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Hey, at least you didn't wait until you were 51! lol... every decade gets that much harder.... You're AMAZING!!! :flowerforyou:

I agree with you. (Although I've never been skinny by any means, so I have no idea how that feels) I would be much more hurt by "friends" and family comments than from strangers as well. Totally agree that BOTH are unacceptable. And you should be proud... You're awesome! Never hate the girl in the mirror, please.... I'm…

I'm curious though...... you've obviously lost a lot of weight according to your ticker.... didn't you get just as many comments or more when you were overweight?? And although none of these comments are acceptable, I'm thinking surely they were from "friends" or family, not random strangers. NO body shaming is okay, no…

Awesome. :flowerforyou:

Since I don't know the "background story" on this, I'll just say a few things.... I've found it best not to necessarily mention or talk a lot about what you are or are not eating.... (people don't understand, they jump to conclusions, and they certainly don't want to know how many calories, fat grams, etc. are in what…

I love food porn!! @Acg67.... I want you for my very own... :wink:

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Amen...the world is their ashtray, you know! :grumble:

In for great *kitten*!! Oh, wait.... was that a different thread? :flowerforyou:

Probably.... strangely enough, for some people, just being friendly is taken as a "sign" that you're interested. You did absolutely nothing that you or I would consider flirting in any way, and maybe he didn't take it that way either, he just didn't know what else to say after that. When I lived in Phoenix I couldn't even…

Awesome Job!! Thank you for sharing!! :flowerforyou:

In for all of ^this.... :glasses:

I missed that thread.... somebody fill me in please?

In mid-February....I'm 51....still have a long way to go to reach my goal, but I'm -48lbs lost at this point. :smile:

The only dessert that tempted me.... :flowerforyou:

SO much ^this!!

^This... yum!!

Actually looks good to me.... :smile:

@solar.... definitely

I actually read exactly what you wrote, so..... I'm just going to say "I get it". I remember that feeling. I've never smoked, but dealt with the weight thing for years of my life. Lost your "oomph" is a good way to put it. Getting tired just thinking about the road ahead is a good way to put it. And although like you, I…

When I first signed up I put in my starting weight and everytime I do a "check-in", it updates itself. I've actually lost more than what mine shows, but I'm not sure if you can just update it another way, so I just leave it like it is. :flowerforyou:

^You.... I like you.... :flowerforyou:

To me, it's all about the individual as a whole. I was previously married to a body builder who is still winning in his class competition at age 60, and then to a man whose belly sometimes looked as if he were 7 months pregnant. The body builder and I "grew apart" and didn't have sex for years. The guy with the belly, I…

^This

not even with her, and that says a lot.... LOL

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stacking = fun.... :wink:

Yes! :wink:

Your neighbors must love you....

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