WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR NOVEMBER 2022

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  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,411 Member
    Loving this.. I need Pals to keep me motivated in quest to lose 5# and increase exercise… age 74

    You got 'em! Welcome aboard.

    Karen in Virginia
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,124 Member
    edited November 2022
    The walk back from school, after the park, was accompanied by us all singing all the songs from Oliver. Bea knows them all! The memory of that 6 Yr old. :o
    So grateful to catch up with them all. 💓

    DSIL was doing some kind of Zwift cycling competition. Obviously important as she said she was nervous.
    On Friday the parents are going to drop the girls off at 8 am, so they can go and look at flooring. We will set off around 8.25 for school.

    We had a swift half at the microbrewery, and then headed home. I felt it in my legs and hips. Enjoyed the half of porter. ;)

    So blessed.
    Love Heather UK xxxxxx

  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 2,959 Member
    I'm reluctant about driving. I just turned down a lunch meeting because I would have to drive on the worst interstate on the worst traffic day, Wednesday. So my friends are seeing about coming closer to me. I am so glad for their company!

    I just got back from the grocery store. It was busy, I had to wait for access to the shelf I wanted four times. After that and my mother's trip to the doctor I am done for the day. Except I really ought to make a phone call to change an appointment.

    So I loved your meme about not driving at night or in the winter. I'm so lucky Thanksgiving is right across the street. If I had a fireplace, I would hibernate. I have six new books to read Yay! And a new Kindle to play with. Yay! It's dry and sunny here, and even warming up some, so the grocery trip wasn't too bad.

    May today be a great day for diet and exercise for all of us!

    Annie in Delaware
  • fanncy0626
    fanncy0626 Posts: 7,080 Member
    edited November 2022
    I got a new iPhone 14 last week and I absolutely love it! When I am on the MyFitnessPal app on the phone, I can now download pictures and even magnify the pictures that other people put on here. Both of those options were not available at all with my android!!

    Karen your brother has amazing talent!! With my new phone, I was able to expand and see the picture so much more clearly! He is amazing!

    💕 Mary from Arizona/Minnesota
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,267 Member
    Karen ~ Love the photos of Jillian! I think I understand the feelings you and Heather have toward your granddaughters. I have a similar feeling for mine because I always wanted a daughter, but, that was not possible. By the way, your brother's latest painting is brilliant.

    Heather ~ The new apartment looks great and what a nice view. Hope it works out for all of you.

    Dr Katie ~ I made the cornbread and it looks great. Will add the other ingredients TG Day.

    Allie ~ Have fun at the Cape and stay safe.

    Tina, Lisa & Others ~ I am another one who really gets anxious over social situations and would much rather just stay in my own little nest.

    Carol in GA
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    :flowerforyou:
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 24,706 Member
    Loving this.. I need Pals to keep me motivated in quest to lose 5# and increase exercise… age 74

    Welcome here. What kind of exercise do you like to do?
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 24,706 Member
    sh0tzz99 wrote: »
    Thinking of you all in the US as you prepare for Thanksgiving. I've got really grinchy at any kind of holiday celebration. I feel so lucky that my younger son is taking the strain for Christmas, with me pre-preparing a few things to take over. I will do the pudding next weekend. It has to be gluten free, but I've got all the ingredients, including gluten free suet.
    I'm at the stage in my life when nothing is more important than my peace and calm. Any excitement or hassle has to be rationed out carefully. If I do one thing one day, then I need a day to regain my balance. If I do too many things, then my writing gets squeezed out, and that is not good for my mental health. My writing is my priority.
    Exercise, writing, rest, and good food are the planks that hold my house together. Commitments, obligations, too much socialising, trying to fit too much in, causes the nails to fall out. I have had to learn to say No a lot.

    Wishing you all health and strength and enjoyment as you take on the responsibilities of the season. I know some of you love it! :D

    Love from across the pond, where the season hasn't really started yet. Heather UK xxxxxxxx

    I am this way already. When did this phase start for you? I have had a month of a lot of being around people and I'm exhausted. I don't want to talk to anyone for any reason. My voice got quite scratchy, because I'm not used to talking so much. I'm done. I'm hiding away for the next 2 weeks.

    After a trip, I need weeks to recover. After going out, I need a day off before I go out again. I suspect it's because I don't really care for being around people that much.

