Nikki_42 Member

Right?! I wasn't going to ask lol.

That would actually work on me lol.

Just choked on my drink. LMFAO!! I actually like that one. :laugh:

Him- "You're dressed like you're single." Me- " Seriously dude? I want you to walk away and think about what you just said." After he walked away and thought about it. Him-"What I meant to say was that you were beautiful, but I was drunk." Me- "Better. Now go away." Fyi-- I was wearing jeans, a t-shirt and a baggy sweat…

I'm not surprised. But ditto.

That's not flirting, that's cheating. And you probably already know that since you're asking the question. It's your relationship so if that works for you and what you think you deserve, random advice isn't really going to help. :ohwell: But to answer the unasked question, yes it's weird that you're accepting that type of…

I get what you're saying, but the way it's coming across (and I don't think you mean it this way) it sounds like a self-esteem issue, like you don't *really* deep down believe you are good enough right now. I do agee it's not rude to talk about, when engaged in that conversation. His 'compliment' sounded like he just…

Now *that's* how you compliment a lady! :flowerforyou:

^^this And your response should have been "Well don't take this the wrong way, but I always think you're cute too, until you open your mouth." Keep it real, don't pretend it was a compliment. Edit- unless he's under 23 and no experience with a woman. I'll give him points for stupidity and not meaning it badly in that case.

Blunt truth-- Your post(s) make no sense. Honestly it's not even worth breaking down because if you are really eating the amount of calories you're stating, and you're a full grown adult with normal bodily functions, then there is about a 99% chance you have an eating disorder. If you do any research at all, talk to your…

Old gym shorts 'cause they're lightweight. Good running shoes. (learn from my horrible "I'll just wear my Keds...why can't I walk and why am I in massive pain" mistake, don't go cheap on the shoes) Two sports bras 'cause my girls need real support while running, and I'd much rather have them flat then painfully bouncing.…

Not being mean, but after the above comments you kinda sound like you had it coming. You can't call someone all those names and think they're going to play nice or by your rules. Why shouldn't he attack you personally? He probably felt attacked personally the minute he answered the phone and realized why you were calling.…

1-Wow, he's rude and apparently knows exactly where to hit huh? Stop wasting energy on him if you know what he said isn't true. 2- I would hope your sister knows she shouldn't be dating someone that treats her siblings/family that way. That's a bad reflection on her. 3- He's mad you texted him about something that was…

If your deficit is BECAUSE of the exercise then it makes sense not to eat those calories back. If you're at a deficit already and then exercising on top of that to create EVEN MORE of a deficit then it makes sense to eat back exercise calories. This topic has like a million threads and no thread ever adds anything new.

With a question mark? You might want to figure out the specifics of what you want before you talk to her and go making changes.

I'm saying this to help in my normally blunt way, not to bash... Dude seriously? Cowboy up. No one wants to date someone they don't respect. And if what you wrote it true, she doesn't respect you, you're just convenient and foolish enough to put up with her behavior. And you sound hostile about it, like you resent doing…

I may put my alcohol calories as "quick calories" so I don't look like a drunk on weekends, lol, but that's about it and I still count it. :tongue:

Rock on!! Way to take control of your life and health! Hope the recovery goes smooth and fast. :smile:

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That was right on time. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. :flowerforyou:

If you don't trust your doctor, you need a new doctor. Or at a minimum a second opinion. Ie>I totally get wanting general feedback from strangers, but your doctor knows you and your history and your body better than us.

Great just got busted laughing at computer...

I don't mind the question threads so much. But the relationship ones... "My significant other cheats on me and/or makes me feel horrible and/or doesn't respect me.....should I stay with him?"

5'6" Starting Weight 180 , started mid-March Current Weight 168 Goal Weight 160, maybe 150 depending on the mirror. No time frame at all, just steady progress is the goal. Also not a diet for me, just counting calories and being more aware of portion control/what I eat. (diet to me implies some end to it)

Haagen Daz chocolate chocolate chip. :drinker: Seriously. When you have a lot of calories left over, eat something you love. Those cals will go quickly lol.

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You are amazing and so if your family. Congratulations in every way possible!

Who doesn't think they're hot? "You're not conceited if you're convinced." :wink:

Smart answer- Disney of course. True answer- Fat cells just shrink or expand. You (according to lipo doc) keep the same number of fat cells unless they are removed. It's just the size of the cell that changes. No I haven't had lipo. :-)

That's my issue, so I stay away from it even though I like it. It's not going to fill me up and it's a crap load of calories.