dalana84 Member

Congratulations! That is awesome :smile:

@AndreaNickole - love your hair and style

I am always inspired by Eleanor Roosevelt quotes, these are just a few of my favorites: “You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must…

My face, which is completely fine with me since I had an "oops" haircut and it looks much better now that my face is slimming :smile:

@liftbig going with the profile pic definitely the hair :happy:

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Somewhere along the line after 2 babies my social life and hottness expired ....... I too could go for those nights I couldn't remember *sigh* ive become "one of those" boring moms.

I'm working on it! I'm making quite a few changes and trying to be a better person all around!

"When you ask the opinions of absolute strangers." @syncerepassion I don't see anything wrong with asking opinions from anyone, I'm walking away from this thread having learned some things and meeting some pretty strong and amazing people. I certainly didn't ask here before ever bringing it up to him, lol, this was…

I noticed they don't have a "punch in the face" smiley anywhere ..... :laugh: jk!

I have taken a lot in from the responses this thread has attracted. They all make sense, but only some feel right for me. I'm not going to leave him out of a decision about what to do with the relationship because for quite a few reasons, we need to make it together. I'm not able to say that I think once we talk things…

Thank you for this. I think I will walk away having taken the most from your post.

True but I need to be in a healthy and positive state of mind for them, and so does he. I don't want them to grow up in a house full of anger and stress.

I think I worry about his answer ...........

I guess you could be right, sometimes I'll sit and think about how I'll do things on my own but every time I do I can't really imagine it. I do still have love for him, a lot of it and I miss the days when I confided in him and went to him for comfort. That is what keeps me hanging on, hoping that all I have to do is find…

We're both very strong minded and opinionated but don't think either of us like arguing. We've both been on the voicing end of "I hate arguing like this, it has to stop" so I'm not so sure its that he enjoys it, just that neither one of us really backs down

First, thank you to everyone that's responded so far. I'm taking the time to read each of them, I haven't abandoned my own topic! I just recently thought about relationship counseling and have looked into it a little bit, plan to some more. The arguing and tension breaks my heart because I miss what we used to have and…

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You look kind and easy going @ Sam lol

Bump Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Hoping for a safe return.

Who: Doesn't work by choice/lacks work ethic Has lost their license or just won't get it Doesn't have a bank account Those are my absolute no's that I've added to the list from my own immature stupid choices in guys. Two of them had these exact same things in common, sadly I didn't learn the 1st time but luckily never had…

I just got 4 numbers on NJ lotto pick six and was off by 1 on the other two :sad: :explode: I may have been halfway into a victory dance ...........

Bugatti - Brindle pitty boy & Aston - Fawn itty, bitty, pitty girl :heart: :heart:

Awesome transformation, you look great!

Bump before/after & progress pics motivate me so much to become a success story, I love seeing new threads pop up, there are always new posters with amazing results!

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I'm in, my first challenge :) I haven't weighed in since last week so I'll use last weight as SW and tweak it later! SW: 186 GW: 166

I actually just thought about feeling hungry the other day! I forgot to bring lunch to work and wasn't able to go grab it. I ended up feeling almost sick I was so hungry. My hands were shaky and it was just awful. I remember, before I started my recovery, striving to feel that way! I could not wait to get out of work and…

You are truly an inspiration and so brave for telling your story. After high school I started to purge. It didn't matter if I ate a donut or a salad I would eat it and purge it. I surfed the web for hours a night for "tips on how to do it right". My throat was always sore from acid from bile, my hair came out in clumps, my…

Awesome progress & before and afters! I totally needed this motivation today! I can't wait to be able to post some pics of my own, its only a matter of time ... and work :tongue: