October’s Harvest of Healthy Habits

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  • Wiseinwellness
    Wiseinwellness Posts: 1,272 Member

    @77tes thanks for that lovely Thanksgiving poems. Actually I am reading all of them. It’s interesting how it slows everything down and creates an atmosphere.
    Also, you could do a kids book on Lucy, I swear.

    I am on a unique family visit with my x husband and his wife, and our three adult kids. Three kids and three parents. We all flew to the west coast as our two daughters are in an improvised play on Saturday. It has been wonderful.

    I learned I could place a Costco order for delivery to our Airbnb from the plane using Uber Eats. The flight had wifi. This was incredibly empowering on the snack front and generally speaking for our meals. I bought many healthy meals and snacks. I am very proud of myself for figuring it all out as it means I can order groceries and meals for my elderly mom when I away for extended periods.

    Here is the lake we hiked around and my daughter holding a maple 🍁 leaf - I love how accessible epic nature is to the city over in this part of the country!

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  • SummerSkier
    SummerSkier Posts: 6,171 Member

    I think with the updates maybe they keep logging us out? My bougainvillia entry. Altho the focus is not where I would have liked the colors were striking to me.

    Flu shot this week but no reactions so glad to get that one done. 1 significant virus illness is enough for me for a few more years.

    I am here and feel like taking it slowly and getting back to all my normal activities without overdoing it has been a good lesson for me. My stamina for longer runs is not there yet but I am working to gather the base up again and I think finish the year strong.

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    and my fAVORITES. Of course blooming high up in the dogwood tree. LOL

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  • Michieb125
    Michieb125 Posts: 1,606 Member

    @Wiseinwellness - sounds like a wonderful trip! Gorgeous photos of the stunning lake and large fall colored leaf! I too love the convenience of ordering healthy food through grocery apps, especially for my elderly mom when she has a need.

    @SummerSkier - Beautiful shots of brilliantly colored flowers - Bougainvillea and Morning Glories. My DH and I will also be getting our Flu shots this weekend sometime. Maybe it could be considered a healthy lifestyle habit too.

    @77tes - I love the poem I recall hearing from my childhood, Come Little Leaves! Thank you for sharing! 🍁 and, so great that you’ve walked over 60 miles this month! Crushing your healthy habit!

    @hcoleman232 - hoping your arm injury has resolved for you. Those can be tricky.

    @Learningmoments - sometimes life just gets a little wonky and distractions begin to take up space, even when we have good intentions to get back to the (insert habit). Hoping things settle down soon.

    @TerriRichardson112 - Your Daily Solid Habits are inspiring! You are doing so well.

  • Michieb125
    Michieb125 Posts: 1,606 Member

    Friday 10/18: Twice this week, I tried weight training at my gym that is located right down the street. I enjoyed testing out 4 machines. It’s nice that we have a ladies only wing with all the equipment so body building types are in another section! Will meet my 3 x a week goal by Sunday.

    💪 Hand weights for toning/strengthening upper body 3- 4 x a week 

    Modified / continuing habits

    👣 Walking for exercise 6 x a week - 8,500-10k steps preferably outdoors — this has been a bit challenging with a changing schedule and colder weather. I did the treadmill at the gym twice however! And walked twice outdoors - weather is beautiful today so no excuses.

    🧘‍♀️ Yoga/stretch sessions 3-6 x a week - Bodybalance and yoga gym class and/ or YWA at home - 2 down, 1 to go.

    🍲 Fresh nutritious foods 6 x a week - Mediterranean way of eating - it’s going! Baby steps.

  • Michieb125
    Michieb125 Posts: 1,606 Member

    It should have read “Male body builders!”
    Just retuned from a two-mile walk in my neighborhood. Here are some shots of liquid ambers or which are many in my community. I love all the redwoods, too.

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  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 20,570 Member

    🦩🍄‍🟫🍂🦩🐿️🍁🐿️🦩🍂🍄‍🟫🦩

    🦩🍄‍🟫🍁October 2025🍁🍄‍🟫🦩

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    I am a person who values the health and fitness of mind, body, and spirit.

    October Focus: ConsolidationI have a very busy month ahead, so I am concentrating on staying on track with my Solid Habits.

