WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2022
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Kim that is so awful. You are strong to have survived all that.
Thanks for all the info on knee braces. I got a new one online and it seems to be helping. But I am still going to see a doctor.
I got a packet to fill out for my mom's memory assessment. Very detailed. It is annoying because I know this info is already in their system. I'm not sure how to approach my mother with the packet. She is resistant to the appointment and to the idea of me as medical advisor. But she can't do these things herself anymore. I feel like I'm being sneaky.
Not much else on the schedule today. Just keeping out of the cookies and candy and trying to eat a salad. Maybe buy a lottery ticket.
Annie in Delaware
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THANKS DEBBIE!!!
OH NO.......... Kim, I am devastated for you and your family. My heart is beating out of my chest as I'm reading this.
I guess, in some twisted way, thank God for Tim. To be able to have gotten DB to sign the release so he was able to find this all out for you so NOW you can move on. MAJOR (((HUGS))) and love and prayers for you and everyone. Again, I agree with Heather to be careful of Tim too. He did help you thus far, but...
I'm just so glad you know this now and you're getting help and your nephew is getting help. I hope your mom is willing to get some help too.
Have a wonderful weekend all!
Carla, in MN2 -
Hi Gals,
Beth, Flea, Lisa, Betsy, Katla, Terri. Karen, ginny, Allie. KJ, Annie, Carol, Carla and everyone else…. – thanks
Machka – no Mom is 93 and needs my help with medical and financial issues, and my DN is 23 and feels all of the awfulness of this as I do, abandoning him will not be of any value.
Heather – Mom will not bar him, I am not going the criminal route. There is no value in dragging this broken family through years of criminal proceedings.
As for Tim – there are no red flags as of yet. No requests for money, or personal information not related to DB, and he checks out I have had a criminal background check done and the only thing that shows up is some parking tickets when he was in his 20s and a marijuana charge also from 30 years ago. Additionally he has given me the link and password to DB medical records and I have read it for myself.
I am too hurt by the lies to believe without double checking.
Annie in Delaware - Please do not feel sneaky - I wish I had been more involved earlier with my families medical before this had gotten so out of hand. Be as truthful as you can, but as sneaky as you need to be to protect your mom.
Kim in N. California
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Hi Gals,Beth, Flea, Lisa, Betsy, Katla, Terri. Karen, ginny, Allie. KJ, Annie, Carol, Carla and everyone else…. – thanks
Machka – no Mom is 93 and needs my help with medical and financial issues, and my DN is 23 and feels all of the awfulness of this as I do, abandoning him will not be of any value.
Heather – Mom will not bar him, I am not going the criminal route. There is no value in dragging this broken family through years of criminal proceedings.
As for Tim – there are no red flags as of yet. No requests for money, or personal information not related to DB, and he checks out I have had a criminal background check done and the only thing that shows up is some parking tickets when he was in his 20s and a marijuana charge also from 30 years ago. Additionally he has given me the link and password to DB medical records and I have read it for myself.
I am too hurt by the lies to believe without double checking.
Annie in Delaware - Please do not feel sneaky - I wish I had been more involved earlier with my families medical before this had gotten so out of hand. Be as truthful as you can, but as sneaky as you need to be to protect your mom.
Kim in N. California
Kim - I finally had a minute to read about Tim and his assistance with the situation. At this point I don't get a sense that he's up to no good - he has discovered valuable information and shared it with you in an effort to help the family with your brother's illness. Sounds like you did some background searching. If you're on FB and he is too, you can tell a bit more about what his friends are like if that info is shared.
Sending huge ((HUGS))!!
Oh, and sending a great big virtual cast iron skillet aimed squarely at your DB's head if you think that will help.
Lanette
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Kim, I’m so sorry to hear about you nephew. I knew someone like that but instead of cancer, he was hiding major drug use and using his girl friend. Karma took care of him as I’m sure it will your nephew.
I met a woman in the campground who is suffering from the same illness my son is. She was problematic but my heart went out for her because of my son’s recent bout with paranoia/schizophrenia. It brought back that helpless feeling. I am thankful my DS is getting help and is stable right now. I notice it in some of the things he says but no where near like it was in Jan through March.
“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.” This is my mantra right now.
