tayleigh4 Member

That is amazing! You deserve a man who LOVES showing you off and who loves you no matter what! ;)

That has crossed my mind too, it really didn't have to go down like that, but you know how some men are..

It is uncomfortable, I'm proud of you for losing the weight :)

It does suck, but you're right. I am so motivated right now. I will find better ;) and I won't ever date him again, he doesn't deserve me. Thank you btw :)

Wow..

Same with my ex! Like he would support me when I needed support, but he would let me have Blizzards from DQ and 2 Coffee Coolattas a day from Dunkin' Donuts. I really don't know his real reason, maybe it's the weight, maybe not, but what I do know is that I can't wait to become a healthier me. I deserve so much better and…

Aw I'm so sorry he was such a prick. You don't deserve that, you're beautiful and deserve a guy who will remind you everyday how beautiful you are!! Your weight loss is great, keep working hard and never give up! I agree, if I were still with him I would be 192.2 pounds at my heaviest weight. Thank you for your support ;)

Your joke was so funny I forgot to laugh.

Haha I know right. And yep, I've worked my *kitten* off at the gym.

Haha you're awesome. And your husband seems sweet and supportive and loving. I agree with you, and I think the answer is C ;) thank you love.

Trust me, I completely understand that. I could NEVER date someone I was not attracted to. However, I wouldn't lead them on for 7 months "hoping" one day I would be attracted to them. You're either attracted or not at the beginning. I totally get that you need attraction.

This was a wake up call to me also! I'm so glad your life is great :)

That is most likely the case. He did throw many jabs at me.

You are beautiful :) and I'm sure your husband is an amazing guy. I do! And I will find him one day, in the meantime, I'm working on myself :)

Yeah, he also told me that our sex was a 4/10 and it would be better if I was skinny. Lol.

Thank you so much, your story is so sweet. You will have an amazing rest of your life with your wonderful husband :) he did do me a favor, I'm becoming a better me every single day! :)

That is amazing, good for you! You don't deserve that at all. You're gorgeous. Never let yourself be treated like that again.

I agree. I wish he would've ended it with me so much earlier. And wow, that is TERRIBLE. So sad to hear that, you are beautiful. He is not a good man. I'm so happy that you're taking back control of your life. You deserve the WORLD. I hope you realize how amazing you are! Good luck to you too! Xo.

You tell me. Lol.

I'm starting to realize that, thanks girl. You look great :)

I totally agree, he could have just been nice about it. The way he said it to me was so mean and unnecessary. That is so sweet how your husband loves you for you, you ARE beautiful. You did get very lucky, you deserve to hear those words everyday :) I can't wait until the day he says he made a mistake. No honey, I did! ;)

Love this! Thank you for the encouragement. I would never lose weight for him, I'm doing this for myself :) but I know damn well when I'm at my goal he will want me back. Too bad.

He is no doubt a bully! I am. I deserve so much better.

Thank you! I definitely don't. I deserve someone who loves me for exactly who I am. Same goes for you :)

I thought the same thing myself! Like why date someone if you're not attracted to them in the first place? He clearly has problems. I have been doing so well with my mental & physical health. Thank you so much. 47 pounds, that's amazing!! Keep up your good work!!

I totally agree!! Xo.

Thank you EVERYONE for your kind words. And thank you to the sarcastic *kitten*.

Good luck on your journey ;* I'm new to the community message boards. They seem mostly encouraging, it's nice to see that people are in the same boat as you & they are working towards goals just like you :)