navybrat84

Im sorry, it all just came out at once. I do think we need help, and i do want for my marriage to work. I just think he is unhappy right now, sad maybe, even depressed. He was very sad over the m/c. I know most of you say go, but Im not quit ready to just give up. I will do lots of reading. And i will go to my school and…

Thank you all. These posts have pretty much confirmed what Ive been pushing under the rug. I will do a lot of thinking and searching. pisst* I dont like harsh things. But it is what it is, right?

I know your right, my mom was a single parent. I can remember how hard it was for her. I def dont want to go through that. It sounds like its decision time for me.........

Thank you, I know you guys are right, I am just not ready to admit it. If that makes any sense at all. I hate drama, I cant stand it. I know that is exactly what he is going to be. Oh god, what have I gotten myself into. What a freakin mess!

Oh WOW that is awesome! Great job!! I also want to get below 200! Keep up the good work!

I want to thank everyone for your honest opinions, to be frank it feels good to talk to other people. Obviously I have a lot to think about. I think we are past the point of talking. My words tend to fall on deaf ears. I know I want children, more than anything. Now if I answer honestly, no i do not want him to be the…

:smile: What a great guy to always say your beautiful, where did you find him? lol Does he have a brother LOL jk

If only I had the guts for that. to say bye after dropping the weight. i did erase the desktop pic. A random nude shot. "now thats hot"......... Oh my. Now with all of you commenting, I feel even more lost. I didnt want to get married again, it just kind of happened. He does not make me happy anymore. And for the first…

I daydream about my life before my husband. The friends I had on outings with friends. I got asked out all the time. My guy friends always wanted to take me. They would say "your the most fun ever" "this was a great date" etc. I was the outgoing one. The fun one. Now, my friends dont even call me anymore. I have moved, a…

I have asked about counseling, he is not interested in spending the money. i have also told him several times that his comments sometimes hurt my feelings. He says im just a sensitive person and I should take his comments as positive. "telling you your fat should not hurt you, it should help you!!"

Im not going to lie, it does hurt sometimes. I have excused myself to cry quietly in the bathromm. I really want to believe that loves me for me. I have never had a personal problem with my weight. But husband has for several months now. Then the whold pregnancy thing. Im not using the pregnacy as an excuse for the weight…

You look great, good job!!

Congratulations!! you look so amazing, but more important, You look HAPPY!!!!