RvRita in Roswell NM9 -
Home.. got garbage together.. someone used a credit card that i dont use. So put a stop to that and.. am going to take a nap...3
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Kim - sending love and strength for the days/weeks ahead. So glad your counsellor is there to help.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx0 -
Strange day. Next door had the fence guys in, to sort out the side passage. The fence, which blew down in a storm, had been blocking our path, so DH found it impossible get the mower through to the front yard. The repairs were VERY noisy. They were putting new posts in. ALL DAY.
All done now, and I managed to write 760 words through the racket. The neighbour, who is lovely, came round to check everything was alright after DH had gone round to complain yesterday, very nicely, about the blockage.
This afternoon DH found that a savings account had been moved to the wrong interest for next year despite his instructions. An hour on hold, then spoke to an idiot. He is currently emailing the CEO. It will help him process the frustration, even if it's useless.
I have made a third attempt to get a straight answer from Saga about the cancelled ports.
Love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxxx3 -
We are waiting for a furniture delivery. We bought two Stressless loungers for our sitting area. The pair we originally purchased are more than twenty years old, and both needed to be replaced. The first new chair has been delivered and we are anticipating the second to be delivered today. Keeping my fingers crossed for a “speedy delivery.”6
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DH writing his carefully composed email.
Heather UK xxxxxx6 -
Atta boy Johnny ,you tell em
Well no nap..
Got the garbage outside..then blew the leaves out of my patio and got some of the patio furniture set with the cover on..i had cardboard recycling and a big huge garbage bag full so i used the trolly to take it up to the dumpster..
Between hauling poor little munchkin around today and,hauling that up there.. my arms feel like they are about to fall off lol..
Contacted the credit card company and they are issuing a new card..its a card i havent used in over a year or so and it was used for co.puter software.yup that wasnt me.so i also put a fraud alert on it so that should rectify that.3 -
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Kim, no words (((((((((hugs)))))
Katla yay, for getting new lounge chairs!
Heather, good fences make good neighbors! I hate working with the bank on a phone. I miss walking in and talking with a person. Nowadays, our banks have like 2 people working there, virtually a ghost town. I used to be a lobby assistant and kept the withdrawl, and deposit slips filled in the marble counters. I was still in high school but man, getting to work at that bank was magical!
Rita, I am go glad your son is getting the help he needs and the situation is less scary. One of my aunts on my mommas side, her whole family seemed to have mental health issues. I just remember her family of 7 kids, they were all so smart and very intellectual for their ages, and as they got older their paranoia/schizophrenia tendencies became apparent. 😔. I believe many of my cousins are on meds for it.
Today was shopping day, and husband and I kind of went overboard. But we had fun, and I talked with about 5 different ladies about this and that. I bought some pre made mushroom ravioli, and I will mix with sauteed mushrooms, onion, and make a light cream sauce for them. I might put in soup too. I also got frozen jumbo shrimp (also smile at the oxymoron🙃😁 of that). I bought some pine nut hummus, love that. I have berries to make a pie, but I think I will make some sort of tart.
I'm enjoying immensely this free movie site. My tablet is big enough that watching movies on it is fine. Presently have:
The Unsinkable Molly Brown
Calamity Jane
Hamilton
Funny Face
Stanley Tucci/ Searching for Italy (food series)
Saturday Night Fever
Rent
I just bookmark them. The site is called :Moviestowatch.tv
I notice many of the movies I want to watch are on channels on our tv that we don't have. So this site is perfect.👍💖
Hugs ladies!
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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When DB comes with another story just tell him to go read the Boy who Cried Wolf walk away and do something for yourself that makes you feel strong. Bridges are burned.
I also try remember what my aunt said to me fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.
Your mom will not see him for what he is. All you can do is try to do what actions are available legally to protect her and yourself and refuse to let him any power over you.4 -
Stats for the day-
Walk w/family- 2hrs 29min 7sec, 115elev, 3.23ap, 95ahr, 121mhr, 8.07mi= 666c
Strava app= 920c
Zwift home bike trainer- strava stats- 10.57min, 39elev, 95aw, 17.0amph, 111ahr, 147mhr, 3.10mi= 84c
Strava app= 59c
Zwift stats- 10.58min 39elev, 94aw, 60arpm, 16.96amph, 3.10mi= 60c
Total cal 7502 -
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Heather UK xxxxxx
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