity factor is a big motivator for me. My appearance changed very much for the better during my 6 months' straight of no drinking. I had my final audition for Jeopardy this past Monday and am now in the contestant pool--just waiting for a call, which could come any time in the next 18 months (although they don't guarantee that everyone who makes it will be called). If and when I do get called, I want it to me non-drinking me who shows up--both in terms of energy level and appearance, so I'm determined to work on sobriety once again with complete seriousness. You guys are my inspiration for sure.8 -
Good morning friends! I was praying today for God to take away the desire to drink. I dont want to romanticize it in my head; I want to keep remember the pain, regret, suffering, head in the toilet kind of nights to keep me on track.
Thanks to everyone for popping on this thread! It helps so much to know Im not alone on this journey. Have a great weekend! It's sunny but cold here. Going for a long walk soon. Having no hangover in 6.5 months is a GREAT perk.5 -
Hooray for 6.5 months @RubyRed427. Are you on spring break? Ours starts today. It's so weird to realize it's been a year since we went on SB and never went back to school. I'm proud of all of us for working so hard on sobriety during such a difficult year.4
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