ladyoftherocks Member

Kitty cuddles, daydreams/imagination

@snowflake954 Yes, you are right. Easier said than done though. Which is why I'm in therapy lol. But we only just got to the point of talking about this stuff.

I lost a little weight, not sure how much because my scale either needs to be recalibrated or replaced. Just enough to make my pants more comfy but not go down a size. Visited my parents and they both said they noticed I lost weight, honestly it annoyed me. Like seriously it's such a small amount, if they noticed that how…

I just started The Testaments by Margaret Attwood (Handmaid's Tale sequel) since it came out after the show I was worried it would be too influenced by those events, but thankfully it's not, it's just as gripping as the original novel and doesn't take place in the exact same time as the original. Highly recommend it! But…

@seltzermint555 ugh that sucks! I hate it when you're in an office where not many people share your interests! You sound a lot like me lol. Also now I really want some freshly baked scones. I got super into baking for the first time at the beginning of the pandemic but have slowed down a little now, though I'm dying to…

Biking and pilates, although I don't have anywhere to go for pilates right now because everywhere is soooooo expensive. I've tried to do some videos but I have trouble motivating myself when I don't have a place to go and feel like I'm expected lol

Parallel park, not required on the driving test in FL!

This happened with my best friend from when I was 4 years old. We already started drifting a bit in late high school, every time she had a boyfriend she would totally drop me, so I made other friends, who she said she didn't like for no particular reason. She was a year ahead of me and really wanted me to go to the same…

General Summary: I got my hair done by a professional but had my makeup done by a friend after getting an AWFUL test run from the person the hair stylist suggested like I looked scary. I think my friend did a perfect job. The dress was from a normal bridal boutique but veil headpiece thing I had custom-made by someone on…

Currently obsessing over clothes.

The lovely view from my office window makes going into the office again not so bad! Started this job during the pandemic so it was a while before I I got to enjoy it :)

Retro

Pretty much any story (or tv episode, or whatever) written by AI. Seriously I never stop cracking up.

@SuzySunshine99 and @Jthanmyfitnesspal Thanks for your input, I will say that though I can definitely see it being read by that I'm pretty sure I'm not bringing it up constantly or inserting it randomly into conversation, there's usually something related when these comes up and it's natural in the conversation, or at…

So I've only been married about 5 years so obviously I don't technically know if we'll last but I have full confidence that we will, I'm literally never insecure or worried about it, I know he feels the same way. It's been wonderful for me, we love spending time together. Even during the pandemic we never got sick of each…

@steveko89 thanks for the advice! My incentive to lose weight is in fact mainly aesthetic lol. Of course I'd be worried about health in the long term but at the moment I don't have any issues (thankfully!). Also what you said about mental health, since not looking the way I want affects that, though I'm simultaneously…

Taken?

I'm starting with a rant! I went in-person shopping for the first time in ages because I was hoping I could find something new to wear to an event that's too soon for me to order online and it was a complete disaster! I was really bummed because I had really pumped myself up and gotten in a good headspace to try things on…

Congratulations! I did that so many times too

Since I'm not sure if you are asking what made you start losing weight or tip that helped you lose weight I'll answer both. Finding out my BMI was 28.2 is what motivated me to start losing weight, because I had no idea it was that high. I have only been on here 6 days so obviously don't have weightloss to show off yet but…

@springlering62 Thank you! That's good to know! I've been trying to think of someone I could ask for honest opinions on my body but right now I'm stumped. I won't no honesty from my husband that could be negative because I would absolutely cry. My mom always gives advice that ends up making me feel worse about myself. I…

@runinthesun7 thank you! It's my favorite lipstick, MAC chili. If you have a Tj Maxx I found some there for 7.99!

Went out for the 1st time since covid last night!

I just started and would love some more friends :) bonus if you are similar to me since I'd be curious to compare! I'm 30F, 5'6. 175 lbs. I think I ultimately want to lose 40 pounds but my first have a smaller goal of 21 to get me into normal BMI

After learning my BMI after my doctor's appointment just about 2 weeks ago. I'd thought about losing weight for a long time and hated most photos of myself because I thought I looked too fat but I never actually thought I AM fat. I guess I thought either I'd be a little overweight or the high end of norm so I was shocked…

I also hate mayo. Cheese on a burger is gross, also most cheese in general is disgusting. On that note stop putting cream cheese in my sushi and on my desserts. Ranch is awful. Salmon tastes weird. Just the smell of cinnamon makes me nauseous, same goes for yogurt.

Thanks to everyone for their advice. @BarbaraHelen2013 I understand that to an extend but despite me seeing a lot of people say metabolism isn't really a thing I'm otherwise stumped that when I was in my early 20s I could drink frappucinos every day and still be underweight lol. But I also feel like it has to do with my…

Lucky to have lovely nature trails behind my work building!