    I fear my desire to be a hermit is only going to increase as I age, which can be detrimental. However, I truly hate trying to be someone I am not or don't want to be. Years ago, I forced myself to do activities with people, such as hiking, but I really didn't enjoy it then and I enjoy it even less now. I'd just rather be alone.

    Tina in CA

    I don't remember ever not being this way. Although I was a little bit more outgoing in my late 20s and early 30s.

    M in Oz
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,287 Member
    dlfk202000 wrote: »
    such a klutz!!
    Was walking at the park with Ezie, tripped and fell face first on the cement. Waiting to see if I can get in to see the dentist this afternoon- broke or chipped three teeth, including broke the front one off. The one next to it is a cap and it is fine. Inside of my lip and above my lip are cut open. Hand and knee scraped up.
    Took 3 Aleve and now just have to wait to get a call back.

    That sounds horribly painful! Hope you can get seen quickly...
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 24,706 Member
    dlfk202000 wrote: »
    such a klutz!!
    Was walking at the park with Ezie, tripped and fell face first on the cement. Waiting to see if I can get in to see the dentist this afternoon- broke or chipped three teeth, including broke the front one off. The one next to it is a cap and it is fine. Inside of my lip and above my lip are cut open. Hand and knee scraped up.
    Took 3 Aleve and now just have to wait to get a call back.

    :open_mouth:

    Ouch! Sorry to hear that!
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,287 Member
    sh0tzz99 wrote: »
    I fear my desire to be a hermit is only going to increase as I age, which can be detrimental. However, I truly hate trying to be someone I am not or don't want to be. Years ago, I forced myself to do activities with people, such as hiking, but I really didn't enjoy it then and I enjoy it even less now. I'd just rather be alone.

    Tina in CA

    I think it's vaguely possible that extroverts made up the idea of being a hermit as being detrimental so they'd always have people to talk to... ;) It may well be true that hermits are the healthier of the two.

    People exhaust me, even the ones I love, and sometimes even on the phone. Love being this age, so I can finally say - "Gotta go!" without excuse or making a future date. I stand it as long as I can, and then I leave. Or, as in most cases, I simply don't do it at all.

    Later,
    Lisa in AR
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,124 Member
    So sorry Debbie. :'( It can happen to anyone.

    My sympathy to anyone who has lost a baby, or a child, or a grown child. I know several of you have lost grown children.
    We have seen and witnessed such things. Beyond words. <3<3<3
    When we love, we love hard.
    I see your love and passion, Karen. <3

    Love Heather UK xxxxxx

  • okiewoman510
    okiewoman510 Posts: 1,280 Member
    dlfk202000 wrote: »
    such a klutz!!
    Was walking at the park with Ezie, tripped and fell face first on the cement. Waiting to see if I can get in to see the dentist this afternoon- broke or chipped three teeth, including broke the front one off. The one next to it is a cap and it is fine. Inside of my lip and above my lip are cut open. Hand and knee scraped up.
    Took 3 Aleve and now just have to wait to get a call back.

    Oh my goodness!! I hope you can be seen soon.

    Okie in the TX Hill Country
  • sh0tzz99
    sh0tzz99 Posts: 929 Member
    sh0tzz99 wrote: »
    I fear my desire to be a hermit is only going to increase as I age, which can be detrimental. However, I truly hate trying to be someone I am not or don't want to be. Years ago, I forced myself to do activities with people, such as hiking, but I really didn't enjoy it then and I enjoy it even less now. I'd just rather be alone.

    Tina in CA

    I think it's vaguely possible that extroverts made up the idea of being a hermit as being detrimental so they'd always have people to talk to... ;) It may well be true that hermits are the healthier of the two.

    People exhaust me, even the ones I love, and sometimes even on the phone. Love being this age, so I can finally say - "Gotta go!" without excuse or making a future date. I stand it as long as I can, and then I leave. Or, as in most cases, I simply don't do it at all.

    Later,
    Lisa in AR

    This is me too. I love "my" people, but only for so long. Then I need to leave and be alone. I also was far more social in my 20s. My best friend at that time was a planner and an extrovert, so she planned things and I showed up when I wanted, didn't when I didn't. It was a perfect friendship. Now I find it impossible to find that opposite friend.

    I wouldn't call myself a hermit yet. I just am completely comfortable on my own.

    Tina in CA