    Solid Habits: 🫶🫶🫶🫶

    Wk1:🫶Wk2: 🫶Wk3: Wk4 Wk5:

    📍Daily Solid Habits: I like to frame my aims in positive terms.

    ♦️Foodlog All food and drink; stay under goal;

    balance macros/micros; 

    Hydrate adequately; limit ‘empty’ snacks

    ♦️Exercise: 

    5,500+ Steps daily 

    50 + minutes intentional exercise 

    ♦️Mind/Body/Soul/Spirit

    Daily Mindfulness Practice/Meditation 

    Practice Self-care

    Positively reframe thoughts 

    Learn something new

    Communicate 

    Create/adapt positive habits

    Puzzles/Art/Craft/Write/Read

    15 mins Daily Declutter session 

    Volunteer group leader for Lifelong learning charity, U3A (University for the Third Age)

    Terri 🍂🍁

  • SummerSkier
    SummerSkier Posts: 6,171 Member

    @Michieb125 I love those trees!!!!

  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 9,619 Member

    @Wiseinwellness , your unique Thanksgiving sounds like it was really nice. Full of connection and activity and beautiful nature!  I too love the delivery opportunities. Many of our recent gifts of food came from Whole Foods by way of Amazon! Lots of veggie and salad options, so that helped us eat healthy. I didn’t know you could order from an airplane, though. Wow! 

    @SummerSkier , I love your flower photos, so beautiful. Bougainvillea is a favorite since the front of our house used to be covered in it. Trimming it back around the front door was a bit of a pain, but we sure miss it since it blew down in a big windstorm. It shade us from the afternoon sun, keeping the whole house about 10° cooler and shading the kitchen window. I’m glad to hear that you’re gently getting back to running. 

    @Michieb125 , beautiful fall color and redwoods! And your habits are  looking balanced and so, so healthy. How great that theres a gym down the block from your house! And that it has a women’s section, that’s just more comfortable. I’m sure there are many nice male bodybuilders, but unfortunately there are many jerks. 

    @TerriRichardson112 , thanks for checking in and inspiring us with your wonderful solid habits. 

    October 17 - Sunrise walk with my daughter and Lucy. 

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    Autumn

    John Clare

    I love the fitfull gusts that shakes
     The casement all the day
    And from the mossy elm tree takes
     The faded leaf away
    Twirling it by the window-pane
    With thousand others down the lane

    I love to see the shaking twig
     Dance till the shut of eve
    The sparrow on the cottage rig
     Whose chirp would make believe
    That spring was just now flirting by
    In summers lap with flowers to lie

    I love to see the cottage smoke
     Curl upwards through the naked trees
    The pigeons nestled round the coat
     On dull November days like these
    The *kitten* upon the dung-hill crowing
    The mill sails on the heath a-going

    The feather from the ravens breast
     Falls on the stubble lea
    The acorns near the old crows nest
     Fall pattering down the tree
    The grunting pigs that wait for all
    Scramble and hurry where they fall

  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 9,619 Member

    October 18 - Later walk after the Farmers Market.

    Here’s an insect of some sort on a pretty flower of some sort. (My seek app let me down in identifying them).

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    Whim Wood

    By Katherine Towers

    into the coppery halls
    of beech and intricate oak, 
    to be close to the trees
    as they whisper together
    let fall their leaves,
    and we die for the winter 

  • SummerSkier
    SummerSkier Posts: 6,171 Member

    Oh @77tes my phone says that is a FAIRY IRIS! so pretty. The insect must be a fairy of course?😂

  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 9,619 Member

    @SummerSkier , haha 😆, I like your phone’s identification. I need more fairies in my life. Maybe I just need to be aware of the fairies that are all around. 

    October 19 - Nice slow walk. Here are some fall colors! Pyracantha berries.

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    Plums

    By Gillian Clarke

    When their time comes they fall
    without wind, without rain.
    They seep through the trees’ muslin
    in a slow fermentation.

    Daily the low sun warms them
    in a late love that is sweeter
    than summer. In bed at night
    we hear heartbeat of fruitfall.

    The secretive slugs crawl home
    to the burst honeys, are found
    in the morning mouth on mouth,
    inseparable.

    We spread patchwork counterpanes
    for a clean catch. Baskets fill,
    never before such harvest,
    such a hunters’ moon burning

    the hawthorns, drunk on syrups
    that are richer by night
    when spiders pitch
    tents in the wet grass.

    This morning the red sun
    is opening like a rose
    on our white wall, prints there
    the fishbone shadow of a fern.

    The early blackbirds fly
    guilty from a dawn haul
    of fallen fruit. We too
    breakfast on sweetnesses.

    Soon plum trees will be bone,
    grown delicate with frost’s
    formalities. Their black
    angles will tear the snow.

  • SummerSkier
    SummerSkier Posts: 6,171 Member
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    a unique Bougainville today.

  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 9,619 Member

    Thanks @SummerSkier, Pretty golden bougainvillea!

    October 20 - Later walk because the puppy slept in. Good sleeping weather right now. After the walk, I was doing my lifting routine in the backyard when a huge flock of parrots flew over. By the time I dropped my weights and got my phone, they had settled in a tree, and the phone picture just looks like a tree. 

    So here’s a picture of our last rose of summer. I didn’t deadhead my roses this year, so I have a crop of rose hips, but few flowers.

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    And a poem from childhood.

    Autumn Fires

    Robert Louis Stevenson

    In the other gardens
       And all up in the vale,
    From the autumn bonfires
       See the smoke trail!

    Pleasant summer over, 
       And all the summer flowers,
    The red fire blazes,
       The grey smoke towers.

    Sing a song of seasons!
       Something bright in all!
    Flowers in the summer,
       Fires in the fall! 

  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 9,619 Member

    October 21 - Park day with my Curves friends. I had to shorten my walk afterwards a bit because I had an appointment to get Covid Boosters for DH and myself. 

    During the first 3 full weeks of October, I have totaled almost 225,000 steps and 90 miles in my Walktober challenge. I have even purchased myself a T-shirt to commemorate this challenge I’ve done with myself. 😍

    Beautiful afternoon! 

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    Spring and Fall

    BY Gerard Manley Hopkins

    to a young child

    Márgarét, áre you gríeving

    Over Goldengrove unleaving?

    Leáves like the things of man, you

    With your fresh thoughts care for, can you?

    Ah! ás the heart grows older

    It will come to such sights colder

    By and by, nor spare a sigh

    Though worlds of wanwood leafmeal lie;

    And yet you wíll weep and know why.

    Now no matter, child, the name:

    Sórrow’s spríngs áre the same.

    Nor mouth had, no nor mind, expressed

    What heart heard of, ghost guessed:

    It ís the blight man was born for,

    It is Margaret you mourn for.

  • Michieb125
    Michieb125 Posts: 1,606 Member

    Week #1, Week #2, Week #3 done. October is flying by! Glad I’m here to help keep me accountable as I feel things are going to be even busier in November. I am satisfied how I have been able to become more consistent with my exercise and want to build on that.

    I attended a Pilates class this morning and knocked out my “yoga/stretch” routine then walked during my grandsons baseball practice. Wow, my endorphins were powered up all day.

    Updates:

    💪 Hand weights for toning/strengthening upper body 3 - 4 x a week - 2 down, 1 to go.

    Modified / continuing habits

    👣 Walking for exercise 6 x a week - 8,500-10k steps preferably outdoors - accomplished 4 days thus far this week; a sore throat kept me down a couple of days.

    🧘‍♀️ Yoga/stretch sessions 3-6 x a week - 3 down, I’m sure I can do one more!

    🍲 Fresh nutritious foods 6 x a week - Mediterranean way of eating - I’ve incorporated a lot more fresh vegetables in my cooking this month.

  • Michieb125
    Michieb125 Posts: 1,606 Member

    A huge congrats to you @77tes on your very successful Walktober challenge!

  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 9,619 Member

    @hcoleman232 , woot! Training for a race is awesome! 🤩 cool that you’ve got a group to train with.

    @Michieb125 , what a great program you’ve got going! How’d you like the Pilates?

    October 22- Morning walk with DD#2 and Lucy. 
    Interesting harvest in a neighborhood yard.

