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Those are definitely not cigars. Someone was smoking a vanilla cigar last night and I thought it was a black and mild, lol. Not a fan of the flavored ones either.

I've always enjoyed the smell of a cigar. When I met him and found out he was a cigar aficionado it was a major turn on. He's been educating me on it and I've been trying a few here and there. I'm enjoying it :)

He is marvelous :) His house? errr... still working on it. Baby steps but he seems open to suggestions, etc.. Has kept the bathroom pretty decent since I cloroxed it and I'm cleaning it this weekend again. Last night we went to a cigar event; I've been meaning to tell you about his local b&m, they host one every month.…

I used it as an ice breaker. When we meet in person, I find it easier to hold a conversation. I met my bf there and I am quite the happy camper.

Sounds so exciting! Good luck! :flowerforyou:

Crrrrrrrrreaaaaaaaaappp!!! WOW :noway:

Not my cup of tea.

I'm moving to Pompano next month (hopefully). In Wellington now.

Just realized you were in Florida too!

That's awesome!! :)

Speaking of this song... Have you heard the Richard Cheese version? HA!

The date rape drug. lol

I love to karaoke!! I usually do: -Killing me softly by the Fugees -Say it right by Nelly Furtado -Landslide by Dixie Chicks -Who will save your soul by Jewel

I don't have a type anymore... If I see someone I like, then that's that. My type used to be: "tall, dark and handsome, defined cheek bones, muscular... just perfect!" lol

LOL

Thank you. I appreciate this answer. And I'll repeat, I do treat him as the wonderful person he is. Would love to have a switch to turn off my brain; but he is great! And it IS getting easier as time goes on.

Oh boy, I never said I was faulting him nor I was questioning him about it. I said I didn't feel comfortable talking to him about my past relationships because of my "triggers" (someone else suggested I talk to him). All I was asking was how other people handle it. Just because it is easy for you to say, "the past is the…

I have at&t and they have a program for that. They gave me an intro period for 3 months and I cancelled it before it charged me anything but it worked wonders! ALTHOUGH, he did text me from someone elses number telling me I didn't have to block his number. Really?

How do I not? Especially when my last relationship was so hard on me emotionaly. Honest to God I am trying not to let it get in the way, but there are triggers that just make me think about it and I start to worry. I don't do it because I want to.

A- dorable!

I think there is a website of cats in sinks.. They are all so adorable! My friends cats LOVE the sink!

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Thanks Danielle... I considered mentioning something but I honestly didn't want to bring up my past relationships with him... I'd like to hear a guys point of view on your gf talking to you about what triggers they have bc of past relationships?

I know and I am really trying hard... thanks!

I completely understand.

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It's funny that you say that. I read a quote from Bob Marley yesterday and part of the quote says something like: being vulnerable is the only way you can allow your heart to feel true pleasure, that's so real, it scares you. And I thought to myself: "That's what I'm doing. I am opening my heart and I know that I am…

New guy is perfect. No complaints. I just worry from time to time. I am assuming what happens is that when he does something similar to my ex it brings the memory back and my guard just shoots right up.

She's adorable! I was having a hard time finding a condo that accepts pets and my parents asked to keep the dog.... Not happening! I can't imagine having to give him up. I'm sorry.

They are way too cute!