RhiAnLewis17 Member

Giggle-snort-squirm?

Oh hellooooo

My thoughts exactly!

Who.... And WHYY? And why isn't it a holiday for the rest of us?

I like the fact that you reply to your own post. Mixing it up a bit by actually replying to you.

😂😂😂

I think you summed it up perfectly. I would always prefer someone to tell me how they feel rather than becoming distant, because I think silence can be misinterpreted and lead to the disintegration of relationships. But so many people are afraid of being accepting of their emotions and speaking their mind in case they are…

Have a hug 🤗

I always liked the phrase about glass hurting you more when you grip too tightly. Sometimes the only choice we have is to accept and move on, but it's still a choice.

But.... In the voice thread?

Maybe it is just paused, maybe I did something they found unforgivable. Closure is always appreciated, but this could be selfish of me if they are going through stuff that I am unaware of. I have offered myself as someone for them to speak to if they need. Mostly it's just concern for them, or that I have upset them.

Because we want to hear you say them 😊😊

A friend, who previously I would speak to everyday. Now it's occasional and... Sterile, I suppose.

I agree, I feel that with apathy or ambivalence, the lack of feedback indicates a disinterest in the continuance of a friendship. I would rather someone be angry at me, at least it means they care. Apathy means they don't care, at which point I've wasted energy investing in a friendship. Although apathy could also be…

It could, or they could be hurt and unwilling to admit it.

I'm considering this aspect more in terms of whether it is better for a friend to be angry at you, or ambivalent towards you.

Anger we cannot articulate. Apathy; we do not deliberate. Also wishing I had used the word apathy.

What's worse; disinterest or anger?

For some it takes a lifetime 🤷‍♀️ you must be savvy

Just you?

Oh.... There was the request? No password = no privacy = full disclosure. For one party anyway.

Yes, and I don't want you to be manipulated by OTHER people. Or even talk to other people. Period.

I don't know how I've survived so far with my ignorance and idiocy tbh.

Ooooh even better when he tries to convince you that YOU'RE wrong. Swoon.

These lyrics are (possibly unintentionally) profound

It's alarming how often I say them to justify my actions 🤷‍♀️

Relentlessly

I can keep it up enough for the both of us😉

Nuffink. These are not the droids.