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I've been poisoning myself for years. Oh the tragedy!!! OP: When I drink socially I like to do vodka and diet drinks. One of my favorites is Vodka and Diet Cherry 7up, especially in the summer time. Now that it's colder I like a warmer drink and will occasionally have Fireball with Diet Coke. Usually I just drink beer…

I don't have time to take selfies at the gym. Maybe I'm doing it wrong.

I can understand this. Not everyone is the same. Perhaps at the beginning of your posts it would be helpful if you told people ahead of time that you do not benefit from tough love and want only positive cheery answers otherwise you may become enraged and that it is counterproductive to your progress.

I will be working most of the day Thanksgiving and then overnight Thanksgiving night so I won't be able to do the family dinner this year. I may make myself a turkey sandwich before a nap that day just to be festive. This week at work we did a pitch in which means copious amounts of leftovers all week and I am…

Agreed. I also don't understand why so many people seem to think that internet strangers have the ability to change their behaviors and thought processes. You can't change anyone but yourself and you have to be willing and want that change and those results for that to happen. Other people can't do that for you.

Get up at 4:30 and do some sort of work out. Prep dinners for the week on Sunday and work out when you get home from work instead of trying to find something then. Join a gym that has a daycare center and utilize it. There are workouts that you can do that include your baby. You can find these with a simple Google search.…

I have had no problem achieving my goals while drinking pretty regularly. If it fits in your calorie goals you should still be able to lose.

Dude, you are so screwed. You are now automatically addicted to the additives and will be propositioning people for money to cover your Mac sauce addiction before too long.

My kids get pepperoni and sausage and I get whatever sounds good that night and try to not eat the whole thing at once. It works out well. Usually.

Well if your profile pic is a current one...

I don't think it has anything at all to do with race or sexual exploitation. I think it is about an attention monger and marketing.

I am not a big fan of people asking how much weight I have lost or how much I weigh, mostly because I was taught it was rude to ask. It's not so much that I care to share the information so I answer anyways. I don't get "how have you done it?" too often. I think mostly because the ones asking are co-workers and they have…

Sounds like a personal problem to me. Maybe you should consider cutting back on the amount you're eating rather than blaming the food and calling it names.

300 Calories 18g protein 29g carbs 12g fat Looks okay to me.

Depends on the situation. Why did you only get three hours of sleep? Part of changing my lifestyle included making sure I get enough rest to let my body recover. If it was just that you slept like crap, stop making excuses, get up and go work out. Also, make sure that you have an accurate calorie goal and that you aren't…

Find a way for him to channel his obvious genius for a good cause. Some sort of charity work maybe. Your kid sounds great!

I like a hairy chest to play with while lying in bed.

My stamina and strength have increased. Unfortunately I never get to put them to use for sex, lol.

You know what I like? A guy with confidence and a good personality. There is a pretty good chance you are being rejected for completely internal reasons.

Is the advice good advice or is it just disingenuous attempts at conversation? I think this is important in deciding a way to handle the situation. I have had 1 person ever comment on my lifting at my gym. He did it one time and has never said anything ever again after that.

Two months ago-ish

You can always leave your bra on. Frankly, if you are already in the moment I seriously hope you aren't focusing on your negative body issues and I doubt the other person would care near as much as you think.

I have had/breastfed three kids. There are more important things in life. Besides:

If you use correct form and don't automatically assume you can pick up a car you will not hurt yourself with deadlifts. If you are scared of starting with the bar there is nothing wrong with using dumbbells. Just remember though, if you have ever picked up a child you have probably lifted over 30 lbs. Those 5lb weights…

Definitely having a plan/routine ready to go will make it much better. You should do your research including form, find something that might work for you, print it off and bring it with you so that you will have it in front of you. As far as the judging looks, I doubt they are really being judgmental. You are a new face…

That's really only a question you can answer. I have seen far heavier girls wearing bikinis and completely rocking them and I have seen slimmer girls wearing bikinis and looking very uncomfortable. It's how you feel about being out in public half naked that's important and if you have to ask other people's opinions, that…

I have a second grader who is 7 and a third grader who is 9. The second grader doesn't usually have a lot of homework, just spelling word review and once a month a project that maybe takes 20 minutes or so a few days a week. His teacher also wants them reading half an hour a night, but I don't really consider that…

Are you looking for help eating the Mexican food? Because I'm totally down. Seriously, though. Enjoy lunch with your cousin and log it as best you can. It's just one meal.

I have never sees any guys at the pool in speedos or tight shorts that have a decent physique. It's always the older fellas who have let themselves go.