MsMe79

I get a whole lot "oh you don't want to loose too much weight" or "you can't get as skinny as your sister" which first makes me snap and then makes me more determined. they are jealous, my sisters are jealous and maybe a little scared cause finally I won't be the "fat" sister anymore and well people might pay attention to…

When I left my ex-husband and realised that because of him I'd gained 50kgs (over years) and I looked in the mirror one day and saw him and what he did to me, so I admitted I was fat and it's been a long journey and still a long way to go, but I want to see the skinny me and let me new fantastic supporting husband enjoy…

I love these threads that give me inspiration and make me keep at it. You've done an amazing job, so proud of you and I don't even know you! :smile: Congrats

Awww my husband is the same. Some people can see that as a negative, but it depends on your relationship and how you take things each other say and obviously you're like me, and took that in the way it was meant. My husband is always saying things like "I can't keep my hands of you now, it's just gonna increase, which I…

I didn't mean that in a bad way, just so you know, and hoping you took it in the jest it was written :smile: We've discussed it, and the way I'm putting up a chart on our fridge so I can track it, so he will see it, but we won't really "talk" about my weight as I'm not that comfortable but I also know, and he told me again…

Fantastic, well done

Yes, I've been divorced for a while, but I gained ALL my weight when I was married to my ex-husband, he took away my self esteem and respect for myself. I woke up and realised that I was over that side of my life, I'm now married to the man of my dreams and the only thing that reminds me of my old life is my weight and I…

I'm starting with 147lbs (67kgs)!!! So it's a long road for me

Hmmmmm baby steps I'm finding is helping the most. If you over do it, you'll give up or find it too hard (well that is me anyway) Good luck with it all!! Feel free to add me if you like

Wow, amazing and congratulations! I can't wait to start posting before/after shots! Inspiring, thankyou

Awww aren't men just so stupid sometimes!!! :laugh: I think I need to tell him for me, as I'm kind of like you, he is a real sweet tooth and need him to not talk about sweet stuff, as until I met him I never ate sweets after dinner!! But you're right, I do need him to make sure he is making an effort, even though he is…

Thanks Jen... I love him dearly, and I for me, maybe to hit the bottom so to speak I need to be honest with him. He's never had a weight problem so doesn't truely understand which is why I joined here to get that support that he just doesn't know how to give which of course isn't his fault. arrggghhhh I think I will tell…

I love traveling!! Trying to convince my husband to go to Phuket for our 1 year anniversary... I'm not succeeding :(

My profile pic is of my pug when he was a baby... he has passed away and I can't wait to get 2 new ones... just gotta wait till we know what's happening with my husbands work. I love pugs!!!

Hmmm I don't know, I actually found when I did shift work and worked nightshift that I ate less and hardly ate during the day due to my horrible sleeping pattern... saying that however I did drink a lot of coffee which isn't good for you in the quantities I was drinking it. I don't know the answer or the science behind…

Happy birthday lovely xx I hope you have a wonderful day and everything you want :)

Wow, what a great response, everyone is just lovely! I've had a look around the site and my gosh ,the recipes page is great!! Definitely a great source of information. i know this time I will be successful and this is what I want and now with the help and encouragement from you all, will make it even better :)

Looks so yummy I am going to cook that!!