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     The Autumn 

    By Elizabeth Barrett Browning

    Go, sit upon the lofty hill,

        And turn your eyes around,

    Where waving woods and waters wild

        Do hymn an autumn sound.

    The summer sun is faint on them —

        The summer flowers depart —

    Sit still — as all transform'd to stone,

        Except your musing heart.

    How there you sat in summer-time,

        May yet be in your mind;

    And how you heard the green woods sing

        Beneath the freshening wind.

    Though the same wind now blows around,

        You would its blast recall;

    For every breath that stirs the trees,

        Doth cause a leaf to fall.

    Oh! like that wind, is all the mirth

        That flesh and dust impart:

    We cannot bear its visitings,

        When change is on the heart.

    Gay words and jests may make us smile,

        When Sorrow is asleep;

    But other things must make us smile,

        When Sorrow bids us weep!

    The dearest hands that clasp our hands, —

        Their presence may be o'er;

    The dearest voice that meets our ear,

        That tone may come no more!

    Youth fades; and then, the joys of youth,

        Which once refresh'd our mind,

    Shall come — as, on those sighing woods,

        The chilling autumn wind.

    Hear not the wind — view not the woods;

        Look out o'er vale and hill-

    In spring, the sky encircled them —

        The sky is round them still.

    Come autumn's scathe — come winter's cold —

        Come change — and human fate!

    Whatever prospect Heaven doth bound,

        Can ne'er be desolate.

  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 20,570 Member
    edited October 24

    🦩🍄‍🟫🍂🐿️🍂🐿️🍂🍄‍🟫🦩 

    🍄‍🟫🍁October 2025🍁🍄‍🟫

    🦩🍄‍🟫🍂🐿️🌺🐿️🍂🍄‍🟫🦩

    I am a person who values the health and fitness of mind, body, and spirit.

    October Focus: ConsolidationI have a very busy month ahead, so I am concentrating on staying on track with my Solid Habits.

    Solid Habits: 🫶🫶🫶

    Wk1:🫶Wk2: 🫶Wk3: 🫶🏻 Wk4 Wk5:

    📍Daily Solid Habits: I like to frame my aims in positive terms.

    Daily Habits Update - October 2025[/b][/color](Things I aspire to, but don't always achieve)

    1. Log ALL CI/CO (Daily) 

    2. Stay under goal (Daily) 

    3. Balance macros/micros (Daily) 

    4. Hydrate adequately (Daily) 

    5. Choose healthy options (Daily) 

    6. Steps > 5500 (Daily) 

    7. Stretch before/after workouts 

    8. 15+ minutes Cardio > 5 days a week 

    9. 15+ mins Strength > 5 days a week 

    10. 15+ mins Flexibility > 5 days a week 

    11. Active hours > 6

    12. Practice self-care (Daily) 

    13. Stay up to date with accounts  (monthly) 

    14. Mindfulness Practice/meditation ((Daily - morning/evening) 

    15. 1 > 15 mins Declutter sessions (Daily) 

    16. Be creative 

    17. Purchase essential items only 

    18. Read > 1 book from 'to read' pile 

    19. Work on art/craft projects (monthly) 

    20. Learn something new (daily) 

    21. Actively Build Healthy Habits 

    22. Be proactive re Celebrations

    Terri 🦄

  • SummerSkier
    SummerSkier Posts: 6,171 Member

    Hi everyone. I think this month HAS been a success altho I haven't kept a clean track I feel like I am taking more time to mention compliments to others that I notice than previously so I will work on this continuing the rest of the month. At work it is pretty easy as so many folks take the time to have nice outfits.

  • snowshoe072
    snowshoe072 Posts: 6,162 Member

    @77tes nice work not sure how far I have walked this month it would easy enough to figure out.
    Vaca day today a few morning errands and then not sure at least it’s the weekend.

    Guitar still coming out, pages turning in the book interesting it’s about a young boy and his family dynamics that leave him in a foster home more to come.

  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 9,619 Member

    Such great solid habits! @TerriRichardson112 👏

    @SummerSkier , that’s so nice! It feels so wonderful to get a compliment! 😁😁

    @snowshoe072 , I just let my Fitbit do my tracking. Yay for pulling out the guitar and enjoying your fun reading.

