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Tonight is the last night my family is here so we'll probably go out to dinner. After I drop them at the airport tomorrow morning, I have my trainer, then I'm helping a friend study for the California Bar Sunday is still being figured out but I'll definitely be hanging with my BBFF (Boy best friend) I'm just so happy to…

Congratulations to you! I threw myself an "Emancipation Party" once my divorce was final! Mike/DM - As an attorney I can tell you that there are many reasons divorces can take a while... In addition to the ones cited by others in the thread - there's also the punishment factor. A friend went through a very prolonged fight…

<< I don't have a close up of the boobies but I didn't think anyone would object to this pic instead

Now that I have a bit more time I can actually answer the questions... I would approach anyone that made eye contact with me. I've had lots of amazing conversations with all kinds of people so if a guy (or girl for that matter) makes eye contact and looks like they're open to talk, I'll go over and introduce myself.…

Awww... Thanks Mike. You might want to wait until after the boobs heal though. :blushing:

I read a lot of the posts here in SP but don't post often. I can see both sides of the equation but I've always approached things very simply... I am only bothered by what someone else says if I allow them to bother me. If I read something in a topic that I think is total BS, then I right it off as BS and move on. I don't…

My family is still in town visiting, I've planned some fun activities to keep them busy and me off the couch. lol Saturday - Santa Barbara Wine trail, shopping and dinner Sunday - San Diego Zoo Monday - overnight road trip to Vegas (return tuesday afternoon)

I just ask when was the last time he was tested and if he had any partners since the test. I did have an ex get offended when I made him go get tested before I'd have sex with him because he had 2 partners since the last test so I wanted a new one. I'll usually take their word but I made my ex bring me the actual results…

Personally, I have no issue if someone Googles me but if they ran a full background check with credit, etc. I'd be concerned. There's a big difference between checking for a violent history (which is public record in most states so you'll find it with a Google search) and checking my credit history which is really invasive.

I agree with everyone else. I don't like it and I won't be on at all today.

I still have lots of things from my marriage but I think the one thing that most people comment on is the diamond ring. The general rule is that if you break it off, then he gets back the ring but since I paid for the ring there was no way he was getting it. I had the diamond re-set into a pendant. It reminds me that I…

My type has always been clean cut white boys. I've become more flexible on things like height, hair/eye color, etc but Intelligence and a sarcastic sense of humor are not negotiable.

Some of my favorites that are short and to the point... Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen every day. When your ex says "you'll never find anyone like me" Reply with "That's the Point!" Character is how you treat those who can do nothing for you. Being Honest may not get you a lot of friends but it will always get…

I'm not gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model but, I'm me. I eat food, I have curves, I have more fat than I should, I have scars, I have a history. Some people love me, some people like me, some people hate me. I have done good, I have done bad. I love my Pjs and…

I generally don't put vibrating electonics in my mouth ... :blushing:

I love to cuddle... just not after sex. When I'm done, I want to be left alone.

Feb is bad, I have to go to Milwaukee on business but March is open. LOL I won't go into details on this thread but I've been compared to the energizer bunny in this regard so you actually may be too tired to leave by the time I'm done with you!

Honey, once I'm done with you then you're free to go!

I agree that most women want to feel safe and respected but I disagree on whether that will alllow them to be more open. This is true of some women but not all women. I've had some very graphic and specific conversations with both genders about a lot of different aspects of sex. Some women just don't like sex or they see…

I don't think they're lying as much as they think they're more adventurous than they are. My ex used to tell me how kinky he was with his gfs when we met but the man wouldn't let me give him oral. Can you imagine?!!! I still plead total insanity as to why I stayed married to him for 6 years! :embarassed:

Well, since you have a 30 day expiration, you just have to figure out how to come out to LA for 29 days.

You deal with this however you need to and shouldn't feel bad. It's hard. We've all been there at some point. I've always tried to let go of things out of my control but it's easier said than done when your feelings are involved. Allow yourself to feel ... things will resolve themselves one way or the other over time. In…

I think that's mostly true but I have scared off quite a few men on the first date by my knowledge of the "alternative" lifestyle as well as my honesty about some of the toys I have used on men. I wasn't so open when I was younger.... now that I've hit 40, I really don't care what anyone thinks of me so I make sure to…

I would add no Blood, severe pain, or asphyxiation

I thought I had no boundaries until I went to a private bondage/S&M party and found them! :noway:

You're not that far from me... men looking for a sugar mama in LA are very common... the whole cougar phenomenon is alive and kicking here! The control aspect is one I also have issues with. I'm more dominant than submissive so that turns a lot of guys off.

My deal breakers have definitely changed as I've aged (and after my divorce) • must be at least open to discussing sexual options/toys/positions/etc... we can negotiate where we both are satisfied but no more prudes for me… and must be willing to let me be in control at least occasionally • must be able to support himself…

I like to mix mine with creamy horseradish instead of mayo. I get the creamy consistency plus a good kick of heat at the same time. Pickles and some sweet relish cut the heat if I use too much.

Tonight is happy hour after work. Tomorrow I'm meeting a new guy for lunch... he's a bit younger than my usual dates (only 29) but he was persistent and seems nice enough so we'll see. Not sure if he sees me more as a potential gf or mentor as he just graduated law school. lol Tomorrow night is dinner with friends. I'm…

Gotcha... I guess I'll just have to keep looking then.