GraceCamD Member

I am not THAT frustrated just more in a joking curious way......just because I would be working at it as hard as them (dieting) and only lose 1/3 or less of what they lost!

UM.....i'm a "freak" in the "other way" like when i'm in a relationship......sorry just being honest if this is to blunt for you cover your eyes......hahaha

ANNOUNCEMENT-WOULD EVERYONE COOL IT-I AM SORRY-I ADMITTED ON MY LATTER POST YOU GUYS ARE PROBABLY RIGHT I AM JUST SPEAKING FROM MY EXPERIENCE, SHEESH, IM SORRY!!! YOU GUYS ARE A HARD BUNCH, HA! DO I HAVE TO DO 50 CRUNCHES?

take it easy....read my last post,,,,,i said you guys are probably right....just had some flashbacks of mean men and weight sorry!

You guys are probably right I am just thinking/speaking from my experiences of having someones baby for them and have them insult the way I look and tell me no one is gonna want me after having THEIR CHILD and me putting my body through that for them and our baby , and then to see them with a big old beer gut.....

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LOL......that's totally fine I don't begrudge men food ......Just the one's that go around ripping on women that have had three or more babies and they have a big ol' belly :D

Yep sure am When I was a soldier going through pregnancy and childbirth and then made fun of by some slob that just drinks beer....LOL

sounds interesting I will look it up :)

Thanks for the encouragment! all the Dr's have told me I have ruined my metabolism from going up and down and up and down, then I just had to quit smoking and I read the average a person gains is 40lb when they quit smoking because smoking does make your metabolism faster so that is making me freak......then there is…

Quote-from MIDWESTERNER8(sorry not a message board person do not know how to quote you) " I'm guessing there is some sarcasm there. I'm not going to pretend that I couldn't have made some better choices, but there have been a lot of times when I had to eat something or I would have a seizure and perhaps even die. If you…

I was 100 lbs before kids, then I was gaining 65 with each pregnancy and then going back down and losing it again and then being 180 after one of them and not being able to lose it, I was always going up and down it seemed which killed my metabolism the Dr. said. I got into a cycle of starving myself and losing the weight…

I see all these people putting their reasons and then-but I don't want to make excuses it really was my fault.....Well just so you know, their are cases were it CAN BE NOT YOUR FAULT...like not being able to walk on one leg for a year and then a month ago getting A METAL PLATE WITH SIX SCREWS, AND TWO METAL CAGES AROUND…

Had a bad back injury and could not exercise for a year (when i've always been very active, running, boxing, dance) and then had my spine surgury (still have not gotten the clearance to exercise,....grrr) and had to quit smoking because they said if i smoked before a year my bones won't fuse.

Thanks all....I just had vacation with family and have to admit I was to chicken to stand up to them....so I ate what they did....and freaked when I got home.....but did some damage control and thank Goodness did not gain weight...but next time I will take some of your suggestions....I don't know why its harder with…

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p.s. please add me if you think you have something in common with me and we could support each other, thanks!:happy:

Sorry I was off topic just wanted to show we also all pay for this cultures emphasis on only skinny is beautiful and fake perfect bodies and how people die from it every day, with that wrong thinking, God Bless:smile:

I just got done reading "Letting Ana Go", a true story of a teen girl who dies because of Aneroxia, it was terribly tragic and horribly distorted thinking, it was her actual diary.....the ten commandments of dieting like-I must feel guilty and punish myself if I overeat, only thin=attractive if your not thin your not…

well I can move my arms, I can walk of course but carefully, no BLT (bending, lifting or turning) i'm still using a reacher, lol, I am working on my foot in physical therapy, it stayed partly numb after surgury. So I will focus on my arms and feet :D My Dr. did say soon I could start slowly and carefully taking…