The_1_Who_Knocks Member

I don't even know what the classic rock era is considered to be now. I hear songs from the mid to late 90s on classic rock stations sometimes now.

So bizarre to me that so many bands were mentioned without the Rolling Stones being mentioned. Oh well, they have been now.

Why thank you.

One Step Up - Bruce Springsteen

Is that a remake of the REM song?

And I crush "Clocks" at karaoke too. A young Julianne Moore.

Aaron Paul a little.

I was just bummed because it was a pretty fun thread.

The other day somebody made a thread about her boyfriends sword and people had a little bit of fun with it, and then the admins here shut down the thread because there is apparently a rule against "sexual innuendo". I thought it was pretty funny that they have that rul and that they picked that thread to enforce it. They'd…

Reflective insightful bipolar trainwreck If I'm being honest.

My current favorite workout song is Gutless by Hole, but it is only 2:40 long so I have to work fast.

I just think that many people are not equipped to handle a diet that depends on portion control every day. I am one of those people. I love pizza, it is my favorite food in the world. I eat it about once every 10 - 14 days. And I eat a TON of it when I do. If I tried to eat pizza 2 or 3 times a week and control my portions…

There is a lot of black and white with this crowd.

I don't think your guy's problems are sexual addiction or a problem with your sex life or anything like that. I think the fact that he is surfing that particular web site talking to women, but apparently not meeting them, is fulfilling a need for attention. For validation. For self esteem. I think he has some issues. If…

I don't presume to know anything about you. Just thought it was funny.

Absolutely stunning that someone with Ron Jeremy as their profile picture would feel this way.

I don't agree with this. I think the biggest reason men cheat is they are insecure and need validation as a man.

People have the ability to reflect on their lives and improve. I truly believe that. Is it a small percentage of men that actually do that? Maybe. It's not impossible.

If you want to save your marriage then you need to confront him about it and get into some marriage counseling pronto. He needs to understand how his actions are impacting you. He needs to take stock of what it will costs him an re-evaluate who he wants to be as a man. I've been there. At the very least this is gateway…

I think this is a great post, and the people who spout this "eat whatever you want but keep your calorie deficit" are really setting people up for failure badly. When I started eating lots of skinless chicken breasts, oatmeal, eggs, tuna, and salad, all which I enjoy, I found that I didn't have cravings nearly as often. If…

It sounds like you are doing all the right things already. I don't know that I have anything to add. I guess the only thing I would say is that if you feel like you are making a permanent lifestyle change, there is no reason to even have that goal weight, and you are going to cruise right by that 195 anyway if you continue…

As long as you eventually hit a new weight it doesn't matter at all. I never record my weight until I hit a new low.

Mind Eraser

I wonder if it has occurred to anybody that is calling the article nonsense that the article is in fact about nutrition, and not solely about weight loss.

I think the point of the article was this, and I know that it is true for me. If you eat healthy, it is very difficult to overeat.

The article isn't taking on calorie counting, it's taking on the mindset of people who think that calories are the only thing that matters. Eating junk just isn't very good for you, even if you only eat a little bit of it.

And besides that, this thread isn't really about people who have been married to each other 20+ years.

I'm sorry to hear about your husband's condition, I am sure that is tough. Congratulations on your strong love for one another. I've also been married over 20 years, my wife and I celebrated our 21st anniversary just yesterday. If my wife found me just as physically attractive 91 pounds ago as she finds me now, well,…

You forgot righteous indignation and sanctimony too.

LOL at least I am honest though right. That has to count for something.