    October 23 - DD#1  sent us treats from Starbucks, so our walk got delayed.   (I only like Starbucks in Pumpkin Spice time).  It set a nice mood for the day and we still got in a full walk. 

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    Neighbors in October

    By David Baker 

    All afternoon his tractor pulls a flat wagon

    with bales to the barn, then back to the waiting

    chopped field. It trails a feather of smoke.

    Down the block we bend with the season:

    shoes to polish for a big game,

    storm windows to batten or patch.

    And how like a field is the whole sky now

    that the maples have shed their leaves, too.

    It makes us believers—stationed in groups,

    leaning on rakes, looking into space. We rub blisters

    over billows of leaf smoke. Or stand alone,

    bagging gold for the cold days to come.

  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 9,619 Member

    October 24 - Dancing counts. I usually skip the walk on a dancing day, but I plan to call more than half the dances this week , and that means less dancing. So I took my morning walk. It was our Halloween party, so I went as Underdog.

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    When the Frost is on the Punkin

    By James Whitcomb Riley 

    When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder’s in the shock,

    And you hear the kyouck and gobble of the struttin’ turkey-*kitten*,

    And the clackin’ of the guineys, and the cluckin’ of the hens,

    And the rooster’s hallylooyer as he tiptoes on the fence;

    O, it’s then’s the times a feller is a-feelin’ at his best,

    With the risin’ sun to greet him from a night of peaceful rest,

    As he leaves the house, bareheaded, and goes out to feed the stock,

    When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder’s in the shock.

    They’s something kindo’ harty-like about the atmusfere

    When the heat of summer’s over and the coolin’ fall is here—

    Of course we miss the flowers, and the blossums on the trees,

    And the mumble of the hummin’-birds and buzzin’ of the bees;

    But the air’s so appetizin’; and the landscape through the haze

    Of a crisp and sunny morning of the airly autumn days

    Is a pictur’ that no painter has the colorin’ to mock—

    When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder’s in the shock.

    The husky, rusty russel of the tossels of the corn,

    And the raspin’ of the tangled leaves, as golden as the morn;

    The stubble in the furries—kindo’ lonesome-like, but still

    A-preachin’ sermuns to us of the barns they growed to fill;

    The strawstack in the medder, and the reaper in the shed;

    The hosses in theyr stalls below—the clover over-head!—

    O, it sets my hart a-clickin’ like the tickin’ of a clock,

    When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder’s in the shock!

    Then your apples all is gethered, and the ones a feller keeps

    Is poured around the celler-floor in red and yeller heaps;

    And your cider-makin’ ’s over, and your wimmern-folks is through

    With their mince and apple-butter, and theyr souse and saussage, too! ...

    I don’t know how to tell it—but ef sich a thing could be

    As the Angels wantin’ boardin’, and they’d call around on me

    I’d want to ’commodate ’em—all the whole-indurin’ flock—

    When the frost is on the punkin and the fodder’s in the shock!

  • Michieb125
    Michieb125 Posts: 1,606 Member

    Love the poems and underdog costume @77tes — not to mention dancing is such great exercise!

    We had our grandson spend the night on Thursday and it was a joy filled treat.

    After he returned home yesterday, I walked 9,100 steps. I will definitely make time to do my hand weights and yoga today. It’s pretty gloomy out so I will just have to clean the house a bit!

  • snowshoe072
    snowshoe072 Posts: 6,162 Member

    A good weekend busy lots of walking actually even found time to spin and start a new book a bit controversial but I think it will be a good educational read.

    Walking continues along with meditation and some strength work.

  • Learningmoments
    Learningmoments Posts: 1,423 Member

    Hi everyone. This next week will be a lighter schedule, but stress still high. I hope to take some TLC time for myself. I am meal prepping tomorrow. I have done better on meal planning and trying to keep my good habits going. I have missed enjoying all your posts.

    Everyone is doing GREAT! I love the pictures and poems. @77tes Super job on your walk-tober challenge. You are adorable as Under Dog.

    @SummerSkier I love the bougainvillea. It does look like potato chips. lol. Love the other pictures, too. You are bringing so much sunshine to the world around you with your compliments.

    @hcoleman232 That is great you found a training running group and signed up for a 5k. I am sure the group helps with motivation. Time flies when you run with others.

