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I have heard this a couple of times. I was always honest with them. "Why not?" My response was something of the nature, "Would you like to be with someone like me?" or "Fit women and fat guys are only true in TV shows"

Where do you find all this information for free? I am extremely curious now what my 'permanent record' might contain. But to the issue, I had a friend in college that got ticketed and put on the sex offender list (lowest severity) due to him peeing in the woods when we were all camping. Someone saw him, and reported him…

Honestly I would think that a woman would be much more critical of her boobs than I guy would be. I have seen a few pairs, some I could touch and others I had to pay just to look at :blushing:. The little things that we find strange or dislike about our bodies, in this case say large areolas or large/small nipples,…

2012 definitely had it's share of ups and downs: Started on MFP and have lost a total of about 30 pounds. Not the 100 I was hoping for, but still 30 pounds gone. Had 2 girlfriends this year (1 relationship I ended, the other I was dumped) Gained a lot insight into some things I want in my future partner. Got turned down…

How you doin'? :wink: I have learned though to learn exactly what the status of the father and previous relationship is. Dated a single mom and loved her kid, but after about 6 months she decided she wanted to work it out with the kid's father for the kids sake, and dropped me flat on my face. Live and learn.

Yeah, I always wear a condom no matter what. Of course I have actually always taken that a step further and the only women I have had sex with were also on something (pill or whatever) to prevent pregnancy. That way just in case something happened with the condom, there will hopefully be another line of defense. While I…

I don't think so. Was totally innocent. Just two young single people sleeping in the same bed fully clothed and cuddling. I just try to never do things like that with coworkers.

I confess I went out to dinner with a female coworker and we danced the night away. Then after some alcohol, took her up on the offer to stay at her place and cuddle up all night. Good night...may make for an interesting Monday.

Agree 100%. Love that all you ladies are willing will to show how beautiful your assets are. Be proud and confident.

Same goes for women. Even when they are there with a group of others, it makes it much easier to strike up a convo when they are just standing or sitting at the bar. Can approach them in a much more relaxed way when ordering beers.

Good luck with this. I was in that situation with a gf a while back. If I didn't answer her texts in about a 10 minute time frame, she would text again something like, "HELLOOOOOO?" or "Are you Alive?". I told her early on that I don't get service at work and shouldn't be texting all day even if I did, but that didn't stop…

Agreed. If having a single female friend is desirable to go out to places with, sounds like you should message back. Otherwise just ignore it. Of course, if she starts acting like your son with the poking and pinching, she may have a different idea of 'friends'.

Really?!? Wow... Maybe it is just me, but when I see an attractive woman coming, I will hesitate and hold the door longer than I would have otherwise. To be nice, but maybe even to spark some communication. Of course in my previous life working at Lowes, many guys there would ignore women shoppers b/c they wouldn't know…

That is what they all say...and then the morning sickness starts. :sick:

I guess to me several of these things just don't really have to be labeled as chivalry, but just being a decent person. *If someone spilled my drink, or I spilled theirs...the person spilling the drink should just offer to buy one out of common decency. *I open the door for people that are following me or coming out of a…

I am in the same boat. I am a guy who will be alone on Christmas. My family isn't very close and we have never done much together for holidays. I have just gotten used to it, and on occasion had a friend invite me over...though would never invite myself. This year will be no different, so decided I am going on a week long…

Just from a completely open sexual point a view...maybe Amsterdam?

Happy Birthday. December 29 here. Going to be 28.

Sorry, maybe a :blushing: or :drinker: would have been more appropriate. I know you and Carl have a ton more.

Actually I wasn't being sarcastic when I said I found it interesting. In a non-creepy way, it was fun to learn. I was raised in a house where anything and everything was fair game to be discussed. So not modest at all and have no issue discussing sexual stuff.

Wait, was this an option? Did I forget to check a box somewhere when I joined this group? In all honesty, after the personal grooming thread and hearing all the different variations of hair down there, it could be interesting...:noway:

I don't really agree with this, personally. I am very open to exploring new things and hope my partner is too. I have ended a relationship b/c I was bored of the normal missionary and she wouldn't have any of it. It was the first women I had ever been with that was so...conservative, and it was extremely boring and…

Wow, miss a day on SP forum and the you know what hits the fan. In regards to this question and several of the others related to females having higher sex drives... I am a male who was a 'late bloomer' lets say, so I missed some prime years of getting out there and having fun. In the past couple of years, I have found that…

Figured I would let everyone know in case you didn't get the email. Big House Big Heart 5k/10k run that is usually held at UofM stadium has been cancelled for this coming year. This is an excerpt from the long email: "We apologize ahead for a lengthy email. It is with sadness that we announce that University of Michigan…

Jeremy 27...almost 28 at the end of the year. Ann Arbor, MI

Lived up in Houghton for 5 years while going to Michigan Tech, but moved downstate for a job. So don't currently live up there, but feel free to add me.

Wait, guys can't post photos and participate in those days? I had my favorite thong ready to go. And all the other days we could just claim as Twirly if it guys picking. Hmm...maybe a facial hair day, or abs (or lack of).

Carl, just goes to show you are damned if you do, and damned if you don't.

I think I pretty much knew all of those already, but definitely still suffering from 3-4 of them regarding my last relationship. This of course is why I am single and not currently looking. No point in trying to start something with someone new until I get over the last one; not fair to either party.

I'm sorry, did you say something? I was distracted.