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I'm 248-ish? (not weighing this month!) right now...started at 368 (*GASP* *sob*). Right now I just want to get back down to 165-170 - it was the last time I even felt like I didn't loathe myself. =/ I welcome any adds. ;)

Well it's not like it's just that 20 lbs...he's only about 5'7, 5'8" on a good day and he's nearly 300 lbs now. He's a big guy in general, but he was about 240 when we got married and a lot of it's been his job changed where he's not doing anything active really anymore and he started living on RockStars and 1 lb burritos…

I'm sure somehow this is my fault with them - But I think it's more that they think I'm forcing HIM. Anytime he changes how he's done something since we've been married, it's been because I forced him somehow. Which has actually been wrong every time. Anything at all he's changed, has been 100% of his own accord. I've…

To address some of what you guys have mentioned.... Yes, most the social situations for the family revolve around food. Specifically constantly eating out. However, in the last year I've gotten more vocal about where we go because I can't eat most places. Usually a soup and salad place or steakhouse is the best for me. And…

I know he'll do well in this...he's got so much less than me to lose and I really think if he keeps up what he's trying to do and incorporates exercise in at his pace, I think he's going to lose what he needs to faster than he realizes. I've just been so irked since all this last night. To me, it's one thing if you're…

I think I gained, give or take, 10. =/ I had some good days...and then I had some really really bad days. But, I've lost 4 of it so far!

Mine is the excess skin as well. But it's not just a fear, it's a fact. Being over 200 lbs overweight, it's inevitable. It's something that for some reason a few months ago started bothering me and threw me off my eating for a while... =/ But in the end, I know it's better to have skin where the fat was than the fat....

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There's so many things... *I was tired of not being able to fit in a booth at a restaurant and having to always get a table...and then I was always scared of breaking the chairs because at over 350 lbs, a chair def gives a squeak when you sit down!! *I literally couldn't hardly buckle my seatbelt in the car any…

I know it's hard not to - but don't stress about it. That stress and self loathing (at least for me) can just lead to more of the random eating! Just tell yourself it's okay, you're human and make tomorrow better. The fact is, I don't think there's ONE single person trying to live their life healthier that hasn't or won't…

You can DO THIS!!! I know exactly how you feel though - I've been dealing with the SAME thing. It's hard...but this is just part of the journey and trust me, I know you're not alone in this hump! Just keep pushing....I believe you can and WILL get past this and keep going! :)

<--- I resemble a South Park character. lol I have no idea. I look like no one...barely even my own family! Oh I know! I look a lot like this person who used to weigh 140 lbs more, but now doesn't... lol. Yeah, I totally resemble that fat girl with the same name as me. ;)

I think I'm fairly okay in photos...mostly because I look better in them than I do in real life. lol. And I accredit that to the fact that I'm a photographer and know all the "not fat" angles to take photos and how to make my skin look perfect. hehe

Wow, mine's not nearly as bad as any of these! lol Mine was a set up blind date sort of thing....he picks me up and we're going to go into town (I lived about 30 minutes drive from the nearest "Big" town, in a small farming community) to watch the fireworks and get something to eat, it's 4th of July, should be fun. Well he…

Mine wasn't accurate when I got mine...lol. But NOW, it is! In fact, now it's 15 lbs over!

Start getting healthy NOW!! It's easier to lose 50 lbs overall now, than wait until you're 26 and have to lose over 200. =P Make your Dad eat and do things healthier as well and stress less....it might turn his path away from finding Cancer in 5 years and passing away from it. =( Embrace your interest in Photography,…

For me - it's breads. I've dramatically cut down my breads, almost totally on white breads...but I love them. That's the one thing I see and just CRAVE and want!! I LOVE a plate of fresh biscuits with gravy or just with butter and jam... French bread dipped in soup...Banana bread....anything bread. *sigh*

So far, with a few exceptions...I'd say I love everything everyone else has listed. lol. My things - Mushrooms (taste like dirt to me) Pork...Just eating pigs grosses me out, lol Fish. Any fish any shellfish. I don't like the smell, texture, taste...anything. I can choke down some tuna on occasion or some pollock...but…

Mine is a local place called Phillys. Awesome Philly Cheesesteak Sandwiches....Homemade Beer Battered onion rings...Homemade funnel cake batter for the cakes. It's terribly unhealthy, but incredibly delicious. A few times a year I have to give in and go have some. ;)

Um, me!! Trust me, no one was force feeding me at anytime during my weight gain. In fact everyone stayed away from me when I was eating, probably for fear of losing an arm or something while I was shoving everything in my mouth. haha. Yeah...lots of situations happened that I compensated for by eating...but it was never…

I'm gonna take a stab and say Fajitas, no tortillas. That's what I personally usually go for myself. Taco salads are usually fairly big, and can have a lot of extras in them ya know? For me the grilled veggies and meat with some guacamole is usually what I do. Which is great because fajitas are actually my fave mex thing…

I refuse to keep anything too big around "just in case" - I used to do that, and all it did was give me wiggle room to fatten back up!! I've kept the biggest pair of pants I owned, just for comparison sake once I get to my goal! Everything else, heads to Goodwill. I remember being my heaviest and not being able to find…

My Dad ate this on crackers...I love it too. lol I love anything dipped in ranch...Fries, Onion Rings, chicken...anything. I used to love to make peanut butter and honey sandwiches and put Lays potato chips on it. I dip my fries also, if I don't have Ranch...in mayo and ketchup mixed together. I put mayo on hotdogs as…

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I don't know that mine have stopped, but that I've become more in control over them. I do believe they come in waves for me though. I'm not sure you can ever rid yourself of them, personally. I'll have a few months where I'm fine. I really don't care that much that hubby is eating a cheeseburger next to me, while I'm…

Emotional eating got me where I've been, so it's a big issue for me. =/ I just try throw myself into something else to do...crafts, exercise, getting on the computer. ANYTHING. I've tried to phase out doing it, but I also found getting some good, soft crushed ice that wasn't total h*ll on my teeth and munching on it,…