    @Michieb125 Great job on following your workout schedule! Grandkids are so much fun!

    @TerriRichardson112 Great idea shining up your solid habits before a busy month. Do you list your habits on a paper or post it on frig or how do you keep up with them?

    @snowshoe072 Great job with your guitar playing and reading. I love you are fitting your passions into your day.

  • TerriRichardson112
    TerriRichardson112 Posts: 20,570 Member

    @Learningmoments I have them on my phone and iPad. I used to keep a habit tracker, but it got boring just ticking them every day. I’m not so obsessed about them now. I just do them. They are part of my daily routine. The habits have turned into behaviours! 😂 Nowadays, I just record my progress on the habit I’m focusing on on the BHH monthly page.

  • Learningmoments
    Learningmoments Posts: 1,423 Member

    @TerriRichardson112 You and @77tes have inspired me so much. I want to be able to really care for myself during a crisis or busy times instead of dumping it all and just hoping that it doesn't do too much damage. I had time to rest yesterday and clean house. Today I took my routines and really thought about how to just do the minimum I can so it becomes a habit. Somewhere I think I read there is no better time to put yourself first than a crisis. I always want things to be perfect for starting something or know exactly what the plan is. So I have my list of routines and I will do my best. This morning & tonight, I did yoga. It helped a lot, but I still see my shoulders creeping up into my ears. Hopefully with practice, I can get them where they belong. Lol. Thank you all my habit seeking friends. You all are so inspiring.

  • 77tes
    77tes Posts: 9,619 Member

    @Michieb125 , grandkids are great for being active! Sounds like your weekend was full of solid habits 🙌

    @snowshoe072 , good walking, spinning, meditation, and reading! Bravo 👏 

    @Learningmoments , hooray for success in the meal planning!   🥘 It’s a hard habit to master, but the payoff is worth the effort ! I hope that TLC happens. Try to pamper yourself a bit every day this coming week. 🫂.  So glad your schedule got lighter !  I liked your quote about there being “no better time to put yourself first than a crisis.” It’s true because otherwise you get frazzled and no use to anyone. 

    October 25 - Our walk was later - after the farmers market, but got it done.  I was Very tired after dancing Friday night.

    Lucy played a bit in a neighbor’s front yard with  his pup named Zoey. It was very cute.
    Here’s a picture of the neighborhood Red Bud tree. The first to bloom in spring and then a golden cloud in the fall.

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    Fall

    the black oaks fling
    their bronze fruit
    into all the pockets of the earth
    pock pock

    they knock against the thresholds
    the roof the sidewalk
    fill the eaves
    the bottom line

    of the old gold song
    of the almost finished year
    what is spring all that tender
    green stuff

    compared to this
    falling of tiny oak trees
    out of the oak trees
    then the clouds

    gathering thick along the west
    then advancing
    then closing over
    breaking open

    the silence
    then the rain
    dashing its silver seeds
    against the house

    Mary Oliver (1935 – 2019)

  • SummerSkier
    SummerSkier Posts: 6,171 Member

    Gosh hard to believe here we are in the final stretch of Oct. I have managed to pretty much increase my activity back up and watched my VO2max and resting HR improve over time which is all I really wanted. I was hoping to avoid any binging but did have one last week. But right back to it the next day altho the siren song of restrict always calls to me I know that is a dangerous rollercoaster and chose to avoid it.

    I had the most crazy appt yesterday with my lash lady. I have been going to her for almost 10 years now every few weeks for my lashes and she is pretty much really nice and does a great job. But lately she is having some financial and health issues and yesterday she was literally falling asleep and unable really to do the work. I was actually trying to talk to her most of the appt to keep her awake and she kept losing the train of the conversation. I am sure it was medication. She spent 90 minutes working on me (and from the result it was about 15 minutes) for a pretty awful job. I did not want to say anything but she knew because she texted me several times offering a free fix this week etc… I told her honestly that my eyes were hurting (she was awful with the glue) and that I would see but I don't understand. If you are too ill to work, you really should not try to. It took all my will power not to just try to get up and leave after she started and in hindsight I probably should have. I am torn as to what to do as it has been getting worse over the past months and I am not sure I can continue.