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Amazing !!!!

great work ! I needed this inpiration!

I'm ok ..it hurts but I'm thankful to have found out about this whole thing now ..rather than later. I'm spending time with friends , i had my doubts about marrying before i found those texts ..the truth came out at the right time.

Update : talk to the girl ..she is way older than me ..she has known him for years and she has been lying to her too. so it's so over...im glad i found out before getting married . He is acting way to shady and i know alll i need to know. thank you all .. im ok..single and available hooray! hahaha

we talk ..he had known her from way before and it was wrong to keep in touch with her. i asked him more and he started getting aggravated . Then fine you cant trust ..i want nothing with you ..and he waited for my reaction. I was said this was not my fault and if that girl felt she could freely send him texts like that .it…

i do feel sick to my stomach..was only able to sleep for 2 hours. i have contacted a friend and asked to be picked up sometime today. i have to talk tol him in an hour when his daughter leaves. all hell will break loose. thanks to all of your advice..

Thank you all for your time. I just talked to my sister and she had her doubt that it would workout . I´m 32 years old and I love myself enough to walk away. it will be hard...but hey i may just lose some weigh right...ughhh..ok not funny..im just feeling weird.:sick: Thank you guys and ladies ...

moving overseas means that for a few months we will be apart ...i can already feel my heart wondering ..is he cheating on me` would he do that to me again... I love myself more than that ...that´s not way to live. maybe i dont love him as much. he will have on chance explain..either way im out of the house ..if he really…

i have always believed that trust and privacy is important in an relacionship. tonight..one second i was having a laughter attack ...the room was dark..he was falling asleep..i reach out to where the phone were and once i got to the den i threw it on the couch and noticed it was his not mine. grabbed it looked at the time…

He just came to the study calling me sweet names like nothing happen. I know him and I know he is going to act like nothing is has happend ...and he will try to make it seem that im exageratting . Make me doubt myself and make me dizzy with guilt. He is a smart man and will totally try to play it cool to try to break me.…

i sent her a message but she did not reply ..he was asleep and i could´t help it ..i had to face him. If i had pacience i would have just watched him for a few days and monitor his cell. too late now..it´s over ...thank you alll of you ..! thank you

I agree she doesn´t owe me an explanation..it´s him ..who is supposed to love me. I just want to watch what he does if we call her . it´s his fault for letting it come to close.

I called her and she didn´t pick up while he was in front of me . we couldn´t argue bc his teenage daughter was in the living room. i saw his lie in his eyes...and now all that we had planned is crushing down..and i bet he cant sleep..and im here on the computer trying to escape this bitter moment. aawwww.. i will be ok.

thank you :cry: really thank you. I know I rather be along than settle with someone who doesn´t think im good enough to be faithful too. in a way i feel like a weigh lifted of my shoulders..for I had doubts about the whole thing and didn´t want to b th one to quit it. i know my mom will be sad bc she knew i truly believed…

thanks ... There is a 6th sense ..the other day he chose to wear a polo shirt that he wears to nice places only. and wore too much cologne..it did tickle my sense. seems just seem to be pointing to that . and other facts that are just wrong. my family is going to be crushed .

its really weird how it happend. but something pushed me to do it. im just numb..and in a way thankful it happened now.

thank you :cry: i choose to trust and give myself a chance again. Latelly i was feeling so much pressure and doubting this engagement ...i prayed for a sigh..and i got it ..better now than getting married than moving overseas .

that´s what i said to him. he deleted text he send to her.. and those were there cuz he was falling asleep. Im not into checking cells ...igrabbed it thinking it was mine and notice something unsual.

We are meant to be getting married at the end of the month..he has two daughter..and then we are to arrange visas to move to australia...I don´t think I can be with him anymore...I´m risking too much. marrying a cheater..i rather we alone.. I should be crying ut im not ..im just shocked . I wrote down her phone number and…

You say you weigh 222? You don´t look like you do ..what was you starting weigh

Wow ! you are right regrets are much harder than workouts. You are makintg it happen congrats !

wow ..u lookgreat !

you look great ! congrats !

Dear Fiance .. I´m not a nice looking piece of furniture that loves to stay home bored ! so TAKE ME OUT ! Love ME

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Your convictions are important. It sounds like you do want to go but in a way you know you shouldn't. If you really really really don't want to go ...don't , If you go and feel uncomfortable and have a terrible time you may resent her for it .

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Sometimes I'm a privacy freak ..and some I let everything hang loose. The Dairy once was public now it;s private. no big deal