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Nice to see you, too. I was wondering when one of you guys would show up.

I can kind of understand why he's worried because out of the few "serious" relationships I've been in, this is the first one my family likes. I know it sucks to have to argue with parents. But the difference is that my parents were willing to meet who I was dating versus "no is no and if you decide to go against me then…

Oh I wasn't trying to discredit anything. You suggested I speak to him and I was just explaining that we talked last night. And lol, I dunno what I want you to say or do. The one's saying "run away" I could do without and I greatly appreciate you all's input. But I guess we are all at a loss. I guess if I re-phrased it to…

We spoke last night and he's going to try and talk to his mother again because from the conversation, he really does seem like he wants to go. I know that his siblings have kind of made poor decisions, so I get where she's coming from. But I don't think going to Carowinds for a day is going to that detrimental to his life.…

Lol thank you <3

Because this section of the forum is targeted towards "fitness" @Jigsaw- Heh I agree. But i've never met her so I dunno why.

He doesn't have one. I can tell you that. He doesn't like his mom. but he respects her, hence this situation. @Nissi- of course I want the best for him. It's that she makes all the decisions for him when he's not at school that I disagree with.

That's a thought but I'm feeling like after he already bought a ticket (and I'm the driver) that wouldn't be the case. And if you feel the need pose the idea he's cheating or meeting someone else, just don't because that doesn't seem likely either. I came for advice and while a lot of you all have been helpful and I…

I'd be coming home this evening. I wasn't planning on staying in the city. Just a day trip, as one would take the to beach or anything else. But she "forbids" him to leave because..well. I don't know. Because she said so.

I was driving 2 hours to his house, we were going to a theme park 30 mins from his house. We both have jobs and are paying our own way.

Congrats on your engagement! And I want to continue to be with him. I just don't know what changed her mind.

I've been telling him that but she pays for his tuition. Her mindset is screwed up. I've been saying that at some point she's gonna have to accept it or tolerate it but that won't happen unless we both do something to persuade her to make a decision

Lol. It wouldn't be so bad if she didn't change her mind. Because she was originally okay with it. He's been home with my family before. My family likes him. I just don't know why his mom is so cross with me when I've never met her. He raised his GPA last semester after we got together because we studied and I pushed him…

So you feel they aren't allowed to go on dates or see people? I'm not trying to argue, just understand your point of view. I turn 20 this year and well, I feel like experiences should be encouraged as long as you have guidance because in their household it's "mom is always right or you get out." That doesn't make for good…

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That's what I don't get. Don't parents want their kids to make decisions for themselves?

Thanks <3 Hopefully I can see a change in a few more weeks. Fingers crossed

Yes, I'm losing inches. @Everyone else: Thank you for your input. I can go to IIFYM and re-evaluate my TDEE. And the cupcake is a betty crocker cupcake my mom made. The ziti/quiche is from an online website my mom used so I just referenced that instead. I don't eat back my exercise calories when I work out most of the…

My BMR is closer to 1800, so I eat slightly less than that, haha. Maybe that's bad?

I use my food scale for everything I eat, down to the sauces I use for my fries or jelly for toast. If I eat over, I track that, too. That's why I'm confused about why my weight has stagnated. I have learned that the weeks of 1400, I don't lose and when I up my calories, I do. But I dunno if that is a major factor of that.

Because I ate the same thing for lunch that I did for dinner for the past two nights and I didn't feel like re-adding all the food. And no, not that I or my doctors know of

I weigh everything, lol. I have a food scale. Even when I use the scale, I over-estimate slightly to account for some miscalculations. But I weigh everything that goes into my mouth.

Thank you everyone <3

Thanks c:

I didn't even notice my legs o: Thank you c:

x: bump?

Wow I didn't know this came back. Thank you everybody <3

I assumed 12 lbs (of pure fat), dropping me to around 23 or 24% body fat in 6 weeks..

Lol you're bulking now soooo cake. All the cakes. <3

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