Nikki_42 Member

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Not to get in between your debate...but what if you change the wording? "Your life would be better if you were...gay...white..straight...black...etc." She just happened to use the word religious/live according to the bible. That appears to be why the other poster took offense. Because it was offensive the way it was thrown…

Exactly. Don't go in like a girl guessing, go in like a woman who knows what she wants and asks for it.

I'll be the stranger that tells you the truth. :flowerforyou: That's on you, not him. If you're in an "on/off relationship", you're not in a relationship. From what you wrote, at best, you're friends who occassionally sleep together for periods of times. At worst, *kitten* buddies. And that's only bad because you don't…

<---Single no STD's and no kids either. And whatever time limit I've used from hours to months, I've *never* had an issue with a man thinking anything negative or being disrespected. It's because I choose men, not boys. It's not about time, it's about the person and the situation.

Exactly. :laugh:

From 24 hours to 3 weeks. Depends on how smart he is.

^^This. Not to be harsh to the bride, but that sounds like a really rude thing to do with wedding gifts. Besides how many days does she expect you to be hostage to "her day", lol. Say thanks but no thanks and go see your family. It's definitely not rude to not attend every single event.

Thank you for an honest and nice statement. Everyone's hard work will pay off, just the timing is different. :smile: Our journey's are just beginning! (and I might only be eating radishes and cucumbers by the end lol)

Oh definitely and I'll eat a Twinkie in your honor tonight 'roid boy. :tongue:

No one asked you to agree, it was my opinion. Just like you have yours and I don't agree. Makes the world great huh? If it's not bashing in your world, it's jealously in mine. Either way it's a negative emotion spewing forth for no real reason. If someone wants a real opinion on someone's eating habits they'll ask that…

Anything they're jealous of you eating, wish they could eat, and resent you somewhat for eating. :flowerforyou: I don't know why they just don't eat it if they're going to focus on it so much and move on.

Why do the comments on these types of threads always turn into "they're not healthy on the inside and stupid to eat crap" semi-bashing? :huh: Don't hate. If someone can eat junk and lose weight, more power to them. Making blanket statements like their "insides are destructive/dying" (and drama queen much?) is ridiculous.…

Agreed. We must be using the same scale, wearing the same clothes and looking in the same mirror. :wink: If if fits my numbers, I'm going to eat it. It's a lifestyle change, not a diet.

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Not only would I not take him seriously. I wouldn't send a long reply back either, that encourages idiots. How the hell does he know you don't want to bulk up? And big boy weights? <snort> "Dear You, You're wrong, and kind of sound like an *kitten*. You should rethink your approach and conversation skills. Love, Me"…

I'm confused by the question. Why wouldn't it be okay to go to the zoo (or anywhere actually) by yourself?

Something to keep in mind.--- From most medical studies, it's a myth that alcohol helps you sleep better. (whatever the amount, high or low) I won't post all the links, but you can google it anywhere or ask your doctor. It actually disrupts your brain and sleep patterns. Not saying give up drinking, though it's great to do…

Never thought of it that way, but good call.

Will log: 1-anything done at gym 2-extra long walks (ie>3 mile walk in park) 3-dancing (don't care if it's a club or whatever) Won't log: 1-yard work 2-house work 3-normal every day activities Not judging anyone at all, but for me logging house work/normal activities looks like overkill on the lines of cheating, and not…

Come onnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn dudette. Now I want a sandwich. :love:

Lol! :laugh:

Depends. the short guys I dated gave me attitude when I wore heels, and had a chip on thier shoulder about it. But if a guy is confident and the attitude is right, the height doesn't matter in the long run.

I think, if nothing else, it makes a difference in how full I feel. If I eat all junk (and I totally will), I'll get hungry quicker and be pissed later 'cause I can't eat. I'm a pretty big believer in eat what you want, but I do find myself being slightly smarter some days and going for my veggies because I know I can eat…

That seems confusing. If you exercise, you burn calories, if you burn calories, you lose weight. If you eat less, you lose weight. Cardio would help tone up a little more than just eating less. (not better than some other options, but still better than just eating less)

Same. I went crazy for a bit. Then I got slightly hurt, and learned my lesson.

^^This. Yes.

I :heart: this nerd question. Original Battlestar Galactica....followed by Star Trek....followed by the new Battlestar Galactica once I forgave them for changing EVERYTHING.

Yes from 14000 feet and LOVED every single minute!! There is nothing that compares to it. But it's an expensive hobby lol.

Awwww, I'm sorry, that's terrible. {{{hugs}}}