HerNameIsMischief Member

I want to be seen as average; I don't like people pointing out how "huge" I am. A lot of people here don't want to be seen as big and so they lose weight in part to try and kill those rude …

Yeah, and maybe if you had met him at your higher weight, he wouldn't have been attracted to you enough to want to get to know you/date you. Looks usually come first, especially now that most dating …

I think it's ugly. Football players are big and bald. Professional wrestlers. Bikers. That's not who I am. It makes me feel horrible even if someone does find me attractive because it always confirms…

I hate it, even more so because everyone expects me to LIKE being seen this way. "Oh, you're being ridiculous, every guy wishes he were bigger." I feel so angry that other people here can l…

I'm listening to my own voice. Nobody told me "being big is bad, you should hate it." It's just not "me". I feel like I look the opposite of who I am and I often get prejudged bas…