rude people

women are mean. wow.

Yup. We can really be catty! I'd call her on it. She's saying this to you, because your letting her. Tell her she either needs to be supportive and shut up, or just stop talking to you if she can't be nice.
Or you can lay the pity card and beg her to do this with you, because you need some moral support on the home front. Either way, your gonna have to take a stand with her....:flowerforyou: