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its wrong to lie about anything to a partner let alone that, but lets face it the idiot clearly only married for appearances if it was enough to leave her, its what you get for being superficial. as someone above said divorce her if its an issue but dont turn your back on the kid x

YUM! all the reasons i want to visit france!!! xxx

your in the right place! this is all thats ever worked for me :D good timing too if everything is stable! x

hehe so true! im on here all day faffing even while at work xxx

try measuring yourself. me and my sister do a blog on youtube then post on here, i had what i thought was a bad loss recently but had lost inches, whereas the week before i had a bigger loss and lost no inches. Do you exercise? my other particularly small loss was 0.8pound but my scales said id lost 2%body fat but id…

not all men are the same no. and i saw that someone mentioned age? i saw something recently that said some people are young but born old and some are old but always young, everyone is different, im in my 20s is my husband we have been together 6 years and are very happy and also best friends. wanting to spend time with…

i always worry it will offend people especially when my friends dont respond to it lol its difficult because we lead different lifestyles but i dont see how this should stop us from socializing or make one of us uncomfortable, if they talked about it i would be able to understand it if that makes sense? i dont want to be…

this is what i did, it works! Being slim doesnt always mean healthy, i am the biggest of all my friends and they eat whatever they want, one has very high cholesterol that her doctor is worried about and in general their fitness level is much lower than mine. Being thin doesnt make you safe from heart diseases etc maybe…

ive lost 174pounds so far, i worked out all through it and as some one mentioned keep toning and moisturize too etc it helps, ive still got 46pounds to go, i feel loose but it could be a hell of a lot worse but i lost it healthily and toned as i went. its still an issue though x

true everyone has a different idea of what works within a relationship and if people are not open about it then no one can understand it. i have to be honest it baffles me but probably only because ive never discussed it with anyone before i find it hard to get my head around sharing someone i love? so i tried to discuss…

i eat the same as my partner but i weigh all my stuff. i dont do 'diet' food i just modify recipes and still eat yummy stuff but i never go over 1400cals x

add me i will kick you up the bum :D maybe you just need more support x

thats amazing! well done :) xxx

thats how im feeling about the spooks books by joseph delaney, they follow Tom ward who starts out young and grows through the series as 'spooks apprentice' they have already changed the title, filmed in canada even though its set in pendle, lancashire by me and also the people playing it are 30 something! x

soooo not the image i had in my mind x

heya :) ive been loitering around for quite some time too with only a few regular people on my list feel free to add me :) xxx

i hate book adaptions i don't think i have ever seen one and thought ooooh id love to see it again! i read a lot of random books from random genres but as examples,... Anne Rice books to movies...awful, jodie picoult my sisters keeper...ending all wrong and doesn't follow it and darren shans cirque du freak totally messed…

hi im in england, love this site! been using it for quite some time lost 174pounds still got 40 something to go though! my sister lives in america, she also uses this and we do weekly diet blogs on youtube then post on here :) just basically discussing what is or isnt working, people can send clips to be added to it etc,…

i didnt mean wrong for you, i meant it would be wrong within my relationship as we chose monogamy its what works for us, i was trying to say everyone is different, its not for me nor my partner but i know people it works for, ive just never understood it as my friends are not open to discussing it they are very much a 'if…

i guess everyone is different and everyone has their own ideas of what is and is not acceptable within a committed relationships. personally i find it wrong im married, happily and we gain everything we need but thats only my view what makes us happy may not make others happy x

the bigger a person is the faster they lose to begin with. i was 355 at my heaviest and i lost a stone in the first week followed by 9pound then 5 then 6 all in one month but its still taken me bout 6yrs to lose 174pounds it always slows after a while its getting it into your mind that thats healthy and this is the best…

it doesnt sound like your being needy at all, but you do need to know where you stand and in any relationship regardless of the level of seriousness there should always be communication x

my doctor told me that a healthy body fat% for a woman is between 20-25 % and upto 30% if over 30 x

its best to seek medical advice, as i said before low self esteem and body dysmorphia are both terrible but body dysmorphia is a mental illness its very different it isnt just about disliking your body, if you think you may have it you need to see a doctor x

hi im from the uk :) feel free to add me! my sister (hard2diet) lives in america so we do a youtube blog together we started it last week and post in on here if your interest, we basically just discuss what we are doing/eating what is and isnt working and a lot of silliness too xxxx

water retention. i gain a lot if i didnt drink enough the day before, ate more carbs than usual (even if i didnt go over ) i wouldnt worry about it too much x

Hi, i know how this feels ive lost 174pounds and still feel as big as i did then! its hard to mentally catch up with your body. low self esteem and body dysmorphia are very different things. both are awful though! i have body dysmorphia and i can be physically sick at the sight of myself, i see something vile and wrong…

its best to use HRM but if you dont have one, i read on a health forum you multiply your weight in pounds by 1.11 for cals burned on 30 day shred! i started my first day today x i use the above and add it manually

i love this site, if im not on it on my laptop ive got it open on my fone! my sister lives in america she has also joined (hard2diet) we also do a diet blog on youtube as for the first time we are the exact same weight! she was always smaller i was bigger and after kids etc we have evened out! our target is 51pounds and to…

hi :) welcome, ive been on here for a while now its brilliant definitely helps recording food and exercise :) ive lost quite a lot but still have a load to lose! feel free to add me :) i enjoy cooking so i have a lot of random recipes etc my food diary is set to public xxx