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I have the same issues. Been fighting them for years. We are close (I am in Clayton), but not close enough to workout. I can help give you encouragement if you like. Feel free to add me. Have a great day!

Will be 41 this year and struggled and yoyo'd for years. Feel free to add me... :)

Face and personality. I don't know how to place one over the other except to say that a pretty face will draw me in when I know nothing else about you, a great personality will keep me there.

Clowns - Have you seen the movie IT, or clowns in eating establishments working while you try to eat? Nuff said. Heights, due to the possibility of a fall and sudden stop. Flying, see #2 and the world trade center attacks. Crowds or close tight spaces. Blue ducks...

Just break up...

Awesome job! What did you do to get there? I am trying all the right things, exercise, less in than expenede, but my trouble comes from late night hunger and killing my day late. Did you have any issues with that?

Just break up...

Being fat is all genetic and there is nothing I can do... :yawn:

Do whatever is right for you and your partner. I never did and then started to do a general "brushkeeping." I knock down the high brush making sure there is minimal risk of a loose one down the windpipe. (sorry for the visual) If I get a request for the full knockdown I will do that from time to time but hate it. I don't…

Hey all. I will be 41 this April and am trying for the 71st time (MUST succeed this time) to drop the weight I want and need to drop. Had last 30 from Sept 2012 - end November 2012 and then holidays strung through to Superbowl and I have found 15 back. Re-dedication for myself because I am worth feeling better and being…

Kate, I would concour with a few of the other posters here. You look beautiful in the before as well as the after. It is great however that you are getting healthier and feeling better about yourself. There are so many unrealistic and crazy notions out there about what a woman should weigh or what size she should be that I…

This roller coaster thread looked like fun, so I will jump on... As far as looks, (partially shallow) I say face (especially eyes) and a nice chest. To me though, I beautiful face trumps everything else in the looks department. (small / large butt, same for breasts, also weight) If someone were super obese or dangerously…

Drink a jug of prune juice along with some spicy hot wings. That should clear things out quickly...

Rygar and Gauntlet were great too.

Donkey Kong, Galaga, Paperboy and Crossbow.

^^^^^ This I am currently in an awesome marriage of almost 10 years. When I met my wife, I was 31 and she was 27. She had a 3 year old son and I had no kids. The first month almost that we talked, she would not even tell me his name because she said that as she grew more comfortable with me and got a feeling that the…

Moved from VA to NC, joined Match, met my wife within the first month. We talked for several weeks, dated for a few months, got engaged and married after being together just over a year. Together almost 10 years now and married almost 9. 2 awesome kids. If it works for you, do it and don't be ashamed. Without the net I…

Where at in Va? I am from Va but now in NC. Back home to visit all the time though.

Get a good pedometer and measure / input your stride, and weight. I use that for mine but also cross check what I did with a reputable calorie burning calculator to make sure it is close. Then I go with the one that is lower so I don't overestimate my burn.

I guess it was at least a good thing that he was up front about it but what a *kitten* for doing that kind of thing to begin with. Here is the thing, it is a normal thing to find others attractive, even if you are in a relationship. However, it does not mean you have to cheat. I always say there is no way I would cheat on…

Pretty girl before and after. Great that you are getting healthier. I am going to do my best to get there this year. Continued success!!

The genie's lamp from Aladdin. Then I would wish for cash and love potion #8. One wish left...

Do it! I just did it and about to post tonight. I lost 17 lb last year in about 4 months and reset my ticker and took new pics for this year. It will be a great motivator and measuring tool when the scale does not show the refected effort all the time. Feel free to add me also.

4 months in eh... not a good turn of events. Some say that words are just that and they don't hurt or matter, but from what you are saying they clearly do. Even if not meant fully, once out there - they are always there. Talk to him about this seriously. It needs to get nipped in the bud now and classified as…

This is the stuff I need to keep seeing. Can you share what you did and when? Cardio, weights and diet. I am doing the cardio and trying to work in the weights. The eating is what is really tricky for me. What were you eating and # of calories? You started at 370 and I started at 348 so we were pretty close. Thanks and…

Had about 100 when I started and now just about 80 to go. Anyone needing support feel free to add me. I am on almost every day.

Followed. and mine is Packman1016

This. He may be worried if you lose you will find another or he could just like bigger women. I know I do but would support my wife no matter what weight she wanted to be unless it was unhealthy.

With my first wife, over a year - but I was also a senior in high school. With wife # 2 (good call on #1 eh??) It was about 2 weeks. We met online and have been together now almost 10 years.

^^^^^^ This. I have dated what I would consider a normal amount before getting married almost 9 years ago (2nd marriage), and I only really dated 2 women that I would consider a normal size or size that "society" would not consider overweight. They were 5'2 / 130 and 5'7 / 140. The firat one also got up to close to 200…