catherine4211 Member

That is a great story!!! I met my ex-husband by walking up to him and introducing myself.

IDK - I really miss bird #1. But thanks....

What is the outfit??? How sexy? I know you wear dresses so is it a dress?

He is 34 and has been married 12 or so years.

Oh lord - you almost got me D.............

I knew you'd make me feel better - thanks!!!

Thanks!!

Well yea but do you think I'm trying too hard just by asking?

Happy Birthday!!!

You want a person to find a babysitter for a SICK kid? Really? SICK? Vomiting?? Thank god you don't want to date anyone with kids - she'd dump your *kitten* in a heartbeat.

Friday after work I had a hair appointment. Went home and caught up on Big Brother. Saturday I woke up and enjoyed a walk with Daisy (my dog). Had lunch with my non-boyfriend boyfriend. That night I worked a beer booth at X-Fest (a big outdoor concert). That ended up being fun - people watching is always fun. Yesterday I…

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Friday night I went to Costco with my non-boyfriend boyfriend. We had a great time - he had never been there. Went back to his house and ate dinner and then watched a movie. Saturday night I went out with some friends from work. Had fun but the most fun was going back to my non-boyfriend boyfriends house afterwards. He…

And no way am I shaving my legs everyday.

Obviously this won't work for me. I don't have stairs to go down :(

My two cents - when I was married I despised anything and everything my husband did because I simply grew to despise him. Now since I've been divoreced I see myself drawn to those things that I never wanted to do with him because I'm happy now. So I guess if my ex saw me doing these things he would say that I'm being fake…

It didn't happen to me but to the person who sent this to his dad instead of me - gosh I am SO horny right now, I think it's from seeing you at the gym. His dad responded and said "um....I don't think you meant to send this to me"......I laughed because I was totally the third party. My "friend" didn't think it was so…

Where I was going with the dressing thing was older men seem to dress like it's still the late 70's & early 80's. Shirts tucked in. Plain white tennis shoes with jeans.

I actually got one of them (off Match) to send me a bottle of wine for my birthday. I knew he wasn't legit so I gave him my work address so he could send me a gift. I still knew he wasn't legit but I did get a bottle of wine. I agree with all you said about how to identify them.

I dated 2 Davids back to back. My ex husband is Mark and I've dated 2 Marks. I chalk it up to just being common names.

Let him drive to you. That way in case he's a jerk he's the one will all the extra miles on his car.

Of all the people to say this to how on earth could you have picked her???!!! I bet you felt awful :(

I'm glad you met a nice guy. So sorry about your aunt.

My only issue with older men is how they dress.

Be yourself. Dress like yourself. You are going to be nervous. Try and plan your time so you are ready at the right time. Too early and you'll sit around and make yourself sick.

I love that nervous excited feeling. It means you are alive!!! I say just be yourself and enjoy the lunch.

Thanks. This is what I've been trying to do. The giving it time thing.

you miss the sex!!!

I'm not. Personally I fell in love with him about a month ago. He knows how I feel and when I told him his response was everytime we hang out his feelings for me grow and he thinks that is how it's supposed to be. I told him I agree and I'm good with that. He's had 2 relationships in the past that both began as one night…

Eeek. I hadn't thought of this. He sure doesn't treat me like a mom though.