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What’s your pet hate at the gym?
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Been thinking alot about this thread since New Years and all these Resolutioners who are doing many of our pet hates.
That said, gonna mix it up. Here's something I DO, that annoys me and I wish I could stop:
So since Covid I've been very aware of coughing or sneezing in public. Particularly as someone with allergies I always am so apologetic if I cough or sneeze in public because I feel like I have to assure people I'm not spreading Covid 19.
With that in mind; I have this problem: drinking water. Not sure if I'm alone in this; but after a set, I'll get up and get a drink. However as I'm breathing heavy at times, I tend to screw up and the water goes down the wrong hole. This leads to a coughing fit and me being mortified that other gym goers are now worried if I'm a biological bomb so to speak.
So now I feel bad that people have to worry about me giving them covid when the truth is that I'm a 31 year old man still learning how to drink water 🤦♂️16 -
People who occupy equipment while exercising nothing but their thumbs on their mobile phones (if you have been sitting there for 12 minutes you are not "resting between sets".
Out-loud phone conversations or music (nobody wants to hear that).
Heavy perfume/cologne (I would rather smell your sweat).
"Savsies" – putting a bunch of personal crap on one piece of equipment while you use another to "save" it for when you need it (just no).
Masks under the nose (recent addition to the gym peeves).3 -
I usually go when no one else is there so only really when people don't clean up after themselves.0
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It drives me nuts when I'm gasping and soaked in sweat but someone wants to chat me up. A little comment or joke is ok, but if you can talk in complete sentences, you're not working nearly hard enough.
The other one is new; people who are still wearing masks. Again, you can't work hard with a breathing restriction. Nobody who's really working out wants to see your political statement. 🤦1 -
Cowchip500 wrote: »It drives me nuts when I'm gasping and soaked in sweat but someone wants to chat me up. A little comment or joke is ok, but if you can talk in complete sentences, you're not working nearly hard enough.
The other one is new; people who are still wearing masks. Again, you can't work hard with a breathing restriction. Nobody who's really working out wants to see your political statement. 🤦
I can see the problem with people trying to chat you up, because they're bothering you directly, imposing a social norm that you respond ... but people wearing masks are just doing their thing, and their "statement" is mostly "leave me alone; keep away from me with your germs," so maybe you should focus on your own workout. Although, to use your standards, I'd have to say that if you're wasting energy critiquing the workouts of other people, you're not working nearly hard enough.
TL;DR: If you can't be kind, just look the other way.12 -
Cowchip500 wrote: »It drives me nuts when I'm gasping and soaked in sweat but someone wants to chat me up. A little comment or joke is ok, but if you can talk in complete sentences, you're not working nearly hard enough.
The other one is new; people who are still wearing masks. Again, you can't work hard with a breathing restriction. Nobody who's really working out wants to see your political statement. 🤦
Maybe wearing a mask is less about a political statement than about what we need to do? Please don’t judge all of us by your standards. I’ve been wearing a mask for years when I used to jog or cycle outside because I’m asthmatic, so cold weather or pollen in hot weather affects my lungs. A mask with a filtration device protects me and allows me to exercise. Similarly if I have a mild cold and don’t want to spread it around a commercial gym but I’m fit enough to train, I’ll wear my mask. If that offends you - maybe don’t look?!
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People who bring a tiny stand for their phone so they can tape themselves doing reps.
People who sit at a machine looking at their phone when I am kindly waiting to use it2 -
Sitting and looking I cannot abide, but people taping themselves can be justified, depending on the purpose. Taping to post online, roll my eyes... taping to critically judge form and become a better lifter, kudos.3
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The three things that are sure to annoy me:
1 - entire row of ellipticals/treadmill/whatever, almost all of them are open, but you choose to grab the one right next to me. If things are busy, fine, but if it's all freaking open, I'd rather not deal with you flinging your sweat all over me when there's zero need to be that close.
