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He's not asking me out... He's just inviting me to social events with his other friends. He's never been like "Lets go get dinner just us." That time he wanted to do something during the weekend did turn out to be just another friend's hangout. My problem was that I didn't know at the time if he was trying to have it mean…

But I don't wannnnna. I feel like it's the guy's job. I know it's 2019... but it's my choice. Just like it's his choice to wait for me to make the move.... and if I don't he's within his right to move on. I prefer a guy who pursues.

YAS! Exactly.

Um. Why am I the one keeping him on the line? Is he not keeping me on the line by continuing to call and not asking me out? I friendzoned him for my own mind's sake. It doesn't look any different than what we were doing before to him. I don't call him "bro" or talk about farts with him.

:D :D Okay... so none... but there is one other guy who texts me on a regular basis and is just a friend.

Are you someone else's husband? Other people's husbands don't make good "friends."

I'm just saying... I'm not shutting him down. He wouldn't continue calling if I did. Just because I didn't go to certain events with him doesn't mean I squashed whatever was there. We still hung out other times. And him calling doesn't automatically equate to him being interested in more than friendship. I talk to many of…

I talked to him on the phone the other night for TWO hours and he called at like 9:20 when I was ready for bed... how is that pushing him away? If he were interested, he would be like "Hey girl. I like you."

Same! I generally follow this rule... but this one got murky. But... was still true in the end.

Oh yeah.. and who's being sarcastic? This second guy is definitely in love with me!

The signals were actually unclear though. Even you thought he was 100% interested....but nope. He's just a friendly guy.

RIGHT?! "spaced out" pffft. He might as well put a ring on my finger with lines like that.

But you didn't hear HOW he said it. He practically whispered it... which maybe means he was hoping I would get a little closer so I could hear him.

Honey, minced garlic and soy sauce! I let it marinate for like an hour... sprinkle some salt and pepper and grill it. It's amazingly flavorful with like zero effort. Some people have suggested swapping soy sauce for liquid aminos, if you don't like the idea of seasoning with soy sauce... but I haven't tried it.

I used it like crazy when I lived abroad. A lot of my friends there used it to rather than having to pay for texting/calling.

I have this guy.... he accidentally made eye contact with me once.... When I stared back into his eyes.... he acted like he woke from up from a trance. Then he said the most *possibly* romantic thing... "Oh sorry, I spaced out." Then he quickly walked away. Does that mean he was so enamored with me that he was daydreaming…

I know... I do want to get to a place where I don't have to track. I've been paying attention to when I'm actually hungry and stopping when I'm satisfied. Some days I do it reallly welll and it's encouraging... other days... not so much. Honestly though, even when I count calories, I push the limits sometimes saying "This…

Right? I think it's just so doable. Already, just paying more attention to my actions and thinking them through have help me to prepare for the times that I typically overeat. When I first get home to decompress, I want to chill out and eat. And if I eat something that lingers on my mouth (like spices or something) then I…

:D :D :D

Sorry it's not a quick "k" text message. Annnnd no worries... this mystery has been solved and is an oldish thread. Update for those still hoping for a different outcome: We are still just friends and now that I've completely friend-zoned him... it's such a sweet friendship! We chat weekly with no expectations and he…

Oh.. ha. You should coin that and make a podcast out of it lol.

Thanks for the recommendation! I'll check it out! I can definitely see holes in some areas but maybe I missed the posts about healthy food? Shes always talking about eating what you want, just planning for it. That's what I liked about it was that she doesn't care what you do (keto, ww, whatever) as long as you put it on…

I think that the practical tips and mental is what I love about it. I have never considered myself an emotional eater... I thought you had to be crying with a tub of ice cream to be that way to be considered emotional. But I realized from listening to her and paying more attention that I eat to decompress alot. So after…

Praline is my fave! I totally planned to be reasonable with it-- I just got a plain one. It's funny because I've lived in Texas for the past 3 years and we didn't have them there... so this is the first year in a while and I'm remembering how they are everywhere! At work, friends houses, church gatherings.. everywhere.

Followed! Awesome Job!

I often think... "whenever I lose this weight... it's all over for you hoes. "

Come on, people! It's so so goooood!

Everyday I have about 300 calories allotted to sweets. I was buying the snack-sized candy but I noticed that I kept saying "what's another 80 calories?" and going over. So I bought full-sized candy, because I can't rationalize "What's another 210 calories?" so easily. But I still have 1 a day.

Honestly, the poor guy has probably seen you jump on the wagon and fall off a million times, if you're anything like me. Last month, you were probably delighted with the Dr. Peppers and other things. I think that it takes a long time for our loved ones to see changes in our lives and act. Unless your husband is just the…

Some people say they find WW more sustainable because you don't have to log everything. I JUST tried it and hated it because their system is all about low-fat everything. Some things that are low calorie are high in points just because they don't want you eating it. I would get frustrated because one higher fat meal that I…