2 - Hogging the one squat rack/flat bench/whatever for your entire workout routine
3 - Not racking your weights when you're done with them - I love getting to play "hunt down the 25# plate stuck in a random corner" game (not)0 -
Sadly for me right now its a trainer. Snide comments,snickering with her friend because i don't really need her help. She actually feels offended that I'm doing my own thing. She taunts me and discusses me with other members. Not very professional i say. Well *kitten*, I'm not leaving as i got 20 kgs to lose so she gotta deal with it🤷5
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People who sit at a machine and chit chat for 20 minutes0
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I personally hate gyms and everything about them! from the creepy guys who only go to perve or pick up women to the people who stink and the broken gym equipment. Give me a trail run through the woods in the fresh air any day.
I get that it’s not right for everyone but that’s just my opinion.1 -
As of late, ego driven twats who slam the weights on machines. As of late 2 of our machines are down because of this, one waiting to be replaced by warranty. The last time this happened, it took over a month to replace. And it's 2 of our best machines.......................leg extension and seated tricep pressdown.
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Currently a trainer who almost seems to be stalking me. I took a class with her, and later she approached me in the weight area and offered to train me for free (weird -- if you're a professional, why would you give away your services for free? If you're not, why would I want you training me?).
I had been doing deadlifts when she approached me, so I thought I would get her advice on my form, to judge whether she had any idea what she was talking about. I had already taken the plates off the bar, but since it was just to show her my form, I started to show her using the bare bar. She tried to talk me out of it, because it was too heavy (!? 45 lbs ?!) and said she just uses dumb bells.
Then she said she could train me so I wouldn't gain muscle, as though that would be a good thing.
Now she goes out of her way to greet me whenever we're in the gym at the same time.
She teaches some classes I'd like to take, but I'm a little leery of doing anything that could be interpreted as wanting any kind of relationship with her.3 -
Every time I'm in the hot tub, the streams of bubbles make my skin itch, so I always turn them off when I'm soaking solo. But invariably when somebody wants to join, on go the bubbles again.0
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Jock people. Like ppl who judge people for having the audacity to be new at the gym. Have loads of gear. For dudes, they wear nipple sleeveless shirts that just cover the nipples and they tend to be rude if someone else wants to use a machine that they are hogging because my God its like the gym is a public place or something and like other people.. Exist!??? For women, they try to be one of the guys and compete with other women judging on their bodies as if overweight bodies are disgusting. They make gym life annoying for me. But I love the gym but I hate the #gymlife jerks.3
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Men in vests taking pictures or videos in the mirror!0
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I love group exercise classes but I can not stand it when an instructor says “let’s do this so we can eat dessert later” uhm I don’t workout so I can eat more. Please just stop. I’m here to be strong not to worry about eating cake.3
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I'm stuck at a commercial gym and the crowds are really aggravating to deal with. Ppl camp on equipment, they use their phones and take up time. Not to mention, they've started letting 12 yr olds into the club so they run around like its day camp. They've caused ppl to drop their weights and the management will not do anything. I really need to find a private gym4
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I've been away from the gym for over two years; I went back last week. It's good. I also found something to add here.
I'm fortunate that my gym has pools and a steam room in addition to saunas. The indoor pools are salt water pools. Very nice. New owners made a lot of upgrades during the shut-down in 2020 and 2021. The steam room is really nice.
But....
Sitting in there soaking it up and someone comes in and picks up one of the hand-held shower heads and proceeds to spray cold water on the thermostat. I moved over from the hotter area to offer him the "hot seat." He said, no, he'd just stand in the pillow of steam. Which he did for 40 seconds, then sat on the low bench for another minute. Then he left me and the one other person in there with the now hotter than the set point room. Uh... If you need hot, sit up high. It's hotter there.
Similar thing in the sauna. Someone splashes water on the thermostat and then on the hot rocks to get it super hot. Not my favorite, but some like it hot. But then the person who made it hot just walks out leaving the rest of us in an over-heated sauna. Oh. Yeah. And they use essential oils in the water they splash around, which they aren't supposed to do.
Maybe I'm being petty. Maybe folks can just follow the gym rules. There really aren't that many. The new owners have a smaller set of rules. That makes it easier to follow; the silly ones are no more. So please just consider the other folks you impact with your behavior. Maybe ask before over-heating the steam or sauna and wait until the folks already in